your boyfriend asked you if you would like to have a pair of heart-shaped diamond earrings that were meant for his ex-girlfriend before you but they broke up before she ever got them? Because this has happened to me. And I'd like some insight on it. I already told him I'd love them and he's planning on giving them to me but I'm not totally positive on that. What do you think?
2007-01-20 05:38:44 · 12 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if you take them and you wear them and the only thing that you can think about is that you have on "her" earrings then I would not take them. But if you get them and you think yeah I got these earrings and she did not he is my man...then take the earrings.
2007-01-20 05:43:37 · answer #1 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was in your shoes, I wouldn't take them. I mean, sure they are diamonds, but c'mon those were meant to be worn on some other chick's ears. If I realy truly did love him, then I would just say, "I'm sorry, but I don't feel comfortable wearing earrings that meant to be for someone else." If he loves you too, he will surely understand! Good luck!!
2007-01-20 13:48:18 · answer #2 · answered by emily 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you knew the story behind them before you said you'd love them, then why are you questioning it now? Personally, I wouldn't want a gift that was bought for any ex, but that's me! I'd probably tell him to return them and pick me out something different!
2007-01-20 13:45:05 · answer #3 · answered by justlookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey dont feel bad because your boyfriend had someone before you. The point is he loves you now. so take the earings and appreciate them. Good luck.
2007-01-20 13:45:14 · answer #4 · answered by steak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take them in a good spirit but make sure you tell your bf or whatever that 'these aren't coming back to you when we break up'.that should make him think twice whether he really wants to give it to you and if he does then take it. they are 'diamonds' for christ sake !
2007-01-20 13:46:50 · answer #5 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the sitaution happened to me, but not with a PAIR OF DIAMOND EARRINGS!, but anyway i told my boyfriend no thank you, wen he give me a present i'm sure it is only for me, and wen he see it he'll only thinks of me
2007-01-20 13:44:57 · answer #6 · answered by Carolyn S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take them if that is what your boyfriend wants you to have. Be happy that he wants to give you an expensive gift.
2007-01-20 13:46:22 · answer #7 · answered by Nancy M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say no because it would just be plane wierd wearing earings that were made for someone else it wrong no way
2007-01-20 13:44:49 · answer #8 · answered by hockeylova#1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like them, want them and are not bothered by their history, say yes and wear them cheerfully!
2007-01-20 13:42:53 · answer #9 · answered by elsa_bard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take them their diamonds for peet sake
2007-01-20 13:41:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋