this guy ive been talking to for about 4 days. Says that he really wants to be with me. But last night he kept ignoring this girl's phone call, so i made him call her back and let her know not to call him anymore. He did tell her that, he says he going to change his phone number for me , but he went to work today so he hasnt done it. What do you think, oh yeh he asked me to move in with him also.
2007-01-20 06:19:11 · 13 answers · asked by ktowndeedee254 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Four days? I was gonna be a smart a**, but fear my sarcasm would be taken as sincerity. Do you need a place to stay? Are you desparate? If not...hold tight. Ask him how he could possibly invite you to live with him after only 'talkin' for four days! Can you hold it against him that other girls still call him after you've been seein him for only four days? I wouldnt be surprised if women called his number for at least a month after he started seeing you (if he didnt change it). Is that his fault? Should he go thru his entire black book and call ALL the girls he's been with and tell them about you? Be real. You'll learn more about him if you just OBSERVE how he handles it, instead of telling him what to do. I think your answer lies in watching his actions. If he didnt pick up her call, and then called her back after talkin with you....would you still be wondering about movin in with him? Your answer is right in front of your eyes....open em!
2007-01-20 06:32:54 · answer #1 · answered by Soldier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, from personal experience, you should first off slow down. It may seem like the best thing to move in, but the faster you move the more likely you will lose control and crash. OK, from what you wrote, he respects you enough to not answer the phone while you two are together, thats good. I do think its a little too extreme to change his phone number. Guys say things that seem like the right thing to say at that moment, but some dont do it... not because they lied or anything, but they think it over and realize "what did I say"? The good thing out of this, if he does change his number or not, is that he cares enough about you to say that and at that moment mean it.
2007-01-20 14:27:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 days is a bit to soon to move in with a guy. And when a relationship is new, there still be a few ladies calling. It does not mean that he is not interested in you. Just be cool and see how things go, but do not move in with him this early. Take your time and get to know him.
2007-01-20 14:23:50 · answer #3 · answered by tigerprincess_bee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't move in with him as yet...ask him 'do u have a heart'..u don't even take sometime to give yourself a break between your relationship and u wanna jump in with me.'Think about it...when his gonna be with u..and get tired of the relationship..is it what his gonna do to u too...changing his phone number..ect...
lastly..ask him how serious is he with u..and I would advice u do not move in so quick..he justt moved out of a relationship..jus go out on dates with him,for a while..and if u think its a good idea then move in with him...but as a friend I don't want u to get hurt...I really don't know if he means it..cuz guy r so strange to understand sometimes..Hope that helps.chow.
2007-01-20 14:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by Annabella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 days, don't waste any time, sounds like you might need to get to no him first.Slow down please. He could a complete nut. Why would you feel the need to get rid of his girls, and move in with him? Sounds very lonely to me. What your asking and saying does not make sense at all. I'm sorry ,but the truth hurts sometimes. Please get to know him first,or move on .
2007-01-20 14:29:08 · answer #5 · answered by Summer :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 days??? Don't move in w/him. You barely know this guy. Let him prove himself that you are what he wants in his life right now. Take your time. Good Luck.
P.S. if the chic does call his cell again..answer it yourself..Tell her to get lost.
2007-01-20 14:24:48 · answer #6 · answered by shonnie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure hes for real or else you will regret it, know him well first before you make a decision
2007-01-20 14:22:33 · answer #7 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,dont do it dont rush anything get to know urself first before u do anything irrational.
2007-01-20 14:27:55 · answer #8 · answered by marsha w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 DAYS...please....get real...wake up....this is 2007
2007-01-20 14:22:32 · answer #9 · answered by Chilly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Proceed w/ caution...LOL
2007-01-20 14:23:36 · answer #10 · answered by D W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋