Is it wrong to ask someone if you could sit with them in class, but later found out that they are married? Does this start an uncomfortable situation for them and you? Are you at fault?
2007-01-25 05:40:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
are you asking to sit with them because you are interested in a relationship--if so leave them alone and don't pursue them
If your wanting to sit with them because they seem to understand the class and you don't and you are just wanting help then by all means sit with them.
How soon after "sitting" with them did you discover they were married?--Was it right away or after class or 10 weeks later.
And even if you were "interested" they may not have realized it and when they did they told you they were married.--if thats the case just forget pursuing them or any type of relationship let them be--you don't want to be the one to break up a marriage, especially if kids might be involved.
2007-01-25 05:48:55 · answer #1 · answered by HappyGoLucky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To "sit" with them in class?? Why would that be uncomfortable? Married people are allowed to have friends too. If the relationship is more than friends (or even flirty friends), then you have a problem, but other than that, it shouldn't be a problem at all. There is no fault in either of you.
2007-01-25 13:44:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did the person have a ring on his/her finger? No, you are not at fault at all, married people can be friends with singles too, you know.........there wouldn't be an uncomfortable situation if you clear the air with the person.
2007-01-25 13:46:40 · answer #3 · answered by funny girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not in the wrong. There is no way for you to know the marital status of a stranger without talking to them or inspecting their hand. Married people can talk to single people without it being uncomfortable. They would be in the wrong if they came on to you before or after you knew they were married. Relax
2007-01-25 13:49:41 · answer #4 · answered by dynamicduo79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you found out he was married after you first talked to him. You are not at fault, but if he tries to get with you even though he is married, he is the one at fault.
2007-01-25 13:44:56 · answer #5 · answered by clion71 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong to ask someone if you can sit next to them in class;just don't get any ideas about trying anything that could get you killed.It depends on what else happened besides your sitting next to that person in your class.To an extent,you would be at fault.
2007-01-25 13:47:58 · answer #6 · answered by jsimpkinsv2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nuthing really wrong with some harmless flirting, just make sure its not heading the wrong way and become a homewrecker, then its just gonna get ugly and hey u didnt know he was married so its not ur fault, u just have good taste in men :D
2007-01-25 13:47:41 · answer #7 · answered by shanakon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Last semester, I had a lab partner that always sat next to me. He was a guy and I am a married woman. I told him I was married and it was no problem. He never once crossed the line.
2007-01-25 13:49:33 · answer #8 · answered by danielle_la_flor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your intenetion was sitting only (due to spae shortage or proper view of the lecturere and the notice baord) then no, but if ur intenetions were something else then yes, thats asking for trouble
2007-01-25 13:45:24 · answer #9 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not if you are just sitting with them in class, who cares not like you are asking him to sleep with you and cheat on his wife. You're just sitting in a class.
2007-01-25 13:45:50 · answer #10 · answered by simsad31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋