he's 30 im 32. we've been going out on and off for 2 years
2007-01-20 06:29:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means that he wants to hang out with his friends. Just because you're his girlfriend doesn't mean that he can't have other friends. Even though you may want to be, you're not everything in his life. If he doesn't have his other friends and spends all of his time with you, he may loose all of the friendships that he had before. It has happened to me before. Just like you should be having a social life outside of him, he needs a social life outside of you. It is nothing against you.
2007-01-20 06:36:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how often he hangs out with his friends,my guy hang out with his friends on the weekends,play a little cricket etc.then we would go for a drive or something.its ok for a guy to spend time with his friends too u know just as long as he doesn't ignore u completely.If u don't have fun with each other anymore then maybe he is bored of u,U should try having fun when u are together,like play games like cards,u know make him laugh etc.and don't nag at him too much that will only push him away.
2007-01-20 14:48:46 · answer #2 · answered by pacific30 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that it meant that he has lost interest in me. You better have a long talk with him and find out what is going on. If he is just not that into you any more well then maybe you two need to call it quits and move on. If he still loves you and you love him and don't want to break up then he needs to know that his behavior of being with his friends instead of you is just not going to fly. If you want this relationship to work then you have to be more fun to be with than his male friends.
2007-01-20 14:35:28 · answer #3 · answered by sunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds pretty juvenile but that is how guys are..It sounds like maybe he just needs a little break. Not like he wants to break up but just a little bit of space. So instead of worrying I would back off a little bit and see what happens from there. Try not calling him as much a u usually do and don't even ask him to spend time if he wants to he will. If nothing changes maybe he is gay...just kidding
2007-01-20 14:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by JAY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I hate to say this but this guy and you are not meant for each other...First if you haven't had a steady relationship in the first place that isn't good. You deserve way better. I was in the same place your in right now. And I let him walk all over me like that. He never had time for me. And I'd let him go out and go out and go out. And me and him barely did anything ..ALONE! but after 3 years of that he dumped me and i was the one hurting not him. I wanted him back, he didn't come back to me. If I could do it all over again i would have been the one leaving him. So......Leave him before he does you if my advice. Good luck sweetie.!
2007-01-20 14:36:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has more fun with his friends. Relationships can get boring sometimes. Develop a life outside your relationship. Go out with your friends and have fun. Why cry about a guy who doesnt want to hang with you? Dont mope around becuase he is not with you. Go and have some fun and he will see that you are fun too!
2007-01-20 14:34:53 · answer #6 · answered by cutencurley_05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it could be the fact that he is grasping at his youth and that is all it is. But, it could mean also that he is afraid of a relationship. There are so many things it could mean. Simply you need to sit him down and figure it out, talk to him tell him your concerns. Communication is very important in a relationship. Good luck!
2007-01-20 14:33:52 · answer #7 · answered by ldyria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Few reasons, first maybe he got bored or can't find topics to talk with you. Second perhaps your relationship starting to dissolves. Third hanging around with friends and makin new friends perhaps he likes that.
2007-01-20 14:34:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps he just needs a break from you. just because you're a couple doesn't mean you share the same air space 24/7
2007-01-20 14:32:22 · answer #9 · answered by nanabooboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he enjoys the company of his friends more than yours. I'd move on if I were you...perhaps consider him a friend but nothing more...he's not that into you.
2007-01-20 14:32:29 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋