I am a attractive 23 year old and I already feel old because my fiancee seems to be obsessed with highschool girls. Anyone else have that problem?
2007-01-20 06:43:40 · 17 answers · asked by babydoll784 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like he needs to grow up and pay attention to the beautiful WOMAN that he is engaged to marry. Teenage girls have nothing to offer a mature man and I find it disturbing that your fiance seems obsessed with teenage girls. I would have a serious conversation with him and let him know how you feel. We can never compete with a fantasy. He has to let it go or let you go.
He can not enter into a marriage with this issue. If he is obsessed then believe me, he will find a way, either through pornsites or magazines, to fulfill his lust. Hopefully, it wouldn't get to this point, but given the opportunity, he may cross that line and physically quench his thirst. Sounds like there needs to be some chat time with him. My opinion.
Good luck!
2007-01-21 05:01:16 · answer #1 · answered by Goober W 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why in the world are you engaged to someone "obsessed" with highschool girls? It's pathetic. Guys who are into the teens are so because it's "forbidden fruit". Not to mention, these young girls are easily duped by an older man who pays attention to them. It's dipshit on both sides.
If I where you I would grow some self-esteem, because you sound like a really sweet girl, and dump this loser. It's not only creepy that this guy has a hardon for teen girls, it's wrong. He obviously only feels like a man when a young, impressionable girl oggles after him. He's an ***. DUMP HIM.
2007-01-20 08:05:18 · answer #2 · answered by kcarp73 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is a man thing. Males are hunters and seekers, they are never happy with what they have. Sorry you have such a immature male fiancee. This is something to consider before you get married. Things will not change, after marriage. You better talk seriously with him and tell him of your concerns about his lust of young ladies. He has a mental problem maybe and you need to let him know that you see what he is doing. Or you are over reacting to his noticing young ladies. You could be overly jealous. You need to look into your heart and then ask yourself can you live with him this way? Pedophile get started this way by thinking of younger girls. You better talk to him better to hurt now than after years of hard work of struggling to keep a marriage together only to have him leave you for a younger woman or girl.
Good luck
2007-01-20 07:05:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Highschool girls are young, naive, and 'at the peak of their beauty', they have just gone through puberty, and do not have too many flaws. As guys and girls age, they both change, and perfect looks dont seem to be a factor. It seems that this guy is immature, and can seem to get past that
2007-01-20 06:48:59 · answer #4 · answered by chris_m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men, the older the more often...think young girls retain their youth. The girls think they are special in an older guys eyes...He is using her and she uses him. My Ex thought these little girls liked him for his humor and good looks...they liked his money that he spent on them...the girls thought he liked them for their beauty and their sex appeal....he just want everyone in the room to envy him because he had a young thing on his arm. He thought he was special to her...any one that bought her a drink would do...She thought she was special to him....her kind was a dime a dozen, he picked up a different one in every bar he went in.
The reality of it all...his friends didn't envy him, just wanted to know where he got enough nerve to actually mess around on his woman at home and why he would ruin it for a cheap frilly....her friends didn't envy her at all most the males made fun of the old geezer and laughed at them behind their back and the girlfriends usually went off with their boyfriends to do fun stuff and left her there alone
2007-01-20 06:56:22 · answer #5 · answered by sassywv 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its an Evolutionary thing
very young girls are showing signs of fertility and health, ability to have babies being advertised
it was selected for for millions of years, few people even lived to 30 till recently
its ok to look and appreciate a girls beauty, maybe even to lust a little in a healthy way
it is NOT ok to have sex with people way too young for you though, we have laws for that, its good when they get enforced too
2007-01-20 06:49:14 · answer #6 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A man should not be lusting after high school girls when his
fiancee is only 23...
Something wrong with him..
Don't marry him...
2007-01-20 06:47:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It would be my opinion that you've got the wrong guy. I'm older than dirt but I can tell you that teenagers have NO attraction for me. They don't know which side of the bread is buttered.
2007-01-20 06:48:04 · answer #8 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
good question!. probably since most 23yr olds don't give it up. and have an increasing shopping list of what they want before they give it up... and it's not worth it so they just focus on those primal sexual urges that everyone has when they are in their teen years. horny, curious and proud of their sexuality.. not fridgit and warped by tv and the media.. lighten up!! geeeeze!
2007-01-20 06:49:12 · answer #9 · answered by Derrick Zooolander 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well im in high school and i know what you mean why they come after us is beyond my knowledge but one thing i do know is its not always the guys after the girl its high school girls after the older guys only because there more mature and give us a sense of security trust me hes ingaged to you and not goin anywhere
2007-01-20 06:49:19 · answer #10 · answered by Ambelry A 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋