Family & Relationships - 20 January 2007

Do I really need to return his things? By the way I did not cheat on him..or hurt him...he just needed space

2007-01-20 06:55:28 · 7 answers · asked by Lisa C 1 in Singles & Dating

We have custody of my "step"sons.I have adopted them as their mother did not want parental rights or responsibilities (like seeing them or paying support)-her rights were terminated by the court. She wants to move away from her roommate and she found out she can get subsidised housing.The 2 bedroom has the shortest waiting list, but she would have to have my "step" sons living with her. She doesn't WANT custody-she just wants me to fax them their info and basically lie and say they are living with her. She asked me to fax their Social security cards and their Birth Certificates to the lady at the office.How do I tell her "no"? I am not going to do it. I am not going to lie when she has done nothing but hurt them, not to mention some people really need that housing while she goes on vacations every week (yep!) but won't pay a penny to help support the kids-she just wants to USE them.I don't like that,but I also don't want to stir up drama by making her mad, since she can make life HELL

2007-01-20 06:55:10 · 6 answers · asked by Sunny And '74 4 in Marriage & Divorce

you really liked this guy and have been going out for a little while, and then you go to sleep with him and discover his thingy was only about 4 and a half inches long? I mean, I erally like him and that doesn't change nothing, but when I see it I thought.. O.o !! What's that supposed to do

2007-01-20 06:55:00 · 4 answers · asked by DEBBIE 1 in Singles & Dating

His absence during meetings, having to justify masonry because your friends and family dont understand.
What do you like about him being a prince hall mason? His status , what he does for the community etc.

2007-01-20 06:54:31 · 2 answers · asked by nobleknightslady#1 1 in Singles & Dating

The guys who I meet are either engaged, married or going out with other girls and don't tell me that until months later. People keep on saying that I am looking for the right guy in the wrong place. My question is where is the right place and where is the right guy? What am I doing wrong?

2007-01-20 06:54:17 · 13 answers · asked by star 1 in Singles & Dating

trying to help a friend find a nice affordable venue for her wedding ceremony/reception. any help would be greatly appreciated. scoured the web, with not much luck.

2007-01-20 06:54:11 · 2 answers · asked by jencat 2 in Weddings

We split again after a retry for a few months. It was a 3 year relationship. Loved her to bits but had trouble because she had a kid and it didn't work out. haven't communicated in any way since early Nov - last year.

So - I'm not sure it could ever work out and sure while I miss the hell out of her we won't get together but I just want to send her a card. Just something to say she'll stay the girl of my dreams (and occasional nightmares) for the rest of my life.

The plan is this: Tuesday I fly to Japan, find a valentines card get someone else to write something gooey in it BUT IN JAPANESE and then send it to her from there.

Just to make sure she has something on the 14th of Feb and also so she can't connectit directly to me.

Or should I let sleeping dogs lie?

(not that she's a dog, those of you wanting to go down that route!)

2007-01-20 06:52:13 · 39 answers · asked by charlie 3 in Singles & Dating

im getting married this aug. we have everything planned so now were working on the legal aspect. we want a judge to marry us since theres a Lot of religion in our family, diffrent kinds and we dont want to put anyone off. we've done the resaurce on the marriage lisence, but we want to judge to come to where were getting married. where can i go to find information on that? please any help would be Very appreciated.

Thanks

2007-01-20 06:51:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

if a guy's still saluting afterwards (u know wat i mean), did he get fully satisfied?

2007-01-20 06:51:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or doesn't hair color matter? Is the face and physique of the body more important than hair color? If there were 3 physically attractive girls-one brunette, one blonde and one redhead, which hair color is most attractive/which girl would you want to ask out on a date? It seems some guys prefer blondes. If you do prefer blondes, why?

2007-01-20 06:50:57 · 11 answers · asked by Citygirl 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 06:50:32 · 6 answers · asked by BR 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

And they still had feelings for you...

2007-01-20 06:50:08 · 7 answers · asked by octrucker 2 in Marriage & Divorce

onlii gurls

2007-01-20 06:49:40 · 7 answers · asked by J.J 1 in Singles & Dating

I ask you ,what the heck are you doing right now...
Besides playing on Q & A's?...
Are you at work?...
Are you shooting it with friends and or loved ones?...
Hmmm...

Just a poll/survey for fun to toss some points around is all...

C'mon and spill...i won't tell anyone,honest...

Me,well i am still laying in bed playing around with a friend and also on Q & A's...
Waiting for a certain ladyy Angel to come on -line so i may see if she'd care to go out this eveing for a fine dinner and just see where the night takes us...

Thank You for Your answers...

2007-01-20 06:49:37 · 11 answers · asked by ? 5 in Singles & Dating

I am really very depressed. I have been to many dances this year at my high school, and I have never had a boyfriend to dance with. i see all of my frends dancing and I feel like I am going to cry. I am just hanging out by myself usually..... I am NOT a lesbian and I really wana a boyfriend badly. And I don't know what I can do about it. Boys flirt with me.... but they all have girlfreinds, and so I am obviously not going to dance with them because that would be mean. I just feel sort of like an outcast.... and like nobody really likes me. I really don't know if I am being paranoid, or if every girl goes through something like this. PLEASE HELP ladies who have been in this kind of situation.... or even guys. Thanks!!

2007-01-20 06:49:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently went to a wedding reception and wore a nice dress just above the knee. My mother walked in on me as I was undressing and almost flipped because she noticed I had worn just pantyhose (no panties or slip) under my dress!!! She told me the dress is too short to be worn with just pantyhose. It hurt my feelings. I think pantyhose are made to be worn without (they have a cotton panel)
but otherwise all sheer. No one would have known if she hadn't walked in on me. I just turned 20.

2007-01-20 06:48:43 · 25 answers · asked by Kathy P 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

well im 15 and have really never had a girlfriend just really good female friends so i was just wondering is threre still a hope or am i dead in the water

2007-01-20 06:48:15 · 8 answers · asked by anymous 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband has a work cell & a personal cell. A # started appearing on my husbands personal, then it showed up on his work cell.

I called the # and guess what....someone answers...acts like she has no idea who I am/what I'm talking about cuz I asked her if she knew my hubby.

Well, then my husbands personal cell gets a voice mail saying: "she" called me. You need to hide your phone from her. I don't want anyone to get hurt; if they do...you're in trouble.


So....I call this woman back after listening to his voice mail. She swears up & down that she is a grandmother & happily married. She has no idea who my husband is.


So......is he cheating? What would you think?

BTW...I'm only 27 yrs old, we've been together for 8 yrs. & we have 2 very small children at all.


All odds say he's cheating, but..........I just wanted to see what you all had to say about his response...which is "I'm not doing anything."

2007-01-20 06:47:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Uc, there is this chick who i lyk so much. Actually am a chick too, but i don lyk her in that sense, as in, sexually! We are in the same skul and evry tym she toks to me i feel happy, especially when am low. The reasons y i lyk her are that i really admire her character, she has a very gud sense of humor,which is y she makes people laugh, she is intelligent, a song writer/singer, gorgeous n evrything you can think of. I really thank God that she came into my lyf and that we r frends. I wud lyk ur suggestions and answers very much. Tanx in advance!

2007-01-20 06:47:16 · 8 answers · asked by Mia 2 in Friends

she said she doesn't want to talk to me i didn't realize that she liked me until yesterday so when i said hello she said i shouldn't talk to her she even took my phone the previous day and snapped her pic there so what should i do please

2007-01-20 06:47:15 · 9 answers · asked by marvellousdiva 1 in Singles & Dating

ok. i was jsut wondeering how to kiss a guy. i had a couple of bfs bout never kissed them. im gettin kinda old so i nee d to knoe how. im, in jr high and i need to no. no one i know can reallyt explain it to me. i want to know wat u do wen u kiss and all the juicy details.

2007-01-20 06:46:21 · 5 answers · asked by -adri; Your my wonderwallll. 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 06:45:45 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 31 weeks pregnant and i made the less than good choice to fly to Romania.Just for the record it was a great opportunity job wise. I had my doctor write me a note as well so i had no problems flying there and the airline seemed more concered with checking my bags than my pregnancy.Problem is i passed out at work and was taken to a hospital and put on bed rest.I have apparently started dialating and was told cant leave Romania.I am currently in the city of Iasi in a hotel.Other than the dialating i am fine i just cant fly because the doctors afraid i might go into labor. I told my future hubby what was going on and he said he can only afford to come and stay 3 day?He also said this is my fault for flying to begin with and proceeded to call of the wedding.He said also that he was not ready to be a parent ? An old friend and old co-worker also the person who offered me the project offered me a place to stay in his home ?i feel like if i do this i am betraying my bf?

2007-01-20 06:45:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am dating the most amazing and beautiful girl in the world, we are very much in love and have a wonderful time together, but recently I've been struggling and I need to hear from people who know. Basically things are great except sometimes when for a minor reason she will become very very unpleasant, she will get angry, yell and say some really hurtful stuff, the kind where the knife goes deep. Now afterwards 9/10 she will apologise and say she is sorry and she didnt mean things, but I never forget what was said, mainly because it hurts so much. Also she has had a difficult past and says Im the first man she truly loved, and that she wants to be with me until we are old and grey, and I want that too, but these moods just seem to happen sometimes, and its nothing I've caused but I bear the brunt of it. Im the best guy I can be, I do all the loving things I can, Im always there for her and always want 2 be, but its killing me inside. Her past haunts me as I love her so much, any ideas?

2007-01-20 06:45:10 · 4 answers · asked by PleaseNoMoreNumbers 3 in Singles & Dating

What would you do on a first date if you were attracted to someone and they asked to kiss or make love! Is it ok to make love on first date!

2007-01-20 06:44:56 · 6 answers · asked by LedZeppelin4ever1955 3 in Singles & Dating

I am a 36 yoa lady who has a great personailty and love for life that is looking for a nice guy to doesn't mind a lady with a few curves. I am a size 22 with dirty blonde hair and brown eyes.

2007-01-20 06:44:47 · 1 answers · asked by LadyBug 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a attractive 23 year old and I already feel old because my fiancee seems to be obsessed with highschool girls. Anyone else have that problem?

2007-01-20 06:43:40 · 17 answers · asked by babydoll784 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-20 06:43:16 · 7 answers · asked by indi9891 2 in Singles & Dating

things changed. she yells, screams, and blows up for no apparent reason. I don't cheat, don't hang out, visit my friends on occasion, not often. we work together, come home together, spend time together, and she still wants to argue and yell. My "rules" during the begining were no arguing, no drama, no cheating, no yelling, do disrespect. she agreed. now she does all of the above and more. reads my mail, checks my phone, and wants to control my accounts I had before meeting her. she loves to play(30+), childish at times...I'm very frustrated. ready to leave relationship.

2007-01-20 06:42:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

They wanted to send these cute white kids who were 1/8 Chinese to China where they could not speak the language and force them to breed with them. They want to force race mixing and want people to give up their rights as citizens. They want to force white women with a little bit of something else in them to race mix. They want to force people to move to lands in which they do not know the language.

2007-01-20 06:42:36 · 9 answers · asked by prettyprincess 1 in Singles & Dating