Family & Relationships - 8 January 2007

Nine months after moving out, getting involved with another woman and claiming that he was not sure and didn't want a divorce when I asked him for one, he now says that he wants a divorce but doesn't want me to have full custody. I would give him liberal visitation. He has been diagnosed with Nacrccisitic(sp?) Personality Disorder. Not that this in itself is a problem but if he has the kids for two week, he is actually home before they go to bed maybe five of the fourteen nights. He hired a part-time nanny to pick up the kids and he travels all of the time. I also think that he is gay or confused. He has dumped the girlfriend and spends a lot of time with this guy "paul" and the both of them now wears clogs ( that is merely a jab at them and kind of funny but true.) Anyway, seriously, I think that he has too many people going in and out of the house. Our daughter is 6, mentally retarded and our son is 3. I believ

2007-01-08 06:18:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and have a nice day!! lol

2007-01-08 06:18:55 · 9 answers · asked by Nando 3 in Singles & Dating

i have a best friens who is 13. she has a boyfriend who is turning 18. it makes me worry. the way he talks to her. her birthday is coming up and i asked him what he is getting her and he said somthing you cnat buy(sex) i asked her if she was going to do anything n she said maybee. i mean she is 13. he dosnt treat her right . i am not to fond of him either what should i do

2007-01-08 06:18:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-08 06:18:49 · 27 answers · asked by lynda m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My 12 year old son's father has promised to take my son hunting for the past 2 years, but his promises have been empty ones. I've told him if he waits around for his dad to take him then he'll never go hunting. (you have to know my ex....) So, my boyfriend asked my son to go after getting camo gear for Christmas. He's been twice w/my boyfriend and my son absolutely loved it!! My son never told his dad he went and has just found out about it. He called my boyfriend and griped him out for being disrespectful that it is a father-son thing he was going to do w/him and told him never to take my son hunting again. Instead of being excited for him, he made my son feel bad about going. I told my son that no one can tell him not to go and if the next time he asks him to go....would he do it and my son said yes. Do you think it was wrong for me to let him go w/my boyfriend? Was it wrong him his dad to be so angry about it?

2007-01-08 06:18:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Today, my husband and I were driving home and my husband was telling me some things like, how he wanted to buy me some things to make me smile. How he wished that everytime he got payed he would have enough to buy me something. I was stupid and jumped to conclusion that he only wanted to start buying me things because he was guilty of something. He said no, that he always thinks of things like that but does not say anything because he would keep it to himself. He also added that he was trying to talk to me and make conversation, i guess he was trying to open up to me about how he felt and what he thinks. I screwed up. He then raised his voice and said that he wont tell me anything about how he feels anymore. I feel like an idiot. Will he ever open up to me again?

2007-01-08 06:18:32 · 4 answers · asked by curiouschicky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am not in any commit relationship right now...My choice and reasons for this...However I was in a FWB relationship and just a couple of months ago called it quits....He keeps email, calling and leaving messages wanting to know why...I explained myself to him already...He is now telling me he loves me...I thought what we had was only a sexual thing...Is it possible to fall for someone like this?
Or is he in love with only one part of me?....

2007-01-08 06:18:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Was it unexpected?? Were you even looking for a mate??

2007-01-08 06:17:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he says he in love with another woman, but he still continues to still want to be friends with me, but I love him so much

2007-01-08 06:17:08 · 19 answers · asked by broken 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A close friend recently lost her live in boyfriend to street violence.

2007-01-08 06:16:47 · 10 answers · asked by empress 1 in Friends

2007-01-08 06:15:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like her but she hates me...what should I do!?
There's a girl in my class who I really like. We used to like each other for a while even though we didn’t talk that much. Anyway, it now seems like she really hates me for no reason and I don't know if she still likes me. When I start talking to her she tries to ignore me... well I don't know what's going on cause she asked me last week whether I hate her. Should I just talk to her and ask her whether she doesn't like me and tell her that I feel like she ignores me or is it a bad idea?! Please be honest...

2007-01-08 06:15:02 · 22 answers · asked by ari90 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and i got married when i was 21 and he was 23.He was an Australian here in the U.S.A as a pro-surfer i think he may have some sort of duel citzenship.Anyway i had just graduated from college and fell head over feet for but we seperated after a year.I shortly after found out i was pregnant with his son so i went and contacted him to inform him.He attended his sons birth and stuck around after for a little bit but we could not agree on anything so we split up.He moved back to Australia and i traveled to England for work and lived there for 6 months.I have traveled all over Europe for work with my son who is almost 7 now.His dad all of a sudden wrote to me stating that he wants visitation rights or co-custody of our son? For the record he did call me everyonce in a while to check on my son never spoke to him though.He sent gifts to my parents house that my son did recieve.

2007-01-08 06:14:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm creating a powerpoint presentation to show my family & my husband's family for our wedding anniversary dinner. I am putting photos of myself & my husband growing up. I plan on showing my husband first, then me, then us together. So, I'm assuming I need at least 3 songs. Please Help!!! Additional information: We are both in our mid 30s... So, a song fron the 60s isn't something that I'm looking for. 80s music and higher is what I'm thinking about....I am open for suggestions!!

2007-01-08 06:14:07 · 9 answers · asked by Mrs Robinson 3 in Weddings

i know i dont want her, i swear thats a fact
but the thought of somebody else rubbing her back
just kills me, oh it kills meee
i know she dont love me, i know she aint home
so why in the hell do pick up this phone
and call her, why do i call herrrrrrrr
i dropped by her mamas stonned out of my mind
just to hear that its over from her one more time
as if i didnt see that red chevy not slowing down, and rolling down our road
yeah shes allready left, so why cant i leave her alone?

2007-01-08 06:13:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think an open bar will be too expensive, but I was wondering if maybe we could have a table set up of wine. Has anyone been to a wedding/party where that was done? Is it nice or tacky do you think? Or have open bar until dinner is served. Any ideas or suggestions would be appreciated. Thanks

2007-01-08 06:12:57 · 19 answers · asked by Melissa R 4 in Weddings

why would my ex lie to me about having a girlfriend, who is now his fiance, in another country??????????? why couldn''t he just tell me himself??????????? why couldn't he just tell me the truth from the start????????????
we went out for almost 3 years and broke up about 8 months ago.

2007-01-08 06:12:36 · 18 answers · asked by alwaysmile 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy few days before New Year(NY),we spent NY together, well call me a slut, but we had sex, everything was great. Now, a week pases on, we're only talking on the phone with each other, on friday me and my friend decided to go for a dinner, so this guy joind us with his friends, we had wonderfull time all together, then later I stayed over his house. on saturday, my mother made a dinner and I invited him, and two of my other girlfriends, I've known girs for a long time, after dinner we all went out and his friends came with us again. After the club, we all went to my girlfriend's house to continue party, so my "boy-friend" to be didn't pay attention to me, only to my girlfriend flerting with her. I got very jeallous and tald him this, while I was smoking out side he felt asleep. I got even more mad, and tald his friends that he can go f himself and that I don't want to c him again, later anothr friend came over and I was flerting with him, while that one was asleep.

2007-01-08 06:11:53 · 10 answers · asked by bad person 2 in Singles & Dating

my ex is in the navy (in Guam)and came to visit (SD) we went to the movies on friday and had a few drinks. my bf was ok with it. my ex cant get over me for some reason(after 5 y. & I dont think he is in love with me). I love my bf so very much ok? and went out with my ex because he is the only friend i had in SD and I like him as a friend. last night i was at the movies with my bf and my ex sent me a text message: i miss you babe... my bf of 5 years got so mad and thinks i cheated on him. i called my ex and he didnt answer and when he called back i told him i was his friend and that i didnt want anything else, that i was in love with my bf and that i was not going to risk my relationship for anything. my bf heard everything and i kinda saw a smile in his face but still is upset over this. what should i do to prove him I didnt cheat!!? please guys dont make fun of me. I'm one of those who think you an be friends with your exs but now I know that is risky.

2007-01-08 06:11:37 · 15 answers · asked by chikis 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a significantly higher sex drive than my wife. I have used porn for years, but she has told me recently that this makes her feel cheated on. What to do?

2007-01-08 06:11:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im 16 and Ok I caught my little brother (he is 15) in my clothes and I took a picture of him and I was wondering if any other girls would do this to their boy friend or brother? read all the way through.


When I was in my early teens, I started developing a panty fetish. It started out simple enough, grabbing a pair of Mom's or my sister's panties from the hamper being careful not to leave a trace. Well, that went okay for about two years until I decided wearing them would be even better. One afternoon, knowing my sister had cheerleading practice and Mom wouldn't be home until late, I decided to try on some of my sister's panties and other things. I had never really looked in her dresser drawers before, but I was captivated by what I saw. Those things were way too sexy for a sixteen-year-old girl to be wearing, but they were just right for me! I spent two glorious hours trying on her bras, panties, pantyhose, and even her cheerleader outfit. I was in such a trance that I didn't hear her come up the stairs or even open the door to her bedroom. I did hear say, "Wow, my little brother is a sissy. I thought you'd been in my panties." I turned, mortified, standing by her dresser in a pair of her Vanity Fair yellow brief panties and a yellow Playtex bra. "Please don't tell anyone, please! Don't tell Mom, she'll ground me for two years," I pleaded. I started to take the bra off. "No, leave it on," she said "Or I will tell Mom". I could tell she meant it. I knew that tone in her voice. She had me right where she wanted me. It just remained to be seen what she was going to do with that control. "I won't tell Mom or your friends," she snickered, "But you will do everything I tell you to do for the next two years while I'm still here. Then, after that, it will be forgotten forever." "What do you want me to do?" I asked nervously. "Oh, just what you're doing now, dressing in my bra and panties." "I can't do that. Mom will find out," I pleaded. "She will for certain if you don't. So, you are going to be taught the ultimate lesson, and that is to be careful what you wish for because you just might get it." She paused for effect. "From now on, you will wear my panties all the time, day and night. I will pick which pair you will wear everyday and for special events." I wondered what she meant by special events. "When we are home and Mom is not, you will wear one of my bras, my pantyhose, heels, and whatever else I decide. I will make sure you don't get caught by Mom because it will ruin my fun if you do. At night, after Mom goes to bed, you will wear one of my baby doll nighties to sleep in. And when Mom goes to visit family on the weekends, you will be made up as a girl with makeup and a wig and the works for my enjoyment." She hesitated to judge my reaction and then said, "Oh, one final thing. I may invite my cheerleader girlfriends to help sissify you." My mouth dropped open just in time for her to take a photo of me with the camera sitting on her desk. "Insurance," she said with an evil grin.

2007-01-08 06:09:31 · 10 answers · asked by Michelle r 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I had sex with this guy on our second date. He asked me to call him the next day (yesterday) and I did. Talked to him for a sec and he said he was busy that day. How long should I wait before I figure I am being blown off?

We had a great time.... I don't usually do things like that (sex so soon) but he literally charmed the pants off of me. lol. What do guys think when a girl has sex that fast? Do you think he will call me or was I just used?

When I called him out that night (joking) I said "...Now I'm not going to never hear for you again am I?..." His response was "I'm not going anywhere".

What do you think?

2007-01-08 06:09:23 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

one day i was coming from school. i saw my dad with his girlfriend.it really hurt me because the lady was 7 months pregnant and plus my dad and my mom are still together.i wanted to cry but i did'nt. anyways, he told me not to tell my mom. but i still did and he got mad at me because i told my mom. i was right to tell right?

2007-01-08 06:09:21 · 19 answers · asked by MZPASTRYS 1 in Family

About 4 months ago my mom started keeping my son who will be 3 next week. She volunteered, I did not go to her, so I took him out of the horrible daycare he was in. Well I am due in March with my second child, so I have to come in late some days due to Dr. appts, & I can't take time off other than that. My mom informed me last month that my father & her are taking a cruise Feb 26-March 2 & I need to find someone to keep my son that week. The dc doesn't want to keep a child for just one week or if they do it's for more than I can afford. The one option I had failed because she is due with her baby in Feb. I feel like my mom has put me in a bind, because of this cruise.She made a commitment to me and my family and now I am left trying to find suitable daycare for my son. If the cruise was at the end of March it would ba a little more feesible because I would be on maternity leave.(My dad won the cruise through work & they can't change the date of it.)

2007-01-08 06:09:13 · 5 answers · asked by askywalkersmom 2 in Family

I was working an assignment with a guy while back pretty closely and the chemistry was flowing however because of the business relationship we were unable to officially date however just before the conclusion of the assignment he told me that he was asked to do some traveling and so on and so forth so I responded with is it for business or pleasure and he kind of got an attitude and said I only travel on business. What might you sense the attitude was for????

2007-01-08 06:08:24 · 3 answers · asked by explosyv 2 in Singles & Dating

Recently me and my man had a threesome MMF and I enjoyed every damn minute...lol But now he is ready for "his turn". I would love to do it and it wouldn't be a problem for me but I think we are getting deeper and the line may be crossed. He hates to admit it but I think the MMF threesome bothered him for a little while although he appears to be over it now. I just don't know what to do. He keeps asking about it and I'm stalling big time.

By the way he knew the first guy before you think that's why he was bothered. I think he was bothered because his feelings have grown and so have mine that's why I'm stalling

2007-01-08 06:08:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 06:08:19 · 10 answers · asked by MICKEY M 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 06:08:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Married People, What 3 things make your marriage work.
Single People, What 3 things are you looking for when you get married.
Both, Do you think marriage is untill death do you part, or do you honestly think that if it does not work, Dovorce is a way out? (barring abuse or jail for serious crimes)

Think hard on your answers, and try not to be influnced by what others answer.

It might be a eye opener for alot of us as to what everyone thinks.

2007-01-08 06:08:03 · 23 answers · asked by Common Sense 5 in Marriage & Divorce

get back together. Right now we are broke up. I kicked him out of the hsoeu cause a girl he dated while we broke up before started calling him again. He gave her his new number two weeks ago.

Yesterday he came to my house, wanting sex and wanting to move in again told me he loved me etc etc.
I ended up maing him leave again cause he said he and her dont talk that much - when id ont want them talking at all! He knows I would have him if hed drop her and he wont.
So today I was like why did you come to my house telling me you loved me and he said he does love me just wants to be away for a while. I really think it should be over and i was almost over him until he came by yesterday telling me he loves me.
Why is he playing mind games with me and how do i get him to stop?

2007-01-08 06:08:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating