my boyfriend wants me to give him a bj but i dont want to give him one.... i find it sort of gross. one of my guy friends told me bj's are a natural thing to do but i dont want to give my boyfreind one.. is that normal ?
2007-01-20 06:03:16 · 27 answers · asked by tiffanyblahblah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there are women that don't like to do it.... and you should never do it if its something you don't want to do ...and if your boyfriend loves you and you tell him you don't like it well then he should understand...............
2007-01-20 06:14:20 · answer #1 · answered by bonnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abnormal is behavior that would affect you in a way that is not helpful to you. If he is not making a marriage commitment, he has no business discussing sex acts with you. If you are planning a wedding, discussions about sex, money, children, etc are all appropriate. Inside marriage, the desire to pleasure each other should be strong. But, he should honor your feelings while you gain experience and make those decisions over time. I would suggest that you tell him you will not do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable and ask him to honor your feelings. If a ******** means more that his relationship with you, you'll find out pretty quick. Good Luck. Ask yourself why you are willing to give all the intimacy of marriage away with nothing in return. You are much more valuable that you know.
2007-01-20 06:18:25 · answer #2 · answered by Nina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal for that to happen... But it all depends on you. I you do not want feel right doing the bj when don't. If your boyfriend loves you like he says then he should respect your wishes...
2007-01-20 06:13:50 · answer #3 · answered by lisababy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 22:25:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound too young to be messing around with anything. Take your time before he pressures you into doing something you could regret for the rest of your life. As far as "natural" goes, some women never do it, some do it all the time, and others don't do it til they find someone they trust/love enough to even try it.
2007-01-20 06:07:17 · answer #5 · answered by bigbro3006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's totally normal. A lot of my guy friends that are going out with my girlfriends are asking/pressuring them to give them bjs, but most of them don't want to do it. Juts say no kindly, there's nothing abnormal about you!
2007-01-20 06:07:07 · answer #6 · answered by Snicker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes and its your choice but some men like to see there lady going down there and do it its a control thing seeing a woman doing a bj for them is the best feeling
2007-01-20 06:18:29 · answer #7 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready to give him one.. simply DONT. I dont like anal sex personally and will not be pressured by my boyfriend to do something im not into. Having said that blow jobs are pretty standard things to do in sex but you havent mentioned your age either so its pretty hard to give advice...my daughter is 17 the thought of a ******** horrifies her too!
2007-01-20 06:09:19 · answer #8 · answered by angelbaby777au 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is perfectly normal. You sound way too young to be trying to make this decision.
You should wait until you are married before you decide on these things.
2007-01-20 06:09:05 · answer #9 · answered by Bornredprincess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's normal. Don't let someone talk you into doing something that you are not completely comforable with. Oral sex is a part of some peoples lives, others, not so much.
2007-01-20 06:07:20 · answer #10 · answered by fisherwoman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes now a days it,s normal but it,s not a thing that is popular for a girl, give him a hand job in stead but if you ever deside to give a ******** he needs a comdum on . and he need to eat a veg,s diet, meat lovers taste like burt lether, veg,s eaters taste like nuts,
2007-01-20 06:11:03 · answer #11 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋