Family & Relationships - 25 January 2007

is it ok to expect the man to have dinner on the table, the house taken care of and the kids in order when she gets in?

2007-01-25 05:50:35 · 57 answers · asked by Smoochy Poochy 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'v posted a few questions about my husband and I being unable to carry a pregnancy (3 miscarriages, 1 stillbirth in 2 years) and my DR wants me to give up because it is playing havoc on my hormones in my body and she's concerned about my mental health. I want to give up too. Adoption is still an option and we are signed up for it and on the waiting list. We still do need to raise a few thousand dollars before we can go onto the next step though, but I'm going to be 40 soon and thinking of shutting this whole thing down. Many people are saying that in order to save my marriage I should do ANYTHING to get a child, whether its surrogacy, in vitro, (woudlnt work, I can't carry a pregnancy) or asking a family member to have one for me. I'm not sure how correct this is...if my marriage is going to fail if we don't have children, then is it really fair to put the whole success of the marriage on to a poor innocent child? What do you think?

2007-01-25 05:50:21 · 38 answers · asked by stripedbook 5 in Marriage & Divorce

He cant go because there are people there that dont like him and told me that if he comes they are going to beat him up. I dont have any control over who can come to this party or not. And its my Best Friends party. If I dont go then she will be upset and wonder why I didnt come. I want to go I just dont want my boyfriend to try and tell me I cant go because he cant. Because no matter what i am going. I just dont want him to be mad at me what should i do? Please Help!

2007-01-25 05:50:01 · 9 answers · asked by C'Vale Chick 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 05:49:46 · 3 answers · asked by DURRELL 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont need crap about u need help. yourr emo. or something. i am just saying. i dont want to hear any go get help or this is a prank. It is simply a question not to be fooled around with. because if i were you i wouldnt make fun of emos. i dont make fun of emos because i dont think SELF MUTILATION and SUICIDE it does not mean that i am emo. just dont make fun of me or this ? just

what if it was your only way out?
now be serious
u guys are prob thinking" kid, life cant be that hard" but i want reall answers from real people if you put crap and stuff i will have you reported....

because suicide and self mutilation isnt funny

2007-01-25 05:49:35 · 58 answers · asked by sunny 4 in Friends

Well I have been married for 9 years. We have split up one time before. In that one time my husband found comfort talking to another female. Well now we just recently split up again and he has already found someone else to talk to. He is always finding these people at work. I am curious what I should do. We have 4 kids together, and I love him. But do I just let go or do I fight?

2007-01-25 05:49:11 · 6 answers · asked by jac6jam 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-25 05:48:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 05:48:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 05:47:42 · 11 answers · asked by didi 2 in Singles & Dating

I am in a long distance relationship. Our one year anniversary was yesterday but we couldn't see each other. I expected to get flowers or something delivered but NOTHING. Am i too demanding for expecting that? I am so sick of flipping on my bf he doesnt do anything right!!!

2007-01-25 05:47:22 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel my marriage is dead. We have not been intimate with each other for many, many years. Too embrassed to state here.
The kids are grown and away at school. Is this the time. I held off until I felt I was ready and the kids were older. I feel this is the time. We do not communicate, but live in the same house. How does one start a conversation with " I think we need to divorce".
Or is it that simple?
Maybe, I lack the courage to do this because of the fear of being alone and not being able to find another.
Thanks for your reples!

2007-01-25 05:47:06 · 22 answers · asked by married2long? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-25 05:46:10 · 16 answers · asked by Bbee 1 in Singles & Dating

First it was does he like me and then what do I get him for valentines day and finally

Do I call him everyday? If I do, I feel like I am taking control of his life. He called me last night and he was like "I just wanted to say hey" and I was like awwwww. He's so sweet. I have never had a boyfriend before but he has had two girlfriends. I am15 and he is 16. anyways I don't know what to do. I don't want to suffocate him but I don't want to be distant either. argh.

Also, whenever we talk on the phone there are a lot of silences cause we both never know what to say. I would much rather talk on AIM. Thanks a lot to anyone who answers.

2007-01-25 05:44:28 · 12 answers · asked by Kali 2 in Singles & Dating

We both are in the military, both the same rank, but he has a lot of finacial problems so his checks are really low.

So my check alone has been carrying us through. I am very upset that all the money I had saved before our marriage is gone already and we have only been married since November.

And on top of all that I just found out I was pregnant, and I was on birth control, so things just keep pileing on top of us, and I don't know if I can stand it anymore? I want to work things out but he says we have no problems and I'm acting like a child. I think I have every right to be worried about the financial problems.

2007-01-25 05:43:49 · 20 answers · asked by Torey♥ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

This is complicated.

I live in a shared house and over the two years and four months I have known my landlord, I know him quite well. I have been through some horiffic times of having no electricity for six weeks and seven weeks of building and drilling work on the house that he has done much renovation.

There are currently nine people living in the house and one of them I have known for a year. He is 32, a year younger than me and very nice most of the time, but he is judgemental and takes over the conversation a lot and is pretty self-possessed. I mostly try and ignore or agree with him on many things but have recently kept my distance when he seems to be gossiping about me and giving me the impression that he is against me for some unknown reason and possibly because I also have an opinion too.

A recent situation has erupted and a girl had locked herself out of her room and she came to me in tears. It was late and the landlord refused to come out at 6pm as he was in the pub.

2007-01-25 05:42:53 · 13 answers · asked by Shikira-trudi 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and him dated for about a month or longer and since we broke up he won't even talk to me but he looks at me when i am not looking but i see him at the corner of my eye and there is a part of me that wants him back but i don't know plz tell me what you think.

2007-01-25 05:42:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

bf of three years broke up with me. i would always be the one to apologize and promised to change everytime there is a fight or break up. he has faults and mistakes too but i did the kissing up. this time he won't budge when i asked him to come back. it has been two weeks. i'm just hoping he'll realize he misses me and will want me back. has this ever happened to you can you please share your story.

2007-01-25 05:42:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or do you want me to mind my own business even if you're my good friend?

What if you're family? Should I tell you that your spouse or SO is cheating on you?

2007-01-25 05:41:36 · 18 answers · asked by Hank Hill 3 in Marriage & Divorce

1-angry ,grummpy ,snaps back most of the time
2- loss of sex drive is not intrested in sex
3-things dont seem right between you and her
4-her phone bill is always high
NOTE: check phone records if you suspect anything funny
Whatever you do dont let her now what your doing
5-works late but her paycheck the same
6- goes out on "girls night out " watch this one might be guys night out
Just some things i wanted to share with all you guys out there always try to treat her right if she snubbs you somthing is wrong

2007-01-25 05:40:51 · 4 answers · asked by richard c 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it wrong to ask someone if you could sit with them in class, but later found out that they are married? Does this start an uncomfortable situation for them and you? Are you at fault?

2007-01-25 05:40:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 05:39:45 · 10 answers · asked by Gary W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Where was your nuatiest first time. And how was it.

2007-01-25 05:39:37 · 20 answers · asked by Luvless 1 in Singles & Dating

haterz means people that hate u cuz u got something they want or it also means they are jealous of u

2007-01-25 05:39:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I believe that when you are married to someone you should both have access to all accounts, passwords and everything. My Husbands (of 5 months) thinks he should be able to have his phone account with a password I do not know. He has one service company, I have another until my contract runs out. My deal is, if you have nothing to hide why would any account be "untouchable". I caught him having 2 very long conversations with a former spouse. Together they came to over 2 hours. They have a kid together and he said the conversation was about her. When I checked his phone records and brought this to his attention he changed his password and told me I was "snooping". I am an open book when it comes to my "stuff". There is nothing he can not get into because I have nothing to hide. I am not saying he does, but should a wife and husband have privacy issues. That is my question.

2007-01-25 05:38:58 · 10 answers · asked by jtcurry58 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We talked lastnight about the things he wanted to talk to me about. He wanted to know what would happened if he kissed me?
Would I get mad at him? What does this mean? Help me please

2007-01-25 05:37:42 · 5 answers · asked by Grace's Mommy.. 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I live together... We've been together 5 months and we each have one child from previous relationships... both of whom live with us. We went to a friends house last weekend and I found out that he cheated on his ex-wife and that is why their marriage ended... his ex-girlfriend and him used to have drug parties... and they used to meet couples online and... well, you can fill in the rest. I know it was in the past, but I feel betrayed and lied to! He told me he had never cheated on anybody... and that he has never done hard drugs. I know that he is ashamed, but I can't even look at him now! He tries to touch me and I just get disgusted and move away! I don't know how to ask him about it... or bring it up... Any ideas!?

2007-01-25 05:37:21 · 40 answers · asked by JustMe 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay I'm 18 and I've met this wonderful girl (17) I really like her we've been together 3 months and we have really grown attached to each other. Should I be worried if she is already asking me about love, children, and marriage?

2007-01-25 05:37:07 · 24 answers · asked by Tone_Loc 2 in Singles & Dating

I just want to know from baby mother's out there. Its not an issue anymore, but, I was a good dude to this one girl, come to find out when we broke up, she said she was back with her baby daddy. Was she seeing him during our relationship? Was the baby an excuse to be back with that man? The thing is, I took her from him after they broke up.

2007-01-25 05:36:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i have a big problem iam going out with my bestfriends cuzen and iam afraid if me and him brake up that he'll tell her everything that me and him did together what should i do if he does and she diapproves of it and dosent talk to me cuz of it?????

2007-01-25 05:36:08 · 6 answers · asked by gbabie 1 in Singles & Dating

I'v been married almost 3 years. We've had 4 miscarriages and my personality has changed due to all the hormones. I am very emotional and suffering from post partum depression. I also have a hard time controlling my anger. I think it's getting better. The last time I got angry in December my husband told me he felt like he was falling out of love with me. Then I got angry again on Monday over something related to my last miscarriage. I took it out on my husband because he said one snide remark, and I apologized for yelling at him and getting emotional but since then he's been cold, hasn't kissed me goodnight, never phones me from work anymore just to say hi, and cancelled our dinner plans this weekend because he wants to work instead. I don't want to rock the boat anymore, so should I just wait and see if his feelings will come back.
Does anyone else stay with someone that they aren't sure theyre in love with anymore? I still really love him, but I don't think he feels the same.

2007-01-25 05:36:03 · 17 answers · asked by stripedbook 5 in Marriage & Divorce