Is he cheating?

Question

My husband has a work cell & a personal cell. A # started appearing on my husbands personal, then it showed up on his work cell.

I called the # and guess what....someone answers...acts like she has no idea who I am/what I'm talking about cuz I asked her if she knew my hubby.

Well, then my husbands personal cell gets a voice mail saying: "she" called me. You need to hide your phone from her. I don't want anyone to get hurt; if they do...you're in trouble.


So....I call this woman back after listening to his voice mail. She swears up & down that she is a grandmother & happily married. She has no idea who my husband is.


So......is he cheating? What would you think?

BTW...I'm only 27 yrs old, we've been together for 8 yrs. & we have 2 very small children at all.


All odds say he's cheating, but..........I just wanted to see what you all had to say about his response...which is "I'm not doing anything."

I meant to say that we have 2 very small children at home...not 'at all'.

I asked him about it....all he does is deny it.

I asked him to prove it to me. First he asked how could he do that? Then he said there's nothing to prove.

Answer 1

You are right, all odds call for cheating. I wish I could come up with a better explaination, but I cannot think of one. It sounds like it's only physical not emotional if that makes you feel any better. If you believe him when he says he is not doing anything, maybe it's only flirtation? (I doubt it though)
You have 2 small children, perhaps suggest relationship councilling. Life is hard as a single parent if it doesn't work out, but I am sure you could do it. You are young so you have time to find someone who will love you faithfully if that is what you want.

Answer 2

Sounds like hes cheating. He might not actually be doing any physical cheating, YET, but none the less, its still cheating. There really is no one on here that can tell you leave him, or do this or do that. Its your decision. If you feel in your heart that hes cheating and won't stop, the best thing to do is what you think is best. I always say, once a cheater always a cheater. Things won't ever change.

Answer 3

Sorry, but something is going on. The same number, and she leaves a voice mail saying "she called". He's cheating.

Answer 4

Tell him you know , See what he says . Yes he is seeing her. Sorry, You just have to tell him. I would call her, Tell her you know what is going on . Get him to tell you who she is so when you call you can call her by name. if you have a home number then go on msn.com go to white pages under reverse number put it in it will give you a name and address . You can find out a lot with just a phone number. Good Luck

Answer 5

need to sit down and talk to him ask him first is he cheating and see what he will say if he gets angry cause you ak him then you will have your answer.and then tell him what you found out about the woman and the phone call wish you the best stay prayful and guide your heart sweetie

Answer 6

Honestly I would think that he is. I was the "other woman" in a relationship for awhile....thats about how it works. She's lying to try to cover both of their tracks. You need to confront your husband about this.

Answer 7

That is a big Yes ...Hes cheating. phone calls are total proof.

Answer 8

Tell him what you discovered and ask him if he is cheating!

Answer 9

he's cheating.