I broke up with my girlfriend but we still talk... her friends are all jerks and she is sick and tired of them... she is sad and depressed that we broke up but were still friends and i want to help her cuz im the only person she feels she can talk to... i guess... i think she might be suicidal...
2007-01-25 06:24:09 · 20 answers · asked by my spill canvas 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
is it possible that she is suffering from depression? it may help to ask her to go to a place like a women's assistance center. she may need you to go with her for support, but it sounds like your breakup is just one of the things that is bothering her. she could call the local hospital and ask for a referral to a counseling center. she may not want to go, she may fear it actually, but it is better to try. if she is suicidal, then you need to help her as soon as possible. does she have any family she trusts or is close to that you could ask for assistance?
2007-01-25 06:32:19 · answer #1 · answered by paula k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you really broke her heart didn't you? Most everyone who has split up with someone in one way or another has been very depressed, sad, and cries a lot etc.....give her some time. Maybe you being around her to much will only make matters worse. You didn't say why you broke up with her. Maybe knowing why, we would be better able to help you with an answer.
2007-01-25 14:57:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly feel that way, you may want to talk to her and her family about being sucidal. Get her to get help......hold an intervention. Whatever it takes. There is help out there for her. Talk to her about helping herself. You can't be her knight in shining armor all the time. I am sure you still have some feelings for her, but that does not make you responsible for her actions. Be her friend, don't try to fix it for her. You can't.
2007-01-25 14:34:30 · answer #3 · answered by Linda E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep her close as a friend, let her know you Will be there for her as a friend only. Sounds like her other friends are not friends, she needs to meet new ones. Why do you think she may be suicidal? She may need more help than realize as there may be a more underlying reason than your breakup. Don't blame yourself.
2007-01-25 14:33:10 · answer #4 · answered by blue2blnde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is only trying to get your attention but it's always safe to talk to her parents about it. If you are no longer interested in her then stay away and let her heal her wound. The longer you stay around the harder it will be for her to recover from a breaken heart. Prolonging her pain will not help.
2007-01-25 14:43:41 · answer #5 · answered by JC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to ask her if she ever thinks about and explain everyone does at least once in their lifetime if she is mentioning it you have to ask yourself if she's doing it for attention but not to her face b/c if she is srious it might make her want to prove it to herself and you that she's serious.. but you have the responsibility to tell someone that cares like one of her parents.. the worst thing you can do is not take her threat seriously.. maybe she should seek professional help..goodluck.
2007-01-25 14:33:48 · answer #6 · answered by sunshinedin910 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think that if you stay and be here friend you will give her false hope that you guys can get back together... If she is sucidal you need to explain this to her family and then wish them luck
2007-01-25 14:31:46 · answer #7 · answered by spagirl23188 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep talking to her help her not to do anything stupid and as for her friends thats her choice u cant do anything bout them just be a good friend and if it gets really bad put her in a help group to help with her depression and help her not to kill herself
2007-01-25 14:31:11 · answer #8 · answered by ashl2e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep being a friend. if the love relationship didn't work then she probably enjoyed the friendship the most anyway. friends are better than lovers
2007-01-25 14:31:06 · answer #9 · answered by indiana girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to get to know her friends a little more...chances are you can get along with one of them
once you are friends with one that helps the others to realize that you arent so bad and then will stop being jerks
and your ex will be alot happier if she knows that you can get along with atleast one of her friends
2007-01-25 14:30:55 · answer #10 · answered by Destiny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋