I met this guy online , for the first time I came to the place and see him in person , he had no impressions to me , . Well, at the same night , my group of friends asked me for clubbing , and that guy joined with us , he was so cool , he is mature than I thought , and the more I went out and hung out with him , I feel that I like him . But I think he just wanna keep friend relationship with me . I am pretty and an attractive lady , I can say that ,,, but I dont want to be his normal friend , what shoud I do ? would a guy so afraid if he knows that a girl has a crush on him? any guys out there , please answer this for me ! and What should i do , keep this with normal relationship ....or what ?
2007-01-20 06:28:38 · 13 answers · asked by mimi78yesty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-01-20 06:30:50 · answer #1 · answered by Fairly S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all this guy is definately attracted to you however, he probably wants to get to know you first and is cautious about jumping into a relationship right away.
Give him some time as you really should "be freinds first' as that gives you both a foundation to work with. You are reasonably attractive so he must find you appealing so don't get anxiuous about having a so called relationship. When he's ready he'll let you know. Sit back and enjoy his companionship, if it's right for the both of you, then it will happen!
2007-01-20 06:37:28 · answer #2 · answered by lorrina b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make a guy feel something he's not. But realize he may have a crush on you too, and is just hiding it really well because he doesn't think you feel the same way, or is too shy to make the first move.
Truth and honesty is the best policy. Tell him you like him. Simple. If he's at all interested, he'll carry the ball from there.
2007-01-20 06:32:49 · answer #3 · answered by Billy Paradise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not shy whatsoever, and I have been in that situation except for the online part. I would tell him. Most of the boyfriends I had asked me out after I told them I liked them. When I findo u that someone likes me, I notice them, and try to see if they make it obvious, usually ending up in me liking them. I would tell him. The worst that would happen is that things would be awkward for a while, but id he's as mature as you said he is, then I think it'll be all right.
Hope that helped!
2007-01-20 06:33:32 · answer #4 · answered by Snicker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I literally just slapped my head in frustration at your mistake. If you wanna stare, wear dark shades. Secondly, short glimpses, smile, then go talk to her. DoN'T STARE, I know if a girl was staring at me I would probably point and laugh. Also, there's probly nothing wrong with your looks, it's just awkward.
2016-05-24 01:13:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i was jest a friend to my wife for 31/2 years befor i dated her.
2007-01-20 06:31:37 · answer #6 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, usually guys like the girl better if she likes him
2007-01-20 06:31:50 · answer #7 · answered by sis.bro.cingi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not exactly sure what you asking but,
men are dogs they'll take what they can get and they all just wanna get laid.
hopes this helps
2007-01-20 06:36:01 · answer #8 · answered by edoubleyou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um unless he was gay then no. sooner or later he gona want more. he just waitng for the chance. right now he tryin to kno u better. ushould pay attention to him to.
2007-01-20 06:31:46 · answer #9 · answered by Judah[[S.P.]] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him, he thought the first time you saw him, you have no impression on him so he "stays" friend with you, but he still wants to be more than friend................
Just tell him
2007-01-20 06:32:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
play it up a little, get flirty and stuff see what happens
2007-01-20 06:32:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋