When I go shopping, I sometimes buy a lot of cucumbers or zucchini when they are on sale. My husband does not eat many vegetables, actually he doesn't eat anything but what I literally serve him except for fast food.
We rarely have any people over, and no kids at all over our house.
My husband does cross his legs and points his pinky whenever he drinks, but I never really thought he could be gay beyond those "tendencies".
I have asked him if he ate or took them in the past, and he's like, what, I didn't even know they were in there .. he is really clueless about what's in the fridge.
I know they are not just getting up and walking away, and now I'm paying attention to how many are in there.
If he's not using them for what I think he's using them for, why the heck would he be taking them and lying about it?
2007-01-20 06:10:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, I am serious.
If I buy say six of them, he will take one, then wait awhile and take another one if I don't use them!
2007-01-20 06:15:11 · update #1
There is NO ONE else that could possibly be taking them. I just noticed recently because I've started paying attention.
Before I just thought I was eating more than I actually was.
2007-01-20 06:16:27 · update #2
Take a Jalapeño cut it and rub them down if he is doing what you think he is doing you will hear about it.
2007-01-20 06:21:11 · answer #1 · answered by darksideofmars 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is entirely possible that he is taking them and using them for activities which you have a hunch about. He is probably too embarrassed to tell you that he is doing it as it is pretty taboo in society. It also isn't something that you want your wife telling all her friends who then tell their husbands...and so on. He may think you are not paying attention. Maybe you should ask him about it again and see what he says. If you can live with what he is doing with them then maybe he will stop using your produce and visit an adult store since he knows that you would be ok with it. Just remember that you want to allow him to save face as much as possible when you confront this issue whether you're ok with it or not.
2007-01-20 06:22:53 · answer #2 · answered by emoryepiwoman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOOh nooooooo..... he could be into some things that will surprise you... any small pets disappear as well? Your pantie drawer in disarray?Try experimentation in the bedroom to see if he likes unorthodox activities and if he does decide if you can handle it. he may just be experimenting and he may actually secretly enjoy it. Find out if it is just a phase now...before 20 years go by and suddenly you walk in on him with another man. Then decide if you can handle the answer he gives you or if you need to go back to the singles scene.
2007-01-20 06:26:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think YOU and the rest of us know the truth. He's abusing the veggies. Put a lock on your fridge's crisper. Or better yet take him with you shopping and let HIM pick out the cukes and zucchini ... observe him closely on how he handles them ... look to see if his pupils dialate when he finds a particularly big one, does his back side "twitch" . . . that shopping experience should tell you the whole story.
2007-01-20 06:17:57 · answer #4 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the only thing you can do is wait and see. If you still think he might be using them for other things, You should be understanding. Most people feel uncomfortable about it. Im sure he is just hiding them so you dont cook them. Like you said he dont like veggi's. gl
2007-01-20 06:17:43 · answer #5 · answered by goininsane21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, this is just plain weird. I think you should set a trap or maybe set up a hidden camera.
This sounds a little freaky.....
2007-01-20 06:18:48 · answer #6 · answered by Bornredprincess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yuck! Confront him rather than wonder. If you can't handle this is sounds like something needs to be done.
2007-01-20 06:16:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is doing what you think, that doesn't mean he is gay. I think you too need to start talking about sex more often and open. start with small talk, help him feel comfortable talking to you and eventualy he will open up.Take it slow.
2007-01-20 07:29:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy the man some astro glide and have fun.
2007-01-20 06:50:48 · answer #9 · answered by Jan J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe hubby’s using them with the cat (per your other question).
Geez, get a hobby.
2007-01-20 06:17:10 · answer #10 · answered by kp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋