I do alot of work, and alot of other things besides having sex to make him feel wonderful. I mean I like sex, and sure I will give oral, but sometimes I dont feel like giving oral, since the pleasure is a one way street. But I want our sex to be amazing, and I am not all that experienced, only with him. So what shall I do?
2007-01-20 06:09:52 · 10 answers · asked by Shelly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look, from a guy's point of view, if he ejaculates he is getting something out of sex. It's nice that you feel that way and want to please him but if he finishes he's getting what he wants. the only thing you should be concerned about is his enjoyment up to that point. Try new things (without going crazy) and see what he likes and those things do it more. It's all very simple.
2007-01-20 07:21:54 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing caught my eye 'oral is a one way street'. I don't agree with you. When I'm with a man I really love, I just love oral..giving it or receiving it. The reason I love giving it is that I know how much pleasure I am giving and I really want to make a man happy. I think that maybe your boyfriend might just sense that you are not enjoying the giving part and this might be diminishing his enjoyment of the whole thing. Are you sure you are with the right man? Please think about it and good luck.
2007-01-20 06:15:06 · answer #2 · answered by sonia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try diferent positions if you have to get a book. try having him give u oral at the same time you do. experimenting even if it sounds funny is the way to go. that way you bring some variety to the table.
2007-01-20 06:14:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to give oral for sex to be amazing, although it is nice, try new things and new positions and stuff like that
2007-01-20 06:13:55 · answer #4 · answered by daniel a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of websites on sexaul pleasure, books you can buy, and people in chatrooms you can talk to. try different techniques, go to a adult bookstore, or lingerie shop and invest in toys, books, games, and more..Good Luck
2007-01-20 06:16:32 · answer #5 · answered by shonnie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More oral, compltly striped down, and a few lap dances.
2007-01-20 06:15:32 · answer #6 · answered by Answerer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are visual creatures meaning we have to see it not "feel" it we like to actually see the way you feel about us. talk dirty tell him what you want to do with him then do it . tell him what you want him to do and enjoy what he does. PS there's a spot between our scrotum and anus that's very sensitive lick or massage that spot and he will be forever grateful
2007-01-20 06:21:15 · answer #7 · answered by Bruce B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try new positions and see what happens. Get on top and stand on your feet with him in you and move up and down. my boyfriend loves that.
2007-01-20 06:12:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not enthusiastically into it, then maybe he's gay. I don't know ANY straight guys who aren't INTO sex.
2007-01-20 06:21:40 · answer #9 · answered by jeff b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try new positions
2007-01-20 06:15:11 · answer #10 · answered by marsha w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋