get back together. Right now we are broke up. I kicked him out of the hsoeu cause a girl he dated while we broke up before started calling him again. He gave her his new number two weeks ago.
Yesterday he came to my house, wanting sex and wanting to move in again told me he loved me etc etc.
I ended up maing him leave again cause he said he and her dont talk that much - when id ont want them talking at all! He knows I would have him if hed drop her and he wont.
So today I was like why did you come to my house telling me you loved me and he said he does love me just wants to be away for a while. I really think it should be over and i was almost over him until he came by yesterday telling me he loves me.
Why is he playing mind games with me and how do i get him to stop?
2007-01-08 05:38:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Holy cow Girl! Get out now! I spent 9 years playing the fool with a similar guy! Keeping you on the back burner is what he is doing so don't let him. Time to move on!!! You can't change him and he won't stop what he is doing to you as long as you keep taking him and his crap back! What he is doing is mentally abusing you and you deserve better and much more than what this guy is providing you. Be strong and be solo for a while.
Good luck
2007-01-08 05:47:40 · answer #1 · answered by GOLDIE3769 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont know what to tell you you really have to find out what is best for you being appart or together is the juice worth the squeeze if it is then yea take him back but if you cant let him talk to his ex then just let him go cause from the sound of it he is not going to astop talking to her
2007-01-08 05:51:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
GIRL...PLS IF YOU REALLY WANT HIM TO LEAVE YOU ALONE YOU JUST STOP OPENING THE DOOR. BUT U LOVE HIM. THAT IS HARD . IM SORRY TO TELL U THAT UR MAN WANT THE CAKE AND EAT IT TO. IT IS UP TO YOU IF U LET HIM PLAY U. MEN WILL TELL ALL THIS AND THAT TO GET LAYED. WE JUST HAVE TO BE THE STRONG ONE. MY QUESTION TO YOU IS DO YOU BELIEVE HIM? U CAN TELL WHEN THEY ARE FONEY. GOOD LUCK GIRL.
2007-01-08 05:47:33 · answer #3 · answered by vivi010571 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He plays games with you because you let him. He does it because he's immature, insecure, and a bit of a loser. You probably let him because you're insecure and don't think you can do any better.
He'll stop when YOU stop. Stop talking to him. Stop seeing him. Stop communicating with him. Stop letting him in your house. Stop playing with him.
2007-01-08 05:41:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question.
He knows you'll take him back if he gets rid of her.
He knows he's in control.
He can play all the games he wants with you, because he knows he's in control.
2007-01-08 05:43:56 · answer #5 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get his keys, and kick him out. you will never have the skill to have faith this guy. substitute the locks any way. field up any stuff he has around the situation, positioned it on the shrink, and tell him again get it. tell him to easily get the stuff - do not hardship coming to the door. do not take his calls, do not enable him lower back into the domicile or into your existence. you will never have the skill to have faith him lower back.
2016-12-15 18:50:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell everything to your dad or bro and im sure he will have a lil conversation to this guy who will ,after this , finaly stop playing with you
2007-01-08 05:43:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave his *** alone cuz he knows da way to get bac wit u n yet he dnt try n do nothing bout it
2007-01-08 05:41:35 · answer #8 · answered by iesha 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
grow up lil girl
2007-01-08 05:43:36 · answer #9 · answered by kissie623 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and move on
2007-01-08 05:49:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋