Family & Relationships - 20 January 2007

a metrosexual???

2007-01-20 06:30:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been together for over a year and it just feels like we should be further in our relationship, like atleast talking about marriage or where we want to be at with each other in the future.. How do I know if he wants to ?

2007-01-20 06:30:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he's 30 im 32. we've been going out on and off for 2 years

2007-01-20 06:29:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this guy online , for the first time I came to the place and see him in person , he had no impressions to me , . Well, at the same night , my group of friends asked me for clubbing , and that guy joined with us , he was so cool , he is mature than I thought , and the more I went out and hung out with him , I feel that I like him . But I think he just wanna keep friend relationship with me . I am pretty and an attractive lady , I can say that ,,, but I dont want to be his normal friend , what shoud I do ? would a guy so afraid if he knows that a girl has a crush on him? any guys out there , please answer this for me ! and What should i do , keep this with normal relationship ....or what ?

2007-01-20 06:28:38 · 13 answers · asked by mimi78yesty 1 in Singles & Dating

I will make this a short as possible...I have a guy friend we have been friends since highscool. We worked together for 3yrs and we dated for a while. He is a great guy but I am not really physically attracted to him so we stopped dating but still remained friends. I never cared who he dated until I found out he was dating a mutual friend of ours. Me and her are no longer friends (not over him) but now he wants to be in a relationship with me. I already told him no because of her but he won't let up. I feel kinda pressured to give him a chance cause he is a great fun person to be around but when i think of how he dated her knowing we were friends it turns me all the way off. what can I tell him or what can i do...I mean they had sex and everything??

2007-01-20 06:28:35 · 4 answers · asked by JAY 3 in Singles & Dating

i'm in love with a guy that i JUST got to know in November. it's really weird how we are SO connected!! we have SO much in common! i cant tell u how alike we are because i dont have enough space. we feel the same way about each other & i NEVER thought that this could happen to me. we're already talkin about marriage& havin kids (no time soon) after i graduate in 2008. he is my "Soul Mate" i feel. i've NEVER felt this way about a guy...EVER! he says the same thing. he hasn't disrespected me in any way by talking about sex or anything. HE'S just THE BEST!
BUT
i'm a little confused right now....we are not of the same religion. to me that plays a HUGE part in my relationship. we HAVE to be the same religion! my kids cannot be put in the middle of this. we have different lifestyles& that could hurt our relationship also. he curses, i dont. he doesn't drink or smoke, but he hangs around people who do. he has goals in life& so do i, but i just dont think that this will work.
WHAT DO I DO?

2007-01-20 06:28:16 · 13 answers · asked by so_much_2_life! 2 in Singles & Dating

We are the same age(14). We have two classes together and we have talked before. I dont have a problem talking with her. I just need the best way to ask her to be my girlfriend.

2007-01-20 06:27:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We know in today's world is swelling with single parents, I used to think mostly due to divorce but now that is not true, it is out of lack of chasity where people choose to have sexual affairs out of wed lacks through which babies are born and others choose to remain unamarried with their partner and children. Well my question can the world with such children thrive and be a healthy environment? If No then what should we do to curb these issue. The second question is what do you think is the greatest challenge faced by a child raised by a single parent?

2007-01-20 06:26:26 · 19 answers · asked by A A 2 in Marriage & Divorce

hae friends i am always dissapointed coz no girls gone stick on to me,why this happens all the time to me.i am good looking ,i am honest and trustworthy inspite haveing all such good qualities,not finding the right one.............................

2007-01-20 06:26:14 · 18 answers · asked by suresh r 1 in Singles & Dating

I've had about 50 women so far. I have slowed down recently cuz I'm afraid of getting AIDS.

2007-01-20 06:25:54 · 17 answers · asked by Billy J 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 06:24:26 · 21 answers · asked by walter_nahbexie 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend (no i swear it is not me) who got himself into a relationship with a girl who he doesnt even like because his friends pressured him. Now hes stuck because he doesnt want to break her heart. he avoids seeing her as much as possible and I hate seeing this because it is horrible for both of them.

2007-01-20 06:24:20 · 8 answers · asked by mike 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend just got her LPN and is now doing nursin shifts. She is on her feet for 10-14 hours a day. What can I do when she gets home to help relieve the pain in her feet she comes home with daily?

2007-01-20 06:23:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My Fiancée’ and I have been together for 2 years(met 8 times). She is from Singapore (originally from Philippines). She wants me to be in the same religion with her. She is a member of IgIesia Ni Cristo (Church of Christ). I attended the church for over a year now. The church believes that they are the only true religion. They kick members out who marry outside They put down other religions. They check member’s attendance weekly. I do not agree with these practices. However, she believes in this church. They asked for my divorce paper, fill out an application like a job app, write a letter to join, request for a paper that she is single. And many more like take an exam. She is coming to the US in 2 weeks. I honestly do not wish to join this church. I feel that it is best to let her know when she comes here that I cannot join her church and send her back. I feel that if she leaves the churchto marry me, that it will lead to another titanic. Help!

2007-01-20 06:21:50 · 7 answers · asked by Ineversay 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My parents are not financially able to pay for it and neither are we.... My fiance wants to just go to the courthouse and get it over with.... Do you think I will regret it if I don't have a "Real" wedding?

2007-01-20 06:21:30 · 18 answers · asked by livandjaxsmommy 2 in Weddings

So what is paper that is a clever gift? I thought about a gift cert for a massage (because its paper) but any other ideas?

2007-01-20 06:20:34 · 16 answers · asked by 123 2 in Marriage & Divorce

The new law would put parents in jail for up to a year if they discipline their children who are under four years old by striking them.

The person who introduced the bill, San Francisco Bay-area Democrat Assemblywoman Sally Lieber , has no children herself.

Is it the role of government to tell parents how to discipline their own children? Obvious physical abuse is not the issue, there are laws against that already in place.
Would a mere slap on the hand or backside warrant being charged with a misdemeanor and some jail time?

http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/html/politics/2003533167_spank20.html

2007-01-20 06:20:21 · 13 answers · asked by Tiberias 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

this guy ive been talking to for about 4 days. Says that he really wants to be with me. But last night he kept ignoring this girl's phone call, so i made him call her back and let her know not to call him anymore. He did tell her that, he says he going to change his phone number for me , but he went to work today so he hasnt done it. What do you think, oh yeh he asked me to move in with him also.

2007-01-20 06:19:11 · 13 answers · asked by ktowndeedee254 1 in Singles & Dating

I moved into a house six months ago and although we had some disagreements in the beginning we all got along fine. However, after some time things started to go missing, like post and the tenancy agreement. One day two of the girls said that money had gone missing from their rooms. Me and my friend both offered to help look for the missing money or help them out financially if the needed it. At first everything was fine, but then all of a sudden they started accusing myself and friend for going into their rooms and take their money- which of course we haven't. Their version is we went into their rooms while they where present without them noticing anything.
The whole situation is now of control becuase they girls cannot seem to understand why we are angry with them- one of even turned around and said "it was our money that got stolen and suddenly we are the bad guys"? how would you guys feel and what can we do about it. We tried talking but they won't listen.

2007-01-20 06:19:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Im 21 and im dating a guy (24) who is a virgin for personal religious beliefs. i absolutely adore the restraint, faith and commitment that it takes for him to stick with this. but i am not a virgin, and i love sex when its with someone who i adore and love.

has anyone ever been in this situation where you want to be intimate with your partner, but doing so would end their vows of celibacy? and how did you cope? What happened? i want to "share myself" with him, but hes not interested.

ive never been faced with such a situation, and i have no clue what it the best way to approach it. I love him, and i want to be with him.

help!!

2007-01-20 06:18:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she was cheating on him and flirting with just about any old man she could find. she egged him on to leave the site and now he has. and its just so she can put it around. He either couldnt see it or didnt want to so i think i got the message through to him. have i done right? i feel really bad bout it

2007-01-20 06:15:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just noticed that almost 40% of all the photos of guys on Yahoo personals have sunglasses on. Whats up with that. I want to see a guys eyes -- the sunglasses just turn me off.

2007-01-20 06:13:51 · 19 answers · asked by GirlfromUncle 3 in Singles & Dating

sadies is coming up soon and i already know my boyfriend is going to say yes but i want a really cute way to ask him. anyone have any ideas??

2007-01-20 06:13:28 · 10 answers · asked by Megan 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been talking to this girl for a bit, that i like alot. but she kinda going with this other guy. i talk to her from time to time and when she talks about him and the a lot little stuff he does bad, i pick at it and make it look like its bigger than it really is, so in the long run maybe she'll come with me. i don't want to do it but it keeps happening. is it wrong?

2007-01-20 06:13:21 · 7 answers · asked by Lost Drifter 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy named shaun and my best friend is also his best friend so we hang out alot... and he knows i like him and this one night we were both drinking and we started making out... well after that him and his ex-gf started dating again... which i was pretty upset about so i waited for him...(by the way she treats himlike crap im not the only hwo thinks that) well then one night i got really trashed and he wasnt (my friend was there) and so i pinned him up against the refrigerator and we made out then we went into the living room and we did some other things...he fingered me and i gave him a hand job...both our first time for doing that and also his first time cheating on someone...and then him and his gf broke up but not because of that.well now he acts really shy around me but i dont know why i was glad that when we did that it was with him at least....I dont know what to do anymore?? please help me!

2007-01-20 06:12:39 · 17 answers · asked by Michelle A 2 in Singles & Dating

i like to perty any wemon dating in my area

2007-01-20 06:11:52 · 4 answers · asked by liljrome425 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy i like is really shy and he likes me i like him and his firend is my friend and our friend is telling me to ask him out should I.

2007-01-20 06:11:12 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I go shopping, I sometimes buy a lot of cucumbers or zucchini when they are on sale. My husband does not eat many vegetables, actually he doesn't eat anything but what I literally serve him except for fast food.

We rarely have any people over, and no kids at all over our house.

My husband does cross his legs and points his pinky whenever he drinks, but I never really thought he could be gay beyond those "tendencies".

I have asked him if he ate or took them in the past, and he's like, what, I didn't even know they were in there .. he is really clueless about what's in the fridge.

I know they are not just getting up and walking away, and now I'm paying attention to how many are in there.

If he's not using them for what I think he's using them for, why the heck would he be taking them and lying about it?

2007-01-20 06:10:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm asking this because I've seen a lot of it lately. Usually (not always) guys get themselves into a relationship they dont even completely want to be in or they do want to in the beginning but then their feelings change, yet they change? Why do people do this? Why stay in a bad relationship?

2007-01-20 06:10:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I do alot of work, and alot of other things besides having sex to make him feel wonderful. I mean I like sex, and sure I will give oral, but sometimes I dont feel like giving oral, since the pleasure is a one way street. But I want our sex to be amazing, and I am not all that experienced, only with him. So what shall I do?

2007-01-20 06:09:52 · 10 answers · asked by Shelly 1 in Singles & Dating