Family & Relationships - 8 January 2007

you know when your hopes are too high, and you know you shouldn't get them too high, but you do it anyway, and then something comes and smashes everything and you feel like an idiot, but then you tell yourself that you shouldn't jump to conclusions too fast, but you can't help but feel that everything is smashed when it might not really be the case, and you still are annoyed and you want to confront the person, but you think it will make things worse, but you're still not sure that this will happen, so you lay in your bed thinking and can't get enough sleep and you feel that your head and chest will explode ? that's how i feel right now. it sucks. worst feeling ever. what should i do now? should i just get it out of my head? it's overwhelming!!!

PS sorry for the running statements. i just needed to get it off my chest :(

2007-01-08 05:48:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems like there are psychos, babies and jerks in both genders. There are relationships where the women expects the man to be psychic but there are also relationships where the man expects the woman to be psychic. There are relationships where the man is inattentive and insensitive but there are relationships where it's the woman. Know what I'm sayin?

2007-01-08 05:47:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 05:47:50 · 5 answers · asked by Moon H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she says that i won't undersatnd soo should i try to talk to her about it or just leave her be it's making me sooooo sad that she can't talk to me as her best friend

2007-01-08 05:47:30 · 3 answers · asked by beth f 4 eva 2 in Friends

ok.....so there's this guy....he's a really good friend....and i just happen to love him.....so i e-mailed him and told him........was that a good idea? i feel like a retard and i feel like i'm gonna puke........PLEASE!!!!! HELP ME!!!! i'm really freaking out. kjfakjdfhaljdfhladjfhaufheuifdhflakjdhfaljdfhaljdfhaldjfhaljdfhaljdfhl

2007-01-08 05:46:54 · 25 answers · asked by AthenaGoddess 1 in Friends

2007-01-08 05:46:15 · 45 answers · asked by elrod_dominique 1 in Singles & Dating

okay so im a virgin but i've had three opportunities to lose it.for some reason when we are about to get sexual i can't seem to do anything right,either i can't find the right position or i just can't get it in...two of these girls were virgins so i jus let it slide thinking they were too tight and that's why i couldn,t get in but the other girl positioned it and was experienced so why wouldn,t it go in then?now i have a new gf and she wants to "do it" on valentines day but im scared because not only do i not have any experience she is a virgin too and i'm scared of embarrasing myself and driving her away from me because im not experienced enough.i really need some help. like how to get up, get in, and get it on. WHAT SHOULD I DO. any suggestions would help and i'd be eternally grateful

2007-01-08 05:45:41 · 10 answers · asked by IisIam 3 in Singles & Dating

We all know what men are like. If you dress like this, the hot guys AND the not-so-hot guys will both look. So why get mad at what you KNOW is gonna happen?

2007-01-08 05:45:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay heres my story...i have this brother and everyone feels soooo bad for him because i am soooo spoiled...its not my fault i diddnt ask for it...well any way i have this field trip coming up n i have to make 550 dollars by febuary 1st and his birthday is on the 13 of this month...yeah i feel guilty but i dont know what to do

2007-01-08 05:44:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I need an alternate way to make money aside from my job. I need extra cash to pay for my wedding. Any suggestions?

2007-01-08 05:43:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

It seem's that all anyone does is look at the bad and complain, not look for the good and FIX the bad, instead of just looking for something else?

Personially, I would LOVE to be able to say, "Been married ofr 20 years and still going strong"

2007-01-08 05:43:50 · 35 answers · asked by Common Sense 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i mean, they will generally go with you if you make it available. but you as the woman will never feel that you are special or were "chosen", and will tend to feel that he is with you because you were convenient at the time. does this make sense or am i being "insecure"?

2007-01-08 05:43:25 · 25 answers · asked by jay dee 1 in Singles & Dating

anyway I have been with my guy for about a year and a half he is 30 and i am 29...and in that time he has two strikes against him..the first incident i can get past..now this second incident I dont if I can forgive or forget..he texted a girl that he used to mess with and told her he wants to sleep with her..I spoke with the girl she told me that they have messing around for quite sometime now..and that she saw him the week of christmas..he slept with her..on saturday i asked him about the girl..he told me that nothing happen they are just friends..she has a crush on him.he told her to leave him alone...I know that part of what he says is not true..simply because i went through his vm and teaxt messages..I know that I need space from him..I can t stop thinking about hem together..and so on..I love my man so much and would do anything for him..but i just dont want to go through the pain and hurt that i will suffer..i have been hurt before and the pain is to much..why am i holding on.

2007-01-08 05:43:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 05:43:06 · 5 answers · asked by FavoredbyU 5 in Weddings

been seeing her for ten years, we both say we love each other but she will not leave her husband even though he treats her bad. Should I stay or should I go?

2007-01-08 05:43:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a guy at a bar and he pointed to his car out in the parking lot. I thought it was the red 2006 Mustang but when we went out to the parking lot, he actually owned the big ugly white van next to the Mustang. How do I let him down nicely?

2007-01-08 05:42:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and i got married when i was 21 and he was 23.He was an Australian here in the U.S.A as a pro-surfer i think he may have some sort of duel citzenship.Anyway i had just graduated from college and fell head over feet for but we seperated after a year.I shortly after found out i was pregnant with his son so i went and contacted him to inform him.He attended his sons birth and stuck around after for a little bit but we could not agree on anything so we split up.He moved back to Australia and i traveled to England for work and lived there for 6 months.I have traveled all over Europe for work with my son who is almost 7 now.His dad all of a sudden wrote to me stating that he wants visitation rights or co-custody of our son?He even claim he could have me arrested when i come back to the U.S for kidnapping?

2007-01-08 05:41:59 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My man and I have been going through some problems latley. We've never cheated on each other or anything, but whenever we fight he accuses me of cheating. Thats because he hit me before so i took off on him for the weekend a couple of times, to have drinks with my girls. He hasnt hit me since and I havent taken off on him. Now he says he wants me to act like his wife and not like his girlfriend. What does that mean? I am his girlfriend. We are not married and he has no intention of marrying me yet so why does he say that? He said that someday he might want to get married, but i dont understand.Whats does a girlfriend act like and why doesnt he want me to act like his girlfriend? I dont get it....... HELP!

2007-01-08 05:41:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are college students, and this would help greatly with my time management. But I feel like then I would be stifling him or making him feel crunched for time. Like what if his buddies want to hang out spontaneously on one of our planned dates? I'd like to be supportive and let them hang out, but I'd also miss our planned thing. What should be done? I am really in a time crunch this semester. Thanks!

2007-01-08 05:41:29 · 8 answers · asked by reba 1 in Singles & Dating

I sent this guy i like a text message, but erased my signature and callback number. it said
I notice you a lot and I like what I see. Don't quit doin what your'e doing.

2007-01-08 05:41:17 · 15 answers · asked by ~Just_Jessica~ 3 in Singles & Dating

we were really addicted to each other and i got jealous of her and she made a fuss over the trust issue several times,but,i kept finding her adds in various places,i confronted her and she would either change the wording,remove her partial nude pic or make it private so that i could not even see any longer at all,there is a 20 year difference in our ages,but,i am very athletic for my age,seems to me that her cell phone and various hidden logons are like a harem to her and i don't know which rung on her step ladder i actually am,i already asks tom leykus and he said forget about her forever

2007-01-08 05:40:43 · 4 answers · asked by dans92647atyawhoim 1 in Friends

I want to know if hes a virgin but it's and akward question to just ask out of the blue, what should i do??

2007-01-08 05:40:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i meet a person and i do like him a lot. he told me that he likes me as well but he always ask for a kiss ?
i do not know what to do! he stopped talking with me and he said i am avoiding him. well, i am not - i do like him but i feel it still early for kissing.

2007-01-08 05:39:51 · 1 answers · asked by Rachel 3 in Friends

...I dont want to lose him so what do I do to get him back?

2007-01-08 05:39:30 · 12 answers · asked by ♥♥♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

I met him at school and just all of a sudden we hung out with each other all the time we never left each others site then one day me and my family go to the races and i called him to see what he was doing he said nothing and i told him were we were and he asked how long we will be there i said till its over then he said can i come hang out with said sure so he came we hung out then it was time to leave and then he asked me out and i said yes and every day we always with each other even after school we would hang out at my house then when he went to leave we always ended making out with each other. As time went by he ended up buying me my class ring which was $240 and he was spending money on me most of the time but not all the time but anyway about a month later he come up to me and said i don't think we should be together any more so i was like fine and cried my eyes out after i left so plz tell me what you think and soory if this a long

2007-01-08 05:39:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

get back together. Right now we are broke up. I kicked him out of the hsoeu cause a girl he dated while we broke up before started calling him again. He gave her his new number two weeks ago.

Yesterday he came to my house, wanting sex and wanting to move in again told me he loved me etc etc.
I ended up maing him leave again cause he said he and her dont talk that much - when id ont want them talking at all! He knows I would have him if hed drop her and he wont.
So today I was like why did you come to my house telling me you loved me and he said he does love me just wants to be away for a while. I really think it should be over and i was almost over him until he came by yesterday telling me he loves me.
Why is he playing mind games with me and how do i get him to stop?

2007-01-08 05:38:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i went to see what it was about? Do any real women go there or is it just a front for adult sites?

2007-01-08 05:37:55 · 4 answers · asked by wayne 4 in Singles & Dating

This girl calls me, right? Well, we will be talking about world problems and then she will go into the sex she had with previous boyfriends. Then she wants me to get a "hard on" and do stuff over the phone. It happened more than once too. Right in the middle of our phone convo she just says she has to go to bed! what is going on?

2007-01-08 05:37:43 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 05:37:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She emails me this...

Today is January 8, 2007
Today we cut loose all the baggage of the past and start new,
There is no security there are no guarantees, there is no future in mind,
Today I met you. Although I know things about you, as you know things about me, neither one of us know if the other is someone we truly want to be with,
We are willing to meet anew (with who we are today) and see if we see anything in each other that is worth pursuing.
There is space for introspection who are you, who am I, what do we want out of life individually
There are no rules, just two people meeting again
There are no fights or things to harp on from the past as there is no past, it's a clean start that won't necessarily lead anywhere.
Our communications are fresh,

What is this? What do you make of it and what do I do?

2007-01-08 05:36:44 · 9 answers · asked by Tunasandwich 4 in Singles & Dating