2007-01-25 06:27:09 · 22 answers · asked by Janelle M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
1 of 2 things:
1: They are just ******* and don't want you to succeed in life
OR
2: You make stupid decisions.
2007-01-25 06:32:09 · answer #1 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you've probably heard this a million times. They want whats best for you and they don't want you to get hurt. They love you. It may seem because they don't agree with what you want to that they are out to ruin your life but there not. They're keeping your best interest in mind . If you decide is really important to you and it means that much. Do a little research. Then sit down with them and talk to them about your decisions. Explain to them why you made the decisions you made. talk to them rationally. Also Think about your desicions and also think about how they would affect your life and the lives of your family members. I know what you going through but you know what its ok everything will work out some how.
2007-01-25 06:35:30 · answer #2 · answered by purplepurp21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What decisions are they not supporting? Your family loves you and only wants what is best for you. Even if they don't support you, you have to do what is best for you! They will either come around or just not say anything.
2007-01-25 06:31:20 · answer #3 · answered by princessbummer 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are just making bad decisions, no good family would support a bad decision!
Unfortunately, no one on YA has any idea what your decisions were, so none of us can be of any help to you anyway.
2007-01-25 06:31:46 · answer #4 · answered by answerman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell us what your decision was.
The answers might be different if your decision was to jump off a cliff or to take some one on a date.
2007-01-25 06:34:29 · answer #5 · answered by Male_42_us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your decisions in the past have not been good ones. Try talking to them to make them understand where you're coming from. Let them know you've thought out your reasons for what you're doing.
2007-01-25 06:32:59 · answer #6 · answered by Dianne C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe they aren't the right ones? or maybe they just don't understand. when everyone is calm, sit down and have a talk with them. let them know why you're making these decisions, and also don't forget to hear them out. Maybe they're concerened about something and you need to reassure them that whatever it is you decide is the right and best decision for you.
Hope I've helped!
2007-01-25 06:32:20 · answer #7 · answered by .:*giggles*:. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes family members do that to discourage or help in some messed up way. If they won't support your desisions then you need to just try it first, show them you are dedicated to what you want. You don't need their approval if it's something you want to do that you know you have the ability to do that. Have faith in yourself, then maybe they will catch on. LOL
2007-01-25 06:33:21 · answer #8 · answered by ~* Garden Empress*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. Hillary did not support my decision about Monica. Signed...Bill C.
2007-01-25 06:36:13 · answer #9 · answered by trucks2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say what your decisions are - so how can we try to help you with a good answer?
2007-01-25 06:31:37 · answer #10 · answered by lifesajoy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋