Or do you want me to mind my own business even if you're my good friend?
What if you're family? Should I tell you that your spouse or SO is cheating on you?
2007-01-25 05:41:36 · 18 answers · asked by Hank Hill 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If it was a one time thing and it is completely over. Don't tell me.
If it is still going on.............confront HIM and let him tell me.
2007-01-25 05:49:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I prefer a friend or family member approach the cheater and tell him to come clean or threaten that they would. At least you are giving him the option. But I don't think a person should be kept in the dark. Health is also an issue here. If you lose that person because they feel you have interfered take pride that you feel you have done the best thing and move on. That person just chooses to live in regretful denial. It is also good to have proof. Cell phones with cams and texts work wonders lol.
2007-01-25 05:47:14 · answer #2 · answered by Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not even friends, it might not be your business. If you are related, or are friends, tell if you have facts (NOT gossip). If you only have gossip, tell the spouse who is supposedly cheating about the gossip (to put them on notice) and then just watch more closely. Don't put any judgement on either party, just tell the person the facts. Then let them do what they will without judging, just be supportive.
2007-01-25 05:52:25 · answer #3 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a moral question. Review what your morals are.
1. Would you want some one to tell you?
2. Would you want other people to mind their own business?
Don't be surprised if you get sucked into the middle of things if you do tell!
2007-01-25 05:48:43 · answer #4 · answered by cookie4me_04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From personal experience... I remained good friends with the person that told me about my bf cheating on me... the other people that knew and didn't tell me, well they proved they were not good friends (I stoped talking to all of them). In friendship, as in most other relationships, honesty is #1
2007-01-25 06:07:32 · answer #5 · answered by cccc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be really upset to find out that you knew about the betrayal and being a supposed friend/family member didn't tell me.
2007-01-25 06:02:22 · answer #6 · answered by chicchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but expect to be hated for a while for doing it. The person will probably not want to hear what you have to say. They might not listen and may get upset with you too, but I think it would be better for them to know the truth.
2007-01-25 05:51:06 · answer #7 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yeah! same thing if your spouse was cheating on you, youd probably appreciate it if someone told u if that were the case. honesty is always good even tough it hurts.
damn i hate cheaters both men/women!!!
2007-01-25 05:48:35 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nononononononononononononnoono!
2007-01-25 05:55:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have PROOF, yes.....and it's a risk, but I think in the long run it's important to show that you resepct the friend and think they deserve to know and confront it.
2007-01-25 05:45:56 · answer #10 · answered by hot_italian_empress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i would want you to tell me.
If my friends spouce, BF or GF was cheating on them i would tell them.
2007-01-25 05:49:51 · answer #11 · answered by Male_42_us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋