...and what am I doing? Sitting at home alone on a Sat night. I still look OK, so I feel I should be out with some nice man. Any one know of any good dating sites, (not horrid smutty ones please) that are free and easy to use. Thanks, from desperate lady mid 30's needing a mid life crisis to enjoy.
2007-01-20 05:44:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try http://eharmony.com . I hear it is a good dating website. Since you have all this freedom you should go and spoil yourself and enjoy the single life until you find Mr. Right.
2007-01-20 05:49:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are loads of on-line dating sites, just put a search into Google to find one that is perfect for you.
On the other hand instead of talking to someone over the Internet which can be pretty dodgy if you are not careful why don't you go out on the town with your friends.
Like you said you are siting home alone on a Saturday night so get your friends together and go out. Just because you are in your mid 30's and are living alone does not mean you need a man.
Go out with your friends and have fun, you might meet a man which would be great but even if you don't at least you have a had a good night out with the girls.
You go girl!!!
2007-01-20 07:46:20 · answer #2 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy your freedom! Get out of the house, go for a walk, go antiquing, the biggest thing is you have to get out and figure out who this new person is. If you enjoy the outdoors, go on a short hike, you will oftentimes meet people on the trail, you know for sure that you have one thing in common(hiking,outdoors,nature). I know it's difficult to make that first step, but I want to point out that you don't have to have a man in your life to be happy and fulfilled, this is a great time to enjoy being you, or figuring out who the new you is. You will learn alot about yourself and the new things that you want to do now that you couldn't do before with the kids around bugging you and demanding your attention in every loud, obnoxious ways possible, let alone the money you save by not having to feed a team of people. That extra money can take you places you've always wanted to see, but............you didn't. Look forward to the future, don't look for a man to be your future.
2007-01-20 05:58:00 · answer #3 · answered by fisherwoman 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For starters, there are plenty of ways to meet nu people. Here are some of them.
1.)Arrange a night out with the girls. But don't go, purposely looking for a bloke. Then your free to enjoy yourself, and men are attracted to women who can enjoy themselves and not latch on to the nearest bit of trouser.
2.)Sign up to friendsreunited.com. You even find an old school friend and spark a brand new romance, getting to know eachother once more and chatting about what you use to be like.
3.)Always keep friends informed that you are looking for a man. then if one of them has a single male friend, she can arrange for the two of you to "accidentally" on purpose bump into her and her fit, single male friend in the supermarket.
If you want dating then just type it into a Yahoo search box. Dating from the net can work. I went onto a Japanese dating website (www.japancupid.com) and met my now husband on there. We're even expecting a child anytime now.
So Good Luck! xx
2007-01-20 05:59:54 · answer #4 · answered by MrsMatsuyama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only in your mid 30's girl. You sound like you may just be out of practice a little bit. You don't need a dating site. Grab a tight pair of jeans, find a girlfriend, go out for dinner, drinks, etc...and men will notice. Chat it up. I'd stay away from the dating sites. You'll do fine, you just gotta get out there and mix it up a little.
2007-01-20 05:54:09 · answer #5 · answered by jeff b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you could do with an instant fix as most of the answers are for the near future . Think everyone is right though , you are still young and so get out to the clubs , pubs etc and have a laugh
if you are still online , send me a message and i'll talk to you tonight
2007-01-20 06:40:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Type in Mate1 on the internet you will come across a great site, its not smutty, I have found some good friends from there. When you sign up let me know what your handle is, perhaps we can chat!!
2007-01-20 06:02:10 · answer #7 · answered by hotod 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont need a dating site.... if you have found yourself in mid 30's crisis the best thing would be to go out maybe the nightlife would bring some excitement... try craigslist too.
2007-01-20 05:50:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you go out and just enjoy being in your own company?
I often find that I like going to a Jazz club just to listen to music. The crowd is basically older and sometimes you meet others close to your age.
2007-01-20 05:52:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 22 and i feel the same way even though i don't have kids, i feel i should have a boyfriend now and i really want a boyfriend I'm sick of begin single,
but i feel like it will never happen!
2007-01-20 05:51:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋