And they still had feelings for you...
2007-01-20 06:50:08 · 7 answers · asked by octrucker 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, I would let go and wish them happiness!
2007-01-20 06:54:38 · answer #1 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if this person still have feelings for me it would indicate that these feelings need to be explored and resolved.As marrying to someone else would not erase those feelings.
I had a best friend once, she and her boyfriend had been together since high school,anyway he went abroad and somehow marry someone else. He still had feelings for her she was still in love with him. Long and short he eventually divorce that first wife and is now married to my friend.HAPPILY.My advice marriage should not take place if both your feelings are unresolved.All the best!
2007-01-20 15:20:48 · answer #2 · answered by sexxxxxy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! But, only in that I would make it clear that I still love that person and know that he loves me back. I would explain that it is unfair to marry someone with whom he is not in love. If he still chose to go through with the marriage then I would feel that I had done all that I reasonably could. Oh, I should mention that I would do this in private only. I would not burst in on a ceremony. All that needed to be said and done should be so before the guests arrive.
2007-01-20 15:00:33 · answer #3 · answered by nisefay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because it's up to them. The only thing you can do is make your feelings known and step back, let the other person take it from there.
They might have feelings for you, but why did they choose go marry someone else? There must be other variables and issues at play here. Let them make this decision on their own.
2007-01-20 14:58:32 · answer #4 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they love someone else enough to marry them it means their feelings for you have been resolved. Let go and wish them a great life together. If you love them then their happiness should be important to you.
2007-01-20 14:57:04 · answer #5 · answered by redeemedbyhim2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't try and stop the wedding. If they loved and cared enough about me, they wouldn't marry someone else.
2007-01-20 15:15:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will wish him a happy life.
2007-01-20 14:55:48 · answer #7 · answered by <<< sky >>> 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋