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I am 31 weeks pregnant and i made the less than good choice to fly to Romania.Just for the record it was a great opportunity job wise. I had my doctor write me a note as well so i had no problems flying there and the airline seemed more concered with checking my bags than my pregnancy.Problem is i passed out at work and was taken to a hospital and put on bed rest.I have apparently started dialating and was told cant leave Romania.I am currently in the city of Iasi in a hotel.Other than the dialating i am fine i just cant fly because the doctors afraid i might go into labor. I told my future hubby what was going on and he said he can only afford to come and stay 3 day?He also said this is my fault for flying to begin with and proceeded to call of the wedding.He said also that he was not ready to be a parent ? An old friend and old co-worker also the person who offered me the project offered me a place to stay in his home ?i feel like if i do this i am betraying my bf?

2007-01-20 06:45:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

Even though this would save me a lot of money in hotel expenses and the man in question is single but lives with his mother.

2007-01-20 06:49:00 · update #1

6 answers

Let me get this straight. It's your fault that by some fluke of nature you are dilating and can't come home... right?
Now I could understand him being worried... concerned.. scared..but he sounds like he is none of the above. Call off the wedding, what a jerk.
Is he the least bit worried you are in a foreign country virtually alone? I think I would take this time to rethink the wedding myself if I were you. This may be a blessing in disguise.
You are familiar with the saying "everything happens for a reason" well my child you may have just taken your first step into your destiny.
Think long and hard and think with your head but follow your heart... by this I mean don't just blindly marry this guy because you think it would be best for your child..what is best for your child is to have a mom who is satisfied with the choices she has made in life..Good luck
OH and by the way..he's called off the wedding anyway..I'd stay with the friend and his mom. If he cared for you and your child he would want you with friends and not in a hotel alone!

2007-01-20 17:22:48 · answer #1 · answered by Jan J 4 · 0 0

Staying in the home of an old friend would only complicate the matter, stay in the hotel. Your b/f apparently was looking for a way out and he found it. You shouldn't make children with anyone until AFTER the wedding. You'll have to let your b/f off the wedding hook and go on with your life, he doesn't want to be in it. Stay in the hotel, stay in bed and soon you'll have your child to raise alone.

2007-01-20 14:51:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Sounds like your boyfriend is very immature, he made the baby, but yet he does not want to be a parent.U should get all the child support u can from him soon as possible.
He must not care at all about u.
forget betraying the bf....he needs to grow up some.

2007-01-20 14:50:32 · answer #3 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0 0

Your so called boy friend just BETRAYED the hell out of you. SO.... what ever you decide is best for you right now, IS best for you right now. Hell, this co-worker is being better to you than your damned boy friend. You must do what is best for you and your baby. And, I think that who ever sent you there should pay for everything. They knew you were pregnant... But, I am sorry to tell you this, I agree with your boy friend in that you were an idiot to go there in the first place being pregnant an d all. Good luck.

2007-01-20 14:55:32 · answer #4 · answered by It All Matters.~☺♥ 6 · 0 1

At this time you must have one consideration only: Your health and the health of your baby. Go stay with your friend, since you will be surrounded by people who can help you when you need it. and you will go into labour soon, believe me.
As far as your non supportive jerk boyfriend, ignore him for now and focus on having a safe delivery.
Good luck.

2007-01-20 14:53:23 · answer #5 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 1 0

the baby is what you need to focus on!

2007-01-20 14:52:11 · answer #6 · answered by Domino's Mom 5 · 0 1

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