The guys who I meet are either engaged, married or going out with other girls and don't tell me that until months later. People keep on saying that I am looking for the right guy in the wrong place. My question is where is the right place and where is the right guy? What am I doing wrong?
2007-01-20 06:54:17 · 13 answers · asked by star 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are doing absolutely nothing wrong, it's not at all your fault. You know how people say theres always a person made just for you, well its true...you just have to be patient and wait, I know its hard and really sucks to be patient, especially when all of your friends are settling down, but don't worry...an AMAZING guy will soon come and sweep you off your feet.
2007-01-20 07:01:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well maybe you are looking in the wrong places. Sometimes looks can be very deceiving. A person may look like a professional nurse or cop but be complete loser like you said. Or maybe you're standards are too high. What you said was right. A guys should have manners, be honest, have passion and have a decent personality. That's not too much to ask for but maybe you're being a little bit shallow or picky. no offense but I think it's a little strange that you can find one guy who is the list bit interesting. Whatever the problem is it could be any of the ones I have listed.
2016-05-24 01:17:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably looking in the wrong place. Where you should be looking for guys or girls is the kind of person you want. For instance if u want a smart persn go to a library or a school. If you want a partier go to a club. If you want a sport fanatic go to a basketball game.
2007-01-20 06:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by the i code 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby first of all i wanna let you know that you can always tell the content of a book just by the cover thers nothing bad meeting guys that engaged or married all you have to do is ask and if they lie thas fine but one thing is clear i also have that same problem just be yourself and remember you can force somebody to love all you have to do is to present yourself loveable and is left for others ro realize your worth when you take that off your mind the right guys will be there knocking @ your door GOOD LUCK
2007-01-20 07:05:29 · answer #4 · answered by marvellousdiva 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It isn't that you're not meeting the right guys. What's happening is that you don't notice the right guys when they are there, you only home in on the wrong ones.
2007-01-20 07:00:15 · answer #5 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mona, you arent doing anything wrong, get that out of your head. Its these guys who keep playing you that are wrong. Ok, look, we all know that for every good guy out there, there are ten ruining it for all of us. Keep your eyes open because the right guy is going to be there, you just need to give it some time and let him come to you. There are a lot of bad guys out there, but you need to take it slow and let the good one find you.
2007-01-20 07:01:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
the key is, don't go to places where there are guys that are your type, and definitely don't try to seek out a guy. remember that you're not looking for the right guys, you're looking for the right guy. if a guy likes you, he'll talk first. it's better that way anyway, because then you'll know if your guy really loves you someday in the future or not. just by letting them make the first moves.
2007-01-20 07:00:46 · answer #7 · answered by amberlynnr7 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We'd need to know more about who you are, the kinds of things you like, the kind of guy you hope to find, etc. If you're looking for a nice guy, though, church is always a possibility, as are bookstores and supermarkets.
2007-01-20 06:59:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
where are you meeting them? don't go to bars or nightclubs like everyone suggests. (the ones that suggest that are either still single, or married already, and never actually tried that route), that's been my experience.
it depends on what type of guy you want. try a bookstore or something like that.
2007-01-20 06:59:10 · answer #9 · answered by mike s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the "right one" may already be engaged,married, going out with other girls, you just need to find him
2007-01-20 07:01:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋