Family & Relationships - 20 January 2007

Im 17 and my parents basically wish me dead.

My dad is always instigating fights with me. Its like he has nothing else to do but to make me seem like such a bad kid. Usually our fights consist of him telling me all my faults and me telling him to leave me alone. But if i tell him anything my mom joins in and starts yellng at me calling me disrespectful.
My dad always yells at me for no reason saying how im so rebelious and im a hateful little b*tch or a c*nt, and you know.. just everything. he makes fun of my weight and to top it all off he and my mom think im a greedy little brat. I am supposed to get ss checks, but i dont get any of the money. and i stil have to use the money i make at work to pay them for stuff when my ss is supposed to do that. my dad yelled at me the other night when i said i was leaving because he upset me. he said Good maybe you'll come home in a body bag or on the side of the road you little *****. and i have him on tape tellng me he wishes i wanst born.

2007-01-20 06:09:45 · 11 answers · asked by MissJennyNicole 2 in Family

i like a girl i been chatting with online...
we've been chatting now for a little over a month.
I live in california and she's all the way down in mexico.
And i really like her, but i dont know what to do.
What should i do guys? girls?
Should i tell her if i can write to her by mail to her address at home? or should i get her number first??
Whats a more romantic way??

2007-01-20 06:09:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I'm white and I live in town where i've always been in the spot light,( hate it and really fed up with it) and I met a guy he is black, I personally don't care about the nationality, he is a great guy with a very good personality, but unfortunately people who surround me always butt in to my personal business. Not going out is not a solution for me and him. The thing that I'm afraid of, is how people are going to treat me if we brake up, which I hope will not happend. and when people see me with what will they think

2007-01-20 06:09:29 · 7 answers · asked by bad person 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married later this year and it's not my first wedding BUT it will be my first wedding gown. To save cost I'm buying a beautiful used gown but it's white with white embroidery and white and silver beading. My dilema is that traditionally you only wear white the first time you get married. I thought about trying to get it dyed a pale color but then the beading may all have to be removed. I've also thought about trying to restitch the embroidery in black (our colors are black, white and silver), but not sure how well that would look. Do you think the guests would really frown if I left it white? Any suggestions? This is a very expensive gown that I'm able to purchase at a very good price and I hate to pass it up simply because tradition says I'm not supposed to wear white.

2007-01-20 06:09:26 · 29 answers · asked by cookiefactory4 3 in Weddings

It is really hard when you are a plus size sexy lady to find men who love you for you. We all come in different shapes and sizes why is this so different??

2007-01-20 06:09:25 · 5 answers · asked by LadyBug 2 in Singles & Dating

he broke up with me and he would like for me to say im sorry. why do guy do that.

2007-01-20 06:09:23 · 3 answers · asked by Tim Girl 4life 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 06:08:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Kisses ...kisses...kisses...goes out to those to can find a good love quote...can you find one???

2007-01-20 06:08:12 · 4 answers · asked by butterfly 2 in Singles & Dating

I dont like him like that. But just recently I have been dressing differently.And He has been starring and talks to me ALOT more. He picks on me ALOT. I sit between him and his friend in math. He is always whispering about me and then when I turn around he puts his hand on his chin and looks at his book ti be concentrating. Then he does it again. Does he like me??

2007-01-20 06:07:46 · 10 answers · asked by *Madison 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, me and my ex boyfriend have been seperated for going on 5 months and he has been leading me on for about 3 months. He has been telling that he loves me and he wants to get back together. but here in the past month he found someone new. One night him and his new girlfriend was fighting about how my ex talks to me and she was calling me a bunch of names. He told me then he was going to break up with her but turns out she told him sorry and he never did. Last week he told me that he wants to be just friends, but now he telling me that he's going to break up with her cuz he wants to be with me. I don't know if I should believe him or not!!!

2007-01-20 06:05:36 · 11 answers · asked by Melinda M 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this boy but i don't know if he likes me. What should I do?

2007-01-20 06:05:15 · 4 answers · asked by michelle k 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 06:04:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He always flirts with me.Hes always joking with me.He told sum ppl he likes me,but he hasnt told me anything.Will he ask me out?

2007-01-20 06:04:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm on msn right now and my crush is also on. I was just about to listen to the song "Put it on me" by Ja Rule feat Lil'Mo and Vita when my crush put on the exact same song ( it shows what song they're listening to. What do you think of this, it's just to much to be a coincedence. I mean, we both wanted to listen to the exact same song at the exact same time, it's an old song to, nobody really listens to it anymore!

2007-01-20 06:03:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend wants me to give him a bj but i dont want to give him one.... i find it sort of gross. one of my guy friends told me bj's are a natural thing to do but i dont want to give my boyfreind one.. is that normal ?

2007-01-20 06:03:16 · 27 answers · asked by tiffanyblahblah 1 in Singles & Dating

first of all, i'm a 19 year old high school senior.
i got a bf about two months ago and he's my first bf i've ever had.. we cuddle alot at school but i feel shy when he holds my hand or hugs me in public.. we'v kissed several times thus far but every time he kissed me or asked me to kiss him before i went home..

i already told my mom i got a bf, but she didn't believe or at least seemed not to believe it.. she knew my bf through me, but she didn't favor me to have him as bf.. from then on, i don't talk about my bf to my mom, and i just lie to her when i'd like to hang out with him..

but this makes me feel guilty and my head's getting messed up because i don't talk to my family much since then. every time i feel like i'm hiding something from them..

what's wrong with me..? am i too young to have a relationship? why can't i muster my courage to be proud of having a boyfriend in front of my family?

do i need to end this relationship..? or what alternative can you tell me.?

2007-01-20 06:02:08 · 25 answers · asked by heyheyhey 2 in Singles & Dating

This boy within a vry short time became my closest frnd..& ive grown a vry firm trust on him.i usually dnt share my probs wit othrs.but i dnt hesitate 2 share my probs with him...i care fr him a lot..it hurts me like nythng whn he is sad.instead of consoling him ,i myself become sad.at times i hurt him 2 hurt myself(dats whn im angry on myself)...is it love???..or its jst frndship?

2007-01-20 06:02:08 · 8 answers · asked by luicy 1 in Friends

Just curious as to how anyone can justify cheating when it's wrong.

2007-01-20 06:01:40 · 30 answers · asked by Bryan M 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Well firts of all my dad had a baby with his girlfriend and she took my place that ***** so ever since i meet her i kinda starting to hate her and she has this attuitude that i hate and she always wants my dad only to her and her baby which i have a brother too and i want him to be in my side but my brother likes that ***** oh yeah and they want to live together and she scared of my because she thinks am going to kill her baby so i dont know what to do its like i want to get along with her but theres just sumthing about her that i just hate about her but she only buys everything just to get to my dad you feel me well can anyone please help me ....

2007-01-20 06:01:17 · 16 answers · asked by Heather R 1 in Family

we hardly talk to each other and we've been going out for about 2 months now

2007-01-20 06:01:05 · 3 answers · asked by Jack 2 in Singles & Dating

Just been to close curtains upstairs and the sky is syill lighting up what is this...There is no rain or anything seems quite fine..I am from West Yorkshire area?

2007-01-20 06:00:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't even know the first step...

2007-01-20 05:58:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know this guy. He's hispanic nd gorgeous. He flirts with me, and i flirt back, but how do i know, whitout asking him, if he for sure likes me?

2007-01-20 05:58:26 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 05:58:08 · 12 answers · asked by sss 1 in Friends

my mother inlaw is obessed she tries to tell me what to do and always tries to dominate me she has already dominated her son, its like when i first got married she would tell me what to wear howto act at first i was like ok beyatch! bcuz i was new to the country and didnt know the customs(over seas outside america) then she got on my nerves i stopped listening to her and wore what i wanted acted as i pleased but at home shes a damn annoying lady! like when i first wake up get outa my room to get some tea she would come invite herself in my room and sit down and start bitching about how theres an empty soda can and the room is messy, she always tries to rule and comment on every single thing man!!! not to mention she tries every possible thing to make her son to hate me and fight with me, she lies to the fullest with a straight face and teary eyes and a fake heart attack chest pains man!!!!! no guys he doesnt want to move out he refuses to leave his mom dad he says im not going to leave

2007-01-20 05:57:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Personally I don't feel that way, I think there are more important things to marriage than sex, but just curious as to what you all think.

2007-01-20 05:57:07 · 14 answers · asked by Bryan M 5 in Marriage & Divorce

We used to hang out all the time, but now they always do stuff and I don't because I am doing schoolwork or something. I want so badly to hang out with them, but it never seems to work out. Now a girl who I thought was one of my best friends never really talks to me any more or anything. She doesn't seem interested in me anymore and I don't want to give up our friendship, but I dont want to ask her about it either because it might come across as clingy. I used to be happy, but then days like today come along and I wonder why I am living...please help me.

2007-01-20 05:56:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My fiance and I are paying for our wedding ourselves and because of that we feel that the choices that are being made should be up to us. But his mother will not stop offering her opinion. Normally I wouldn't mind, but she keeps putting down ideas that we both love because it's not how she would do it. She's also a very Catholic woman and my fiance and I are not and this is causing conflict between the two of us and with her. How can we politely ask her to keep her opinions to herself? We don't want to alienate her.

2007-01-20 05:56:01 · 19 answers · asked by kissongstress54664 1 in Weddings

2007-01-20 05:54:43 · 10 answers · asked by B-Mo 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy and asked him out. His best mate pushed me to ask him out but, didn't tell me that he's Jewish and isn't supposed to have a girlfriend. Should i tell him to forget it?What should i do?

2007-01-20 05:51:57 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating