bf of three years broke up with me. i would always be the one to apologize and promised to change everytime there is a fight or break up. he has faults and mistakes too but i did the kissing up. this time he won't budge when i asked him to come back. it has been two weeks. i'm just hoping he'll realize he misses me and will want me back. has this ever happened to you can you please share your story.
2007-01-25 05:42:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well i went out with this guy for TWO years he ended the relationship for "personal" reasons ( i hate when they say that) well we were apart for two months before he asked me back out... when he asked me it was the CLASSIC... i love you i miss you... (when really it means i couldnt find anyone better so lets work it out) i said yes... STUPID! we went out for two months and he broke my heart again! i say move on and make yourself happy..i know you think you are happy now but if a guy breaks your heart once and he knows it.. he will take FULL advantage of it.. now i am married to the LOVE of my life... and he would NEVER hurt me... find your self someone who will treat you like the GODDESS you are!
2007-01-25 05:56:59 · answer #1 · answered by bubbles16701 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes....I was with my ex for two years and sometimes when we broke up and I thought we were done b/c he said he had had enough.. I never thought he would come back and I would kiss up to him and I missed him so much...After a while I started to move on and he got mad b/c I no longer was kissing up to him and giving him attention. He hated that I was living without him and moving on with my life and everytime I start get close to someone else he would jump back in the picture and beg me to take him back and everything....So if you really want him back act like you can move on hang out with your friends more to get your mind off of him easier... He'll come around....but before you do this really think about it .....me and my boyfriend are finally done and I really couldn't be happier......Really ask yourself do you want someone who only wants you b/c you make him feel like he can't do no wrong and that you just screw up all the time....I had two years with my ex and now I just think of all the time I lost because I was unhappy with him but I loved him...If he makes you happy then go for it but if things turn out bad please leave him and don't go back...you don't want to waste your life away for someone who can't sorry or make you feel special....
2007-01-25 05:52:04 · answer #2 · answered by Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if he is either sure of your love for him, or that the problems between you two have not been resolved. Maybe he is trying not to make it easy to go back to you so as to motivate you to change. This is a way some people try to control the other person. Or he just decided to move on. Sounds like a stubborn sort of guy. Your best bet is not to call him anymore. What good would it do if you continue to call him and ask him back? This has happened to me, right now it is happening, and my bf has not called me either, he got used to me being the one to call him back. I have not called him either. He either loves me or he doesn't.
2007-01-25 05:51:49 · answer #3 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....... I saw this episode on Sweet Sixteen and this girl's boyfriend dumped her right before her party and she was crying forever and pissed off too. But right at the party cause he was already invited, he was alone with her and he asked her if they could be together and she was laughing so hard and rejected him cause she said she knew he would come back to her. So even if your heartbroken you should move on and find a real companion that give you up before unless you feel that you really have feelings for him and you won't have doubts of having him back in your life.
2007-01-25 05:57:37 · answer #4 · answered by dancer4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well one of my ex's was the same way. I must of liked him more then he liked me. So in your case he'll realize what he's missing or move on. In my case he moved on and so did I, and now im happier then i ever would have been with him. I found a new guy who is 100% better and im sure you will two, because trust me i have had the worst luck with guys and now its great, hope i helped good luck :]
2007-01-25 05:50:22 · answer #5 · answered by Jesica<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need him. If this guy is gonna make you appologize every time He screws up than why would you even want him back? I had to ask my self this same question a few weeks ago, I went out with this guy last year but he treated me badly. this year he asked me out again and i was excited cuz i wanted him back so i said yes. It didn't last very long. I thought he ttly hated me cuz he wouldn't even talk to me, I was wasting all my time on this guy that was so full of himself while many other amazing guys Realy liked me. Once i gave up on him at least 3 guys asked me out. Now i 'm with the most amazing guy in the world who respects and loves me. Just drop the guy cuz your to good for him. Don't let him get to you, thats wat he wants. Plus you could meet the boy of your dreams that is soooo your type and he won't treat you like dirt.
2007-01-25 05:55:13 · answer #6 · answered by MaryKate D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didnt you ask this already just a half hour ago? It sounds familiar. Why would YOU always say your sorry? Low self esteem issues here i say. If he isnt budging he's done with you and starting to move on. Probaly already has another girl and that's why he's not budging. Get on with your life. It's over.
2007-01-25 05:47:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've already asked this. Believe me, people have broken up and gotten back together. Statistically, it MUST have happened - there are over 6 billion people on the planet. The question should not be whether it is likely he will try to get back with you - the question is why you'd want to get back with him!
2007-01-25 05:48:18 · answer #8 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow....the same thing happened to me but it was like 2.5 years. I was always the one to tell him that I was sorry and everything. I really loved him but I guess he didnt understand. It took me a long time to get over him but then I thought...If he does like me and think about me, why should I??? Just think about how he doesnt appreciate you.
2007-01-25 05:49:40 · answer #9 · answered by ~B~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex of a longgggg time dumped me and about a month later I started dating my current boyfriend and my ex saw me and Tyler Current Boyfriend and was begging at my feet for me to go back out with him not only did I say no to him but Tyler embarrased him in front of the whole wrestling team for what he did to me before.
2007-01-25 05:49:56 · answer #10 · answered by hebblethwaitesgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋