Im 21 and im dating a guy (24) who is a virgin for personal religious beliefs. i absolutely adore the restraint, faith and commitment that it takes for him to stick with this. but i am not a virgin, and i love sex when its with someone who i adore and love.
has anyone ever been in this situation where you want to be intimate with your partner, but doing so would end their vows of celibacy? and how did you cope? What happened? i want to "share myself" with him, but hes not interested.
ive never been faced with such a situation, and i have no clue what it the best way to approach it. I love him, and i want to be with him.
help!!
2007-01-20 06:18:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wait it out, if you truely adore and love him like you say you do then it shouldnt be that hard to respect his belifes
life is not all about sex and trusty me i know, my fiance wants it ALOT but a girl does get sore eventrually, and i to love sex
anywho if this is that hard of a decision then my best guess is find someone who loves sex as much as you do then
you should let him stay true to his religious beliefs and let it go.
you must respect him not be confused coz you aint gettin any
2007-01-20 06:29:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A vibrator! I have never been in this situation but the man has to have hormones! And you can do everything else! Just not intercourse! I also belive there is a difference between intimacy and sex. I feel for ya!
2007-01-20 06:25:06 · answer #2 · answered by bluepearl74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really do love someone, its basically about heart. And intimate is not necessary. As if you would even respect his decision that is called love.
2007-01-20 06:24:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would assume he is waiting to get married. And if you want him to feel good about him self wait.
If you want it now, explain to him that you don’t want to marry someone that you would hate to have sex with. The only way to know is to try.
2007-01-20 06:26:32 · answer #4 · answered by darksideofmars 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u need a little "self-help" if you love the guy and want to stay with him after he leaves for the evening take care of yourself with a "adult toy" when you do get married he will probly find it a turnon
2007-01-20 06:27:03 · answer #5 · answered by kevincolorado 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to respect his beliefs. Take a cold shower.
2007-01-20 06:23:57 · answer #6 · answered by S. W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you are that seriouse and you love him
ask him to marry you
it sounds like you really respect him and love him
if you really feal this way you should be with him
2007-01-20 06:25:21 · answer #7 · answered by james 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him u need physical love also,or date a guy who will fullfill ur needs,when ur in need of sex
2007-01-20 06:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is marriage an option?
2007-01-20 06:23:42 · answer #9 · answered by jeff b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i can see you doing a lot of solo sex... just keep the faith and it will happen.. dont stray... keep going solo as much as possible when you feel the urge....
2016-05-24 01:12:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋