2007-01-25 06:22:28 · 23 answers · asked by She She 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Steak and a Bl@wjob.
2007-01-25 06:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by Gasman 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Assuming the guy is single and available, there are a few things that you can do: maintain eye contact for a brief moment and give him a warm smile; chat with him when you can and talk about mutual interests - find out what he likes, dislikes (it might be women that come onto him); do you have a mutual friend that can help out in a classy sort of way; how well do you know him?- can you bake him a goody treat; do you have a special event coming up where you need an escort; be yourself. If he is not shy, talks with you and enjoys being around you, if he is interested he will ask you. You cannot force someone to be interested when it is not to be or the right time. Assuming that it was meant to be and it is the right time - smile. Flatter yourself in mannerism, dress and decorum. Good luck and you go girl!
2007-01-25 14:34:37 · answer #2 · answered by Nia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things, look your best and do one thing new each day to make yourself more intelligent and smarter. Don't try too hard. I knew this one girl who was traveling all the time and going on river rafting tours and stuff to try and meet people. Don't just do things to meet people. Do what you like to do and take it from there.
The key is that you have to look good and seem interesting. A little bit of mysteriousness is good too. Don't be too open about who you are or he will think you are the gossipy type and most men find gossipy people extremely uninteresting.
2007-01-25 14:28:54 · answer #3 · answered by Tones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most good guys don't like to be chased! They despise it!! On the other hand the bad guys will use the chase to their advantage and that ain't good news!!! Good guys demonstrate sincerity, when you allow them to make the advances. They're usually not quick to proposition sex, because they don't want to be hurt or used, either. (referring to: nymphos/gold diggers)
Although, there's a "misconception" in today's young society that that is not true, I challenge those who are skeptical to research the facts. (psychologist, psychiatrists) Talking with these experts, they'll learn that women who put the pressure on men for a relationship found themselves emotionally devasted/impaired and had to seek long-term counseling, that for many, can be on-going for years. Healthy relationships terminate without behaving destructively and then the healing process begins, promising good results we can learn from and chalk up to experience; not emotional baggage we'll have to bear for years to come. ** The pain others can cause us, can also affect us for a lifetime! **
Women are not emotionally resillient like men, especially, when we've become involved in a sexual or romantic relationship, where the end results were: used, abused, or abandoned. It's guarantee is absolute, even if it's a conscential sexual relationship. This is why 90% of extra-martial affairs, fail.
For your protection and happiness, the safest/healthiest approach is to simply make yourself available,but, without being obvious. Changing your lunch hour to his lunch hour, thereby, putting yourself in the lunch/lounge room @ the same time, as one example. If he fails to notice you and/or conversations between you both continue to hit "dead ends," then like so many of us women who have been in those shoes, just graciously accept the fact that he's not interested and move on! There are soooo many fish in the sea, that one should never give up on themself! You want someone who'll love and cherish you, not deliberately break your heart.
You deserve the best and GOOD LUCK !!
2007-01-25 15:38:31 · answer #4 · answered by Cara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i say always be ya self no matter what if a guy like u he'll let u know 4 sure so if u dress lets say not in fashion then try 2up grade ya apperance try some different maybe he will like it usally guys like agurl that can make them laugh or have them going 4 the chase do things 2make him won der wow its something i jut love bot that gurl espeacally if u 2 have chemistry already...
2007-01-25 14:29:50 · answer #5 · answered by tiffany f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some things you have to let evolve on its own. If he's not showing interest in you, it could be because he's interested in someone else. Don't make a fool of yourself trying too hard. Let it happen on its own. Introduce yourself and then see what happens after that...............
2007-01-25 14:30:24 · answer #6 · answered by Star1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, don't get involved with someone you work with. Think about what would happen if things didn't work out, it would make it a really awkward situation to be in.
2007-01-25 14:26:36 · answer #7 · answered by JD 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone, working relationships, does not always work out, it usually, ends up one of you have to end up leaving. Just try and be his friend. Now who knows where that will take you!
2007-01-25 14:28:22 · answer #8 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't force people to like you, however you can make an effort to spend more time with him, engage in conversation and hope that things transpire the way you would like.
2007-01-25 14:28:07 · answer #9 · answered by smedrik 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eye contact is the first step and then a little smile doesnt hurt either. He'll know you are interested.
2007-01-25 14:26:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't get men to be interested.
Is that how it work's with women?
Can we MAKE women like us if they don't to begin with?
2007-01-25 14:29:19 · answer #11 · answered by neyoneyon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋