2007-01-25 05:46:10 · 16 answers · asked by Bbee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
according to the bible no but to society now days it is ok. my daughter was my engagment present and my son my wedding presant both from same daddy if you want support that it is ok you got mine
2007-01-25 05:57:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Since you are asking this question here perhaps you need to ask yourself a couple of questions.
One of those being, are you ready to take on the responsibility of a child or children by yourself? They are a 24 7 part of you. If you have children it makes dating hard because of sitters and timing. Plus hundreds of other things that can come up with a child that will keep you from being able to date.
There is nothing wrong with having children before getting married. However, if you are not done being able to party with friends and dating anytime you want then perhaps you might want to consider waiting a bit to find out.
Children are a blessing and joy for their parents as well as the people that keep parents up all night worrying about colds, fever and dating.
I have five of my own at home and I love everyone of them. Im old enough that there is no need for dating right now so I enjoy my kids and helping them grow.
If you decide to have a child before getting married I wish you luck and if you dont, well, good luck anyway.
2007-01-25 14:06:00 · answer #2 · answered by cowgirlduchess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to be the way of the world anymore. It's called putting the cart before the horse...
If you want a baby and are not married, then have a baby.. just be sure you are ready to be a good mom. It is a full time job that does not let up, EVER... My kids are 22 & 24 and I'm still dealing with their stuff.
Don't let anyone judge your decision, we are not here to judge others we are here to be supportive. If those in your world can not be supportive, then set them aside.. they'll come around.
Good Luck
2007-01-25 13:52:37 · answer #3 · answered by Aunt Henny Penny 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course it is! You should be ashamed to ask this question to yourself. The marriage does not change your entire life or your relationship with sb. You can be the best mother without getting married. Nowadays children out of wed-lock are o.k. they are accepted by the society. Everything is fine, love yourself and the baby and not troubled yourself with unreasonable doubts. Good luck!
2007-01-25 13:57:08 · answer #4 · answered by ....................... 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
that depends on if both parents would support the baby, if you could afford to pay for the baby's needs, if both parents wanted a baby and what you thought about having a baby. I would say I definately wouldn't without being married first.
2007-01-25 13:53:37 · answer #5 · answered by ~Holls~ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Plenty of people do, and the world hasn't come to an end. The question isn't whether you're married, but whether you are prepared to make the huge committment that is involved in having a child.
2007-01-25 13:51:24 · answer #6 · answered by irish1 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If u guys are prepared for the baby (mentally and financially) it is ok, but if either of u burns out, dont even think about it
2007-01-25 13:53:35 · answer #7 · answered by Sam 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no but it all depends on if u know that u and your baby daddy is going to be together 4 Eva
2007-01-25 13:51:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's 2007 not 1957 of course it is.
2007-01-25 13:52:09 · answer #9 · answered by simsad31 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yea who cares? Most children are unplanned anyway. My whole damn family was unplanned. You can always get an abortion, but thats not right.
2007-01-25 13:50:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋