I do not want him back, he was no good for me.. total LOOSER! But when we kissed ..OMG I felt something I never felt before, and SEX.....WOW..spank me choke me pull my hair! He knew what to do! How do I replace that..never met anyone that could make me feel the way he did! Was it love? Please help......!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-25 07:11:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It wasn't love but just that he knew what to do to make you feel those things. You will find someone else who can, or even better, someone you love that you can explore how to feel those things with.
2007-01-25 07:20:53 · answer #1 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it doesnt seem like it was love. It seems that you need someone to just take care of you not just to have sex and kiss and whatever but that i mean if he wasnt good to you and you dont want him back then you need to first know that you deserve better and move on. i know its hard and i always felt when i was being broke up with someone if they just told me that they hated me it would be so easier to get over the person but i mean i hope all is well. maybe you can help me on my problem. take care hope all goes well with you.
2007-01-25 07:23:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are putting too much emphasis on sex. Don't cloud your thoughts on the physical think about why he became an ex. Fill your time with some positive things, volunteer your time some place, read something to enhance your life or be a mentor. Whatever you do, do it well. Don't allow a loser to make you one too.
2007-01-25 07:25:34 · answer #3 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That wasn't real true love. That was just lust. He made you feel good in bed. But not in everything else in your life. True love is when you find the person that will made you feel wonderful in every part of your life. You will find that person. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2007-01-25 07:24:00 · answer #4 · answered by romeo3448 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time. Sometimes we love or are attracted to people we know aren't good for us. You'll probably always feel something for him...but at least you realize it wouldn't have been good for you. You have to stop comparing other people to him, though, or you'll never be happy. Look for the good things in guys, the things he didn't have. And not everything is physical. :-)
2007-01-25 07:21:21 · answer #5 · answered by Chiara 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like lust more than love... if he was no good for you and a total loser, then i'm guessing he's not the one... even though the sex was great (lol)... u can always find that in someone else... although it might not be as great... but its out there for u!!!
good luck!
2007-01-25 07:23:11 · answer #6 · answered by Nessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become the trainer next time try honesty by not sharing your feelings about the relationship your shooting yourself in the foot.
2007-01-25 07:26:34 · answer #7 · answered by Unoptrid1aq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're trying to rationalize this when you obviously DO want him. I'd bet you're back with him (at least physically) within a week.
2007-01-25 07:20:36 · answer #8 · answered by woobinator 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lust and love are very different, you definately got the lust.
2007-01-25 07:21:43 · answer #9 · answered by PleaseNoMoreNumbers 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is lust not love, a therapist might help if you enjoy being hurt
2007-01-25 07:20:31 · answer #10 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋