I just want to know from baby mother's out there. Its not an issue anymore, but, I was a good dude to this one girl, come to find out when we broke up, she said she was back with her baby daddy. Was she seeing him during our relationship? Was the baby an excuse to be back with that man? The thing is, I took her from him after they broke up.
2007-01-25 05:36:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A woman will always have a certain attachment to the father of her child. As much as she may or may not hate him, he was still the person that helped her create the best gift you can ever receive in life. She will always have a certain love for him. But that doesn't give her an excuse to do anything with him. They're over for a reason, and she needs to understand that. And if she was back with him as soon as you guys broke up, then I'm sorry to say, but I think she was with him while you guys were dating.
2007-01-25 05:42:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she was never really over him. Only she can tell you if she was seeing him during the relationship. I will say about 20% of women do go back to their "baby daddy's" and use the child as excuse. But for the most part most women break-up with their bady daddy's because they were probably being jerks(for lack of a better word)lol.
There's a woman out there for you just be patient.
2007-01-25 05:45:10 · answer #2 · answered by momseekinganswers 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes, the baby daddy is EVERY woman's First Choice.
Only if he completely messes things up will they settle for another guy, but he has ALL of the Advantages.
Women will try to deny this, but they're lying.
A woman will always naturally gravitate towards the guy they had a child with.
PS - the reason some chicks say they hate their baby daddy is because he dogged them out. Guys know that if a chick has their child, she will become like a slave to him so many dog them out. That's when they start hating the baby daddy. But it's only because he left her, that's why they're bitter.
I personally never date chicks who have kids for this reason.
2007-01-25 05:41:20 · answer #3 · answered by Tryumph 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think all women go back to their child's father. However, I did before, a few times. It wasn't until I realized that I was doing it out of familiarity, and fear of the unknown, that I stopped. When I realized that I could never be happy with him, and that I was just afraid of beginning new again, that I finally just ended it and moved on. It was scary at first, but it was the best thing I ever done, not only for myself but for my kids too. We would not have been good examples of a loving couple for our kids. I think it is important that kids see and know that the parents (whether biological or not) love and respect each other, so that when they grow up they will know what a healthy relationship is.
2007-01-25 05:46:06 · answer #4 · answered by sassy_395 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There Go My Baby Daddy
2016-12-17 14:44:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, mothers will not always go back to their baby's father, but they will try to maintain a civilized partnership for the sake of the child, but most likely the girl who you dated was trying to work on getting along better with the father and wants the child to have the influence of both of them together so that the child can grow up knowing what a healthy relationship is....
2007-01-25 05:46:12 · answer #6 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Some men don't really show how much they care for the baby until he/she is born and some of them do care for the baby and just not the mother. Maybe you should try talking to him about it and see how he really feels about you and the baby separately. This is from my own personal experience. The father of one of my kids wanted kids really bad but ignored me through out my pregnancy but now that the baby is here its like I cant separate the 2 of them its unbelievable.
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2016-05-17 08:11:12 · answer #8 · answered by ronald 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say no no no. I will never go back to my baby daddy Not in a million years. That is just me though
2007-01-25 05:41:54 · answer #9 · answered by Emily 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Dude, that's a lifetime deal.
A child that they share is a link forever good or bad.
I would not get a package with so much luggage next time.
2007-01-25 05:47:02 · answer #10 · answered by Denise W 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋