anyway I have been with my guy for about a year and a half he is 30 and i am 29...and in that time he has two strikes against him..the first incident i can get past..now this second incident I dont if I can forgive or forget..he texted a girl that he used to mess with and told her he wants to sleep with her..I spoke with the girl she told me that they have messing around for quite sometime now..and that she saw him the week of christmas..he slept with her..on saturday i asked him about the girl..he told me that nothing happen they are just friends..she has a crush on him.he told her to leave him alone...I know that part of what he says is not true..simply because i went through his vm and teaxt messages..I know that I need space from him..I can t stop thinking about hem together..and so on..I love my man so much and would do anything for him..but i just dont want to go through the pain and hurt that i will suffer..i have been hurt before and the pain is to much..why am i holding on.
2007-01-08 05:43:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're probably holding on to him because you're scared of what it means to let go. But you need to let go for your own good. He's cheating on you. You don't want a cheater for a boyfriend. He lies to you. He probably doesn't care about you as much as you want to believe he does. If he truly cared about you, he wouldn't lie and cheat. Leave him and find someone else that is worth your time.
2007-01-08 05:49:11 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, if a guy cheats more then once, there always going to be cheaters. This guy slepted with another girl, and thats cheating and thats wrong. So The good thing would be for you to dump this asshole and find someone who won't cheat on you like he did.
2007-01-08 05:51:09 · answer #2 · answered by Lori J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and move on, he doesn't deserve you!
2007-01-08 05:46:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋