He cant go because there are people there that dont like him and told me that if he comes they are going to beat him up. I dont have any control over who can come to this party or not. And its my Best Friends party. If I dont go then she will be upset and wonder why I didnt come. I want to go I just dont want my boyfriend to try and tell me I cant go because he cant. Because no matter what i am going. I just dont want him to be mad at me what should i do? Please Help!
2007-01-25 05:50:01 · 9 answers · asked by C'Vale Chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is just like my ex's problem. he always tries to control what i did and who i hung out with. i was around him so much that i started doing it to him. even though we broke up i still wonder wher he is going what he is doing, and who he is with. we have been going out for three years and we just broke up. you have to tell your boyfriend that he shoudll trust you. if he doesn't then you shouldn't be with him. i have to get over that problem. you have to let hin know that you wom't do anything bad or stupid.
2007-01-25 06:48:12 · answer #1 · answered by can'ywait2getoutofhere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go the the party and tell your boyfriend to grow up. What kinds of things is he doing that people want to beat him up for? Tell him you're going for your friend- it's her party. She's your best friend.
2007-01-25 08:20:16 · answer #2 · answered by wrjones559_1999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend texts my perfect chum and that i have in view that requested thghem to end and we were given into the biggest arguments. I swear they have achieved some thing yet they both wont admit it. im curiously no longer meant to have thoughts cos when I do ask why theyre nonetheless texting and reported if I had achieved the same it is a diverse tale altogether. in the experience that your bf is doing this smartest component to do is to coat them both. little need living your life wondering in the experience that they did or did not. save your self the headache and bypass on. unlucky for me im no longer practically as good as that I wanna get to the bottom of it.
2016-10-16 02:26:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just explain to him the situation that its your BEST FRIEND. tell him that your sorry but he shouldnt tell you what you can or cannot do. or where you cant go. tell him that you understand where hes coming from but he should let you go since its your best friends party and he should understand that its important.
2007-01-25 05:56:43 · answer #4 · answered by j yanks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should tell your friend your man is uncomfortable being there with these other dudes, so you won't be coming. Maybe she isn't your bestfreind if she puts these other guys in front of your guy?
2007-01-25 05:58:01 · answer #5 · answered by frank t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not your fault that theres people at the paty that want to beat him up, and its not fair to make you stay home becuse of it, and if he really loves you he will understand.
2007-01-25 05:58:01 · answer #6 · answered by shadow_is_back_2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go and dont worry about him
2007-01-25 05:57:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your best friend how u feel
2007-01-25 05:54:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so go! You've known her longer than you've known him anyway...
2007-01-25 06:03:21 · answer #9 · answered by Lucy_Goosy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋