all the details of the day, is everybody like this?
2007-01-20 05:42:34 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
wow, thanks for all your answers, i didn't realize how lucky I am until u pointed it out to me!
2007-01-20 06:32:20 · update #1
Usually it's the gals. Most women would kill for a guy like that. Why are you irritated? Are you just an unhappy person, or is it that you are unappreciative? Get you act together.
2007-01-20 05:45:20 · answer #1 · answered by Dorothy and Toto 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
My question to you is ,"why does this really bother you"? How long have you been married? Be grateful your mate communicates with you. When a person does this , just common courtesy in case something happens, one knows where to reach them. Hm, on the other hand, maybe he might feel , you don't trust him and wants to show you , he cares for you. You don't give the state of your marriage at this point. All whom are reading can only speculate toward the real meaning of your question. When your mate stop communicating toward you in any manner is a red flag .
Serina
2007-01-20 06:36:30 · answer #2 · answered by serina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plain simple answer to this q, you have given him a reason or have shown signs to him that you do not trust him, so he feels compelled to tell you his every move. You both need to sit down and talk about the trust issues. It works both ways. Maybe he does not trust you and that is a sutle way of him telling you that it would be nice if you told him where you were going and what you are doing some of the times. Think about it, Ask yourself have there been times when i do or go somewhere without telling him.
2007-01-20 05:53:47 · answer #3 · answered by beetem@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has there ever been a problem with trust or cheating in your relationship?? if so, he might be telling you everything so that you know that he's not doing it again. or, he could be "projecting" meaning that he is telling you all of this info b/c he does have something to hide and doesn't want u to ask him questions so he tells you his story before you get the chance to ask him first. i would confront him about it. tell him that you love knowing what goes on all day but you don't need to know every single detail unless there is something more serious going on. good luck!!
2007-01-20 05:47:28 · answer #4 · answered by chingona1027 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take that as a good thing. Its a way of having communication and maybe he just wants to let u know what he is doing or where he is in case of an emergency u know exactly where to find him. Give the guy some credit most women have to go on a manhunt just to find out where their man is at or just to get them to talk to them.
2007-01-20 05:48:14 · answer #5 · answered by gonzalezleon3022 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband does the same thing to me. At first I thought it was strange why someone would do that. Then I came to realize that he loves me very much and since we aren't together for the time of day that he is at work, he wants to share with me. Feel good about it. Look at it the same as I do.
2007-01-20 06:03:34 · answer #6 · answered by ~Carolina Beach Girl~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of two things either you have a jewel of a husband, or by telling you this he is building your trust to do something behind your back, to make you think he's not up to something he shouldn't be. Sometimes too much detail can come back to bite them in the ***! If you are suspicious of his whereabouts, when he go into details, like, I was at ------ house today you might want to call ------ and be like is my husband there? I need to talk to him and if they say no then you can be like, Oh, have you seen him today? and if they say no just be like Okay, if my husband stops by can you tell him to give me a call. It works everytime.
2007-01-20 05:52:39 · answer #7 · answered by Destiny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit your complaining. I would have given anything if my first husband had been like that. We had problems communicating with each other. He would not let me know where he was at. He seemed to think that I should already know. He took everything for granted. I am married again and this one is sometimes like that. He does talk to me all the time. Be happy that your husband wants you to know and he talks to you.
2007-01-20 06:20:00 · answer #8 · answered by Nancy M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you to be able to trust him, that's why he does it.
When I leave work if my wife is at home, I always call her to let her know I'm heading home, also tell her if I am stopping anywhere on the way.
It's a way that we can be accountable.
Your husband is using it as a way to be accountable to you so that you can trust him that he's not cheating on you.
Honestly I think it's a very good thing. At least then you know what he's doing.
2007-01-20 05:47:18 · answer #9 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's afraid you don't trust him.
He doesn't want to come home to you angry going "Where were you???"
My husband sometimes does this. If I think it's getting unnecessary I will tell him to go out and have fun and if I start wondering where he is, I tell him I will call him.
Or sometimes I drop a sarcastic catty remark like "And you had to call me to tell me that? Are you pu**y whipped or something?"
2007-01-20 05:49:58 · answer #10 · answered by sorcergeek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same way....I'm sure he expects the same from you, my fiance is not like that at all, i always ask him where he's at what he's doing not because i'm trying to control him but because i like to know what time i should expect him home and what not, i tell him all details incase something happens to me he knows where i've been and my agenda for the day
2007-01-20 05:47:16 · answer #11 · answered by graciegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋