Some people say that there sex life goes down hill after marriage, give me some ideas to keep it spicy, be explicit if you must but try to keep it clean.
2007-01-25 06:51:52 · 7 answers · asked by Todd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't believe in marriage. ;-)
2007-01-25 07:05:03 · answer #1 · answered by yumyum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is sex after marriage. The tricks are to keep it spontaneous, learn new techniques and learn to trust one another. The key to it all is to not do the same thing over and over again. Try to role play and use toys.
If you have kids never let them sleep in the bed with the two of you. Keep them in there own rooms at bed time. That ruins things to no end when the kids think that it is okay to go to mom and dads bed when they have a nightmare or something.
Try new positions, and explore all the areas of your sexuality together. Try his suggestion one night and hers the next. It can get better if you just remain friends and get comfortable enough with one another to trust that if you try something and don't like that you are not going to get mad and if it hurts and you say stop that they will stop.
This is a matter of trust and friendship. Too many times in a marriage things start to separate you. Like money matters and the kids, etc. You have to remain friends and talk through things and when you do this, the line of communication and trust will stay open and the flames will continue to burn.
2007-01-25 07:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by Jamie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An open marriage where both people have multiple partners tends to keep the sex pretty good.
2007-01-25 06:59:10 · answer #3 · answered by Add Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that there is sex after marrage and that it can go down hill with SOME people buit do what you thinnk is a good sex to her. She will love it.
2007-01-25 07:13:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try different things once in awhile keep it new and fresh.
You get used to what your partner likes and she gets to know what you like. Win-lose situation
Have fun
2007-01-25 07:00:31 · answer #5 · answered by Crystal Blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, that's one of the reason to be married. Constant sex.
2007-01-25 07:02:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try switching up how you do it, where you do it, when you do it. Don't always do it at night in the bed you on top this gets to be repetitive therefor BORING
2007-01-25 07:01:44 · answer #7 · answered by slynswope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋