This person was not attracted (preferred others) to me for many years, now they say he says he is. Do I believe him?
2007-01-25 07:14:01 · 7 answers · asked by Cheryl F 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
think it happens all of the time, we may reject someone than years later we are more mature, we may see that this person we once rejected has qualities we are looking for. why would he lie to u, what does he have to gain by lying?
2007-01-25 10:54:46 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Years ago my now husband asked me if I wanted a boyfriend, and I said, no, why-you lookin for a girlfriend---don't worry you'll find someone ..and I didn't see him again for another 2 or 3 years...now we've been married for 3 1/2 years
2007-01-25 07:38:44 · answer #2 · answered by Virgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch Forest Gump... The answer is "yes."
I didn't look twice at my husband for almost 5 years. On the sixth year it was kind of like, "Oh wow! You've been here all along.. I'm a moron, let's start dating."
About two years later we were married.
2007-01-25 07:28:08 · answer #3 · answered by footprint 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
I never gave my (now) husband a second look, and then one day, he seemed different. Physically he even changed. Guess it is the way WE change or needs change, that we can see people differently.
2007-01-25 07:30:03 · answer #4 · answered by Linda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens all the time, esp. when you start to get to know someone. The personality makes the person physically attrtactive sometimes.
2007-01-25 07:48:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things happen.
People grow up. As they do their views change. Perhaps it just wasn't time until now.
2007-01-25 07:28:12 · answer #6 · answered by King H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure he can..
2007-01-25 07:47:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋