only girls may answer. can some one tell me that how do u feel when boy who is a good friend of yours for a long time, comes and propose u one day. is it ok with u or do u feel bad about it.
Secondly what would be ur reaction if u dont feel the same for that boy, would u stop talking to him or would u remain freinds for ever. I am asking this because i want to propose one of my friend whom i have been liking since an year. so please send me ur thoughts on this and if possible also suggest me what i should do next PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-25 06:18:19 · 21 answers · asked by yudi k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try dating then see where it goes from there
2007-01-25 06:25:15 · answer #1 · answered by Crystal Blue 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm not a girl, but then again I'm not answering your question. This has no place in the fast food section. I don't care if you think more people visit this section, the whole reason for having sections is so people who want to answer questions about dining out, dont have to deal with immature brats asking what would happen if a boy touched your @ss.
2016-05-23 22:54:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST TRY TO FIND OUT THAT WHETHER THE GIRL LOVES NYONE OR NOT. AND IT MAY B POSSIBLE THAT SHE LOVES U. SO IF U COME TO KNOW THAT THEN U CAN TELL HER.
SHE IS OBVIOUSLY NOT GOING TO TELL U THAT SHE LOVES U BUT THEN U WILL HAVE TO TAKE SOME OF HER FRIEND INTO CONFIDENCE OR U WILL HAVE TO MAKE OUT BY HER BEHAVIOUR.AND EVEN IF SHE DOES NOT LOVE U I DONT THINK THAT SHE WILL B ANGRY WITH U IF U PROPOSE HER BUT REMEMBER THAT IF SHE REJECTS THE PROPOSAL THEN DONT GO ABOUT REQUESTING HER AND TELLING HER UR FEELINGS ALL THE TIME AS IF U DO SO SHE MAY STOP TALKING TO U.
2007-01-25 14:47:35 · answer #3 · answered by SUSH 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say you have tell her but before saying it directly let her feel by ur care and ur thinking regarding her that u luv her or tell some of ur friend to ask her that does she like u and want to spend her life wid u
c her reaction
if her reaction is positive than dont take time to propose her
and if reaction is negative than better tell her that you love her it may be watever relation a friends or a girlfriends
2007-01-25 20:12:37 · answer #4 · answered by ziya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you want to propose to this girl, and you're not in a relationship with her currently? Is that what you're saying? She's just a friend? Do not do it if this is the case. Maybe you need to clarify your situation.
If I were in the girl's shoes, I would personally think that you may be crazy, but I would reject you politely, since you are a good friend of mine.
2007-01-25 06:34:06 · answer #5 · answered by Licia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if a guy asked me to go out with him, and I didn't like him, I would say no just like that. But if he were my friend well.. if I didn't like him I don't know. Maybe I would tell him I'd think about it. You don't want to hurt a friend. But maybe then I would be really embarrassed to be around him. Before you make a move, find out if she likes you first. If you can risk it, you might want to ask her friends or something but usually friends will tell her that you asked. Take it one step at a time and be patient until you find out if she likes you, if you really value your friendship that much. Sorry that I couldn't help more! Good luck.
EDIT: Propose? As in getting MARRIED? You have to go out with her first, man! lol!
2007-01-25 06:32:03 · answer #6 · answered by gingi_01 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
lol..yudi...i think ur an indian...n these ppl dont actually know the idiomatic interpretation of 'proposing'...
I assume u guys are VERY good frnds..it must have, no doubt, crossed her mind too that she's attracted to u...but maybe even she dreaded the consequences of takin it to the next level...
so my suggestion is start showin ur feelings non verbally..(well do u guys get physical alot..lol..im nt talkin bout kinky stuff.. if u do..then u can hug her or w\e...if not ..dare u try touch her thence coz that would certainly help u get rejected)..n u know whats the nicest trick?...make her friends feel that u love her!...n girlfrnds are like bbc news,,,they'll immediately inform it to ur frnd (who u like)..mention ur name every other time...tease her...etc etc...which would cerntainly help her to either realize the unalarmed love or start feelin for u....( im sayin this coz i got my crushes coz of my frnds teasing me by their names)
take my say dude...u'll thank me for the rest of ur life...(n yes try to keep up with her...)
however, messin with frndshp isn't conducive either...good frnds are rare to find...
lol..i know i left u in a mess...but u got brains n guts..so use it
hope this helps...cya ....n do lemme know how it went
2007-01-25 07:47:25 · answer #7 · answered by close_in_destroy_everything 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be observant,don't you have any clue at all that might suggest that she likes you too? Is she the same to all other friends or there's a special treatment that you feel from her? otherwise,it's much better to remain as friends....no chance of losing her....
2007-01-25 15:53:34 · answer #8 · answered by josie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, that did happen to me ... and we have been married for ten years now and are still as much 'in love' as we were when he first asked me to marry him. BUT ... we also TALKED about 'where our relationship was going' and were actually living together when he asked me. The day we 'actually started going together' I was CLUELESS, because he didn't say anything to me, and I 'misread his clues' ... but I laughed myself silly the next day when we did the one thing that made me realize I was his 'one woman forever' ...
So ... I guess I'm telling you that you need to do at least a little 'groundwork' to find out if she 'loves you' in the same way that you love her ... even if that means having a 'very awkward talk' about the 'direction' your 'relationship is going' ...
2007-01-25 06:28:46 · answer #9 · answered by Kris L 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it is really a great idea to propose to a friend. You should definititely take it slower...start making outings romantic. Taking her out to dinner and paying for it. Going to the movies, opening doors for her...make her aware that you have feelings for her. Then after you've done that, talk to her about your feelings. Tell her how you feel. Then start dating...you have to take baby steps. Proposing to a friend is skipping many steps! Theres no need to rush things.
2007-01-25 06:25:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hey u r taking anti advantage of ur friendship , pl dont ask her. She may have lover, as u r only a friend.
2007-01-25 06:42:26 · answer #11 · answered by man_red58 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋