I am really very depressed. I have been to many dances this year at my high school, and I have never had a boyfriend to dance with. i see all of my frends dancing and I feel like I am going to cry. I am just hanging out by myself usually..... I am NOT a lesbian and I really wana a boyfriend badly. And I don't know what I can do about it. Boys flirt with me.... but they all have girlfreinds, and so I am obviously not going to dance with them because that would be mean. I just feel sort of like an outcast.... and like nobody really likes me. I really don't know if I am being paranoid, or if every girl goes through something like this. PLEASE HELP ladies who have been in this kind of situation.... or even guys. Thanks!!
2007-01-20 06:49:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know exactly how u feel omg. I used to be the same way in highschool and I think the thing was that I wanted it so bad it read all over my face and no one likes the look of desperation...In time u will get a boyfriend and I will tell u exactly when it will happen for u. When u least expect it. As soon as u stop thinking/worrying about it ( i KNOW how hard that is gonna be) it will come to u. If u cant stop thinking/ worrying about it at least try to appear like u have done so...good luck sweetie it will come trust me
2007-01-20 06:59:15 · answer #1 · answered by JAY 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry about it so much. Its not like its the end of the world! Just be patient... and a nice guy WILL come along! You just have to believe, and have confidence. Being depressed isn't going to help the situation at all! Good Luck
2007-01-20 07:24:17 · answer #2 · answered by CUTIE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly how you feel, Ive been there a thousand times, we all go through this...dont worry its absolutely normal, it has nothing to do with you. But instead of being depressed because you have no boyfriend, try to find the advantages of it, its hard I know, but trust me, there are many things you can do that you wouldnt do if you had a boyfriend, first of all, you can be totally yourself, do as you please and dont worry about anyone else, so find what you like to do, besides having a boyfriend, and when you reach that level of happiness on being on your own, guys will come to you, because thats how it works. Guys like girls with no problems with their lives, this doesnt mean that you are perfect, but that you are happy, that attracts guys. So, find a way to be happy with yourself, with your life the way it is, and get the most of it, because maybe, when you do have a boyfriend, you wont be able to do many things, so do them now that you can. Be free and enjoy it, you would be amazed to know how amazing is to feel free about everything and everyone and just think about yourself and what you want to do, say, wear, go to, etc. Enjoy it and let things happen when they should.
2007-01-20 07:01:07 · answer #3 · answered by Helle 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have experienced the same situation. Relax you are not the only. Not having a boyfriend is not disease neither a problem it is a period of your life waiting for the one and only, your real soulmate and not a stupid jerk. Try to enjoy this time of your life where you are as free as a bird without obligations. Not be jealous of your friend and fimd a boy because you don't like ihe idea of being alone wait some day(may be tommorrow) a guy only for you will come to your life. Good Luck!!!!
2007-01-20 06:59:27 · answer #4 · answered by ....................... 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep your chin up! I went through the same thing in high school and then watch out...college came and I never had so much fun in my life! For now...have fun and dance with your friends.
2007-01-20 06:54:14 · answer #5 · answered by twest_dgo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What you're describing is normal, so don't worry too much, ok? It sounds like you're a good person, so when there's a boy who's good enough to be with you, it will all work out. Lots of boys probably wouldn't be good enough.
2007-01-20 06:54:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes, being alone is good as you can concentrate on something meaningful. Try think positive about being alone.
2007-01-20 06:55:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it may be your image
2007-01-20 06:52:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
u can do no wrong girl!
2007-01-20 06:51:54 · answer #9 · answered by lowroad 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋