Family & Relationships - 20 January 2007

I know this person for a year
I was trying to know him better & be close to him but he showed me that he is interested in physical relation not love.
Though I was always nice to him – I never thought some body would treat me like this – guys could you give me a reason ?
Note: I am not ugly

2007-01-20 05:51:41 · 13 answers · asked by Rachel 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been in a relationship for about a year now. Recently she came to me saying she had trust issues. Then she started hiding her phone, not letting me see emails, being suspicious. Now she has been away not really talking to me except to say she is moving out. I really love her but she tells me I dont know the meaning of love since I have been married before. What should I do? Should I keep in touch with her or let her go and find someone else?

2007-01-20 05:51:08 · 27 answers · asked by Odinn 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know this person for a year
I was trying to know him better & be close to him but he showed me that he is interested in physical relation not love.
Though I was always nice to him – I never thought some body would treat me like this – guys could you give me a reason ?
Note: I am not ugly

2007-01-20 05:50:58 · 11 answers · asked by Rachel 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Would it be wrong to just have one last fling before I get married , just to get it out of my system. I know this may not be a typical question that a female asks, but hey we are who we are.

2007-01-20 05:50:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 05:49:49 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend tells his best friend EVEYTHING! like when we make out, how far he gets with me, EVERYTHING!

I dont mind if he talks to him and tells him SOMETHINGS but other things i want kept privet.

Like i used to cut myself a while back and i trusted him enough to tell him, he OF COURSE told his friend. I NEVER talk to this friend so how do i explain to him to keep his mouth SHUT sometimes?

2007-01-20 05:49:33 · 5 answers · asked by Sumer 2 in Singles & Dating

would you do it?

2007-01-20 05:49:26 · 5 answers · asked by Billy J 1 in Singles & Dating

people keep telling me I am too young for boys, too young for making out, too young to drink, too young to party, too young to flirt, too young to date, too young for EVERYTHING! My parents like don't want me to do anything that I want to do and It's pissing me off so bad that I just go do all that stuff just to make them mad so I don't know why they are even trying to stop me! do u think I am too young for all this, Im 13 and they are driving me crazy! please help!

2007-01-20 05:49:23 · 9 answers · asked by ~V@NN@H~ 2 in Singles & Dating

This morning I woke up and found a note on the table that said

I made a big mistake last night and I cheated on you. If you still want to be with me, be home at 3 when I get off work. Otherwise give me an hour or two and I'll move my stuff out. I dont know what else to say- Im sorry.

Should I leave him or try to work things out? We have been together for 2 1/2 years. We aren't married, we just moved in together 6 months ago. He has never cheated before (that I know of).

2007-01-20 05:48:51 · 30 answers · asked by maggielynn 3 in Singles & Dating

He says how much he loves me all the time but I don't know if he means love or if he knows what it is and thinks he does.

2007-01-20 05:48:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 05:48:26 · 1 answers · asked by ankur 1 in Singles & Dating

i just opened one of my kitchen drawers for some chocolare...and there was a kitkat and a twix. about 5 years ago i would have got for the kitkat, no doubt!. but now it doesnt appeal me. and started to remember how back them i would have one atleast once a day, and how happy they would make me feel. and that lead me to think.....can the same happen with love?

2007-01-20 05:47:27 · 22 answers · asked by .:peAchy:. 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if one of your friends lost her dad when she was 10 and she never wanted to talk about it. but lately she is getting more upset when stories of dad's *** up and she now 17, i talkd to her but she didnt want to have a heart to heart convo on it. i let her know i'm there but she is miserable.....

2007-01-20 05:47:23 · 4 answers · asked by boo 2 in Family

he says he likes it but i really can't stand it! what can i do?! i really dont want him to start! i care about it a lot! plzzzzzzz give me some advise! thankssss

2007-01-20 05:46:24 · 16 answers · asked by eka p 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 05:46:13 · 1 answers · asked by mommy 2 in Singles & Dating

WHAT SHOULD I DO I AM GETTING REALLY SAD THAT SHE TOKE HIM AWAY

2007-01-20 05:46:04 · 7 answers · asked by crazy_for_hot_boys2006 1 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend wants to shave my head. My hair looks like my avi, should i let her shave me? and do u think bald guys are hot? she said she wants to shave my because she loves bald men

2007-01-20 05:45:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...and what am I doing? Sitting at home alone on a Sat night. I still look OK, so I feel I should be out with some nice man. Any one know of any good dating sites, (not horrid smutty ones please) that are free and easy to use. Thanks, from desperate lady mid 30's needing a mid life crisis to enjoy.

2007-01-20 05:44:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I do not know what to talk about please help anything will help just some ideas or any advice help

2007-01-20 05:43:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 05:43:45 · 8 answers · asked by Camesha J 1 in Weddings

- I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and he proposed over Christmas time...on break from basic training in the army.

- My mom has had 2 failed marriages and I know she's worried about guys hurting me. My parents, though, know how serious my boyfriend and I are. I live with my parents right now and am planning to move in with my boyfriend when we get married (we have lived together before, for 3 months, right before he was sent to do his basic training for the army).

- My boyfriend is in the army and has been for about 3 months now and we are plannin to get married April 20th after he graduates from AIT (advanced individual training). We've talked about marriage for a long time now, have talked about the issues of being in the army, and pretty much everything. So, we know what we're getting into.

- My dad has hinted to me lately that he wants me to stay local because he'll miss me if I ever move away but I'll be moving to NC where my boyfriend is stationed.

2007-01-20 05:43:35 · 16 answers · asked by Miss Amanda 3 in Marriage & Divorce

She left before xmas, i was supposed to fly up to meet her. She called to say hi before going to sleep. After 24 hours with her family, she called called to say not to meet her because she needed to think about us. I haven't heard from her since, ven on my birthday, left her clothes and everything behind. She won't call me or write and actually called the police because of "obsessive emails" All I wanted to know is, why did she go? Why do people up and leave? What do I do, nothing was wrong...so I thought. I finally stopped emailing her yesterday, maybe she'll come to her senses. Womens perspective, what's the deal?

2007-01-20 05:43:03 · 4 answers · asked by Michael T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

all the details of the day, is everybody like this?

2007-01-20 05:42:34 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-20 05:41:44 · 3 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Singles & Dating

The 1st one I've talked to in groups and we always seem to agree with each other, we have the same likes/dis-likes, but other than in groups we never talk even when we run into each other.

The other always shouts me out and we dont need someone else to talk with us. She always makes me smile.

You can obviously tell which one I like better, but why is the first one holding me back?

2007-01-20 05:41:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why or why not?

2007-01-20 05:41:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ME AND MY BF ARE BOTH IN SCHOOL. WE ARE IN A SOMEWHAT LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP(45MIN). WE ARE BOTH IN THE ARMY RESERVES. WE ARE THINKING ABOUT GETTING MARRIED SO THAT WE CAN BE TOGETHER.WE WOULDN'T HAVE A WEDDING. WE WOULD GO TO THE COURTHOUSE. BUT MY THING IS I'M WORRIED ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE WILL SAY ABOUT GETTING MARRIED AT THE COURTHOUSE. ALSO B/C PEOPLE USUALLY WAIT TILL THEY FINISH SCHOOL AND STUFF. I HAVE A YEAR LEFT IN SCHOOL. HE HAS ABOUT A YEAR AND HALF TO GO. WE ARE BOTH IN OUR EARLY 20'S

2007-01-20 05:40:45 · 41 answers · asked by T 2 in Weddings

My Boyfriend of 5 years has been married befor but he went to the Justice of Peace (court house to do his marrage). I have never been married before. He just poped the question to me over the holidays. We both want to get married in Hawaii he said in 2011 we are going to do it for finacial reason we are wanting to fly family memebers there its going to be a small wedding but I am not sure when and how long I need to start to work on thing any suggestings.
Thank You

2007-01-20 05:39:50 · 10 answers · asked by Jennifer M 1 in Weddings

your boyfriend asked you if you would like to have a pair of heart-shaped diamond earrings that were meant for his ex-girlfriend before you but they broke up before she ever got them? Because this has happened to me. And I'd like some insight on it. I already told him I'd love them and he's planning on giving them to me but I'm not totally positive on that. What do you think?

2007-01-20 05:38:44 · 12 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend the other night went to a house party, but I couldn't go because I wasn't feeling very well. She was having a really good time, until these jerks (the guys) starting rating the girls on how pretty and how ugly they were. I think my friend is beautiful! I think all of my friends are beautiful!! But obviously the guys don't think the same as me because later on they, told her that they'd rated her to be the 2nd ugliest there. She was so upset, and I don't no what to say to her. I want to be a good friend and help but I don't no how. I decided I'm going to write a letter to her because I think she'd be a little embarrassed if I spoke to her in person about it, but I don't no what to put, PLEASE PEOPLE help me!! I can't stand my friend being so upset like this, I'm really concerned. Does anyone have any ideas what to put on the letter??

2007-01-20 05:38:34 · 18 answers · asked by bex_xoxo 2 in Friends