I know this person for a year
I was trying to know him better & be close to him but he showed me that he is interested in physical relation not love.
Though I was always nice to him – I never thought some body would treat me like this – guys could you give me a reason ?
Note: I am not ugly
2007-01-20 05:51:41 · 13 answers · asked by Rachel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There really is no excuse for him to be rude. However, while you were interested in getting close and getting to know him .. his sole objective was to get in your pants.
The "conflict" in agendas sometimes brings out the worse in people .. in this case he was rude.
2007-01-20 06:05:09 · answer #1 · answered by morahastits 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yup im in the exact same situation. all that i can say is that he wants sex but its up 2 u 2 give it to him if u enjoy it or not. but the reason he only wants the physical stuff is probably because he only finds u physically attractive. this could be because u havent properly given him a chance to get to know u as a person. and if u have and he still only wants the physical stuff then i'm afraid he only just wants that. but like me i think you should just give it some more time and hang in there and who knows he really might get attached to you and want more of a commitment. but in the meanwhile don't get u'r hopes too high and always expect the worst at the same time. also, do keep u'r eyes open for other guys. i'm sure it wont be hard for u finding another better guy. oh btw sum guys express their love by being physical rather than vocal. and guys arent too great with expressing their emotions cuz they think thats what girls do. anyway hun, good luck.
2007-01-20 14:01:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey there,,here we have heard only your side of the story,of how you feel he is. ,but if he was rude,ofcourse he would really or should have dumped you or been un faithful to you, if you had been tring to know him for a year,and yes that you have been physical with him, shows that both were willing ,and that was human,but search on the commitment on your relationship,,where you both faithful,in such case ,,physical relations is just a bit more of a feel on confidence in this relationship,. ok here well this is a guys reply. so probally try not to misunderstand or be impartial on your asscessments.
2007-01-20 14:11:55 · answer #3 · answered by john j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better question is: Why do you put up with rude behavior?
Many guys put up get rude as defensive mechanism to not get close to women; women see that as a mixed signal and take it as an opportunity and a challenge to change, fix, make him a better person and bring him out of his shell when most of the time, he is very comfortable in his shell and is not going to come out no matter what you do.
2007-01-20 14:00:32 · answer #4 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hes a man out for what they can get, not ready to settle down,he was very good to tell you the truth most guys wouldn't they would just take what they could get and leave....so hes not rude hes actually a good guy....
2007-01-20 13:57:22 · answer #5 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately a lot of men only want the physical...if that's all he wants let him get it from somewhere else. Forget him quickly or you will get hurt even more in the long run. If he's not nice to you then he's not the one. RUN!!!!!!!!
2007-01-20 13:55:53 · answer #6 · answered by beccam1962 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Note:Ugly or not guys are rude they want only to get in your pants . Try it ya might like it.
2007-01-20 14:00:08 · answer #7 · answered by David C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didnt say exactly how he was rude. If you are looking for love then forget about it if he doesnt want the same that you are looking for.
2007-01-20 13:56:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Duplicate post.
2007-01-20 13:56:24 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry many guys just want one thing and one thing only...
just to get laid and nothing more...I tell my daughter all the time there are guys out there who just want one thing and one thing only......just leave him and find someone who want to be with you and wants more than just sex...
2007-01-20 14:03:46 · answer #10 · answered by hononegah1988 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋