Family & Relationships - 8 January 2007

He hit my 17 year old becuase my son brought in his friend Jess who is nice... he went balistic and sent Jess home, them started attacking my son -- my son said he hit him three times in the face... and then locked him in the closet for seven hours until I get home. I guess he's hit my son before... When I confronted my husband, he said putting him (my son) in the cloest was no different then a time-out. What to do?

2007-01-08 05:16:13 · 21 answers · asked by Umm Me 1 in Family

2007-01-08 05:15:43 · 8 answers · asked by mistandcrust 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've never had reason to question my Girlfriends loyalty. But I noticed what to me looked like a hicki on the inside of her thigh near her croutch. She says it is a bruise, but can not tell me how she got it. What should I do?

2007-01-08 05:15:17 · 9 answers · asked by Gabriel L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

WELL I HAVE THIS BOYFRIEND BUT WHEN WE FIRST MEET HE WAS ALL COOL BUT NOW THAT WE BEEN TALKING FOR 3 MONTHS NOW HE ACT REAL FUNNY LIKE IT'S ANOTHER GIRL HE FOUND.

2007-01-08 05:15:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have two girls the oldest one has stayed with my parents alot, and still does. I want to move with my ex my youngest wants to go. My parents don't think he has changed, but I have my own house to come back to if I have to. What do ya'll think I should do?

2007-01-08 05:15:00 · 11 answers · asked by tina b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend Melanie who is SUPPOSED to be my best friend told my boyfriend Aaron that I cheated on him with this other kid called Josh and it's such a lie because I never cheated on Aaron, because I don't go around sleepin with other guys like some slut. I tried to tell Aaron that she's a liying biotch, but he said he dunno what to believe, and now Melanie is probably gonna steal him from me.

Do you think she's a true friend for that? Because I think she is trying to steal my boyfriend, but she says she ain't ... pffft biotch ... I know she is. What do YOU THINK?

2007-01-08 05:14:39 · 13 answers · asked by Blondie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

assuming that she is not interested in his money--but him as a person, is it better for their finances to be about equal?

2007-01-08 05:14:26 · 49 answers · asked by Frank 3 in Singles & Dating

why dont "some" guy dont care for there woman?? why cant it be easy to tell and show a guy how you feel bout them and the female dont have to worry bout the guy taking that and using thier girl because they no they want leave them, because we are in "love"? please let me no!!
*vikkie*

2007-01-08 05:13:05 · 3 answers · asked by VIKKIE 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Safe inside a locker in the district policeheadquarters in east Delhi, lies Anju Ilyasi's story: What marriage to theman she loved meant to her, her ecstasy on giving birth to a beautifuldaughter, her frustration on being neglected by Suhaib Ilyasi and not beingable to pursue a career, her apprehensions about the other women in herhusband's life and finally, the last words capturing the final moments ofdesperation.
n her diary, Anju blames Suhaib for harassing and torturing her every timeshe committed a mistake at home, when the food was not ready when he camehome and when she questioned him when he came home late. ``He is alwayslooking for an excuse to get angry on me,'' she once wrote.
There are instances where an angry Anju has unabashedly abused Suhaib. Onesuch entry reads: ``Kamina....rakshas...uska sapna hai ki woh mujhenaukrani banake rakhe. Mein aise nahin hone dungee.'' (He thinks he cankeep me like a servant in his house. I will not let it happen.)
At several places, she had accused Suhaib of not giving her money to meether personal expenses while he apparently spent a lot of money on his owntrips abroad.

2007-01-08 05:12:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 05:11:29 · 14 answers · asked by patcary@sbcglobal.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 05:11:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

is it wrong to be friends with your ex husband , the father of your kids, that you were with for 7 yrs, when you have a new husband who wants you to hate him, and not talk to the ex hubby? I dont feel its wrong to be friends with the ex hubby esp when kids are involved, we are already having problems cuz of me and the ex talkin or convo about things , nothing sexually or relationship kinda talk , just talk as in life talk, kids, things like that, but my new one isnt liking to much!! what should i do, or how should i approach this matter ?

2007-01-08 05:11:09 · 16 answers · asked by Melindakaye 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Correct me if im wrong, but i have a feeling, girls always know/sense when your attracted to them. or when your flirting/attracted to another girl.

2007-01-08 05:10:51 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would you tell your best friend to stop sleeping with a married man, if you found this out?

2007-01-08 05:10:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex-bf was the one who ended it. That was almost a year ago, yet last week he called me and asked to see him. He picked me up we saw a movie then he took me home. At the end of the night he just said bye and didn't even try to hug me. Does this mean he just wants to be friends? But even guy friends hug their friends that are girls. Should I take it as an offense? Neways, what kind of things do you talk about with your ex? Can I ask him for advice about geeting a job and such? By the way, even when he ended he would still say hi to me on msn during that year. Now that we both saw each other, can I just talk to him when I want. (on msn) I mean? and what topics can i btring up and what kind of advice can I ask him about AND what kind of questions can I ask and NOT ask him, since he's my ex-bf?

2007-01-08 05:10:23 · 6 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 05:09:47 · 26 answers · asked by sj 1 in Singles & Dating

My grandchildren absolutly love this man and so do my two kids. This hit me out of no where and I'm worried how they will react. He attended my son's wedding with me and was included as a member of the family and he spent money like a crazy person on Christmas and now he says he didn't want to be the 'bad guy' and ruin the wedding or Christmas. He's in pictures and movies with all my family. This is so wrong and selfish but he hasn't been honest with me for a long time I've found out.

I'm going to be okay. I have friends and a place to stay. Just not sure how my kids will take 'yet another broken relationship' from Mom.

2007-01-08 05:09:11 · 9 answers · asked by patcary@sbcglobal.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i received an email... accidently... from him with a conversation between him and one of his female friends. they're talking about their new years plans. he says he'll call her at midnight. then he says 'i love you' and signs his name. maybe it's just me, but saying i love you in a casual conversation like that it's normal... or right. i've talked to him about it. he now thinks that i'm accusing him of cheating. i'm not. i just don't think he understands that i really don't like him saying that. i've never met the girl and we've been together for over a year. she lives in town, not too far away, so i don't understand why i haven't. if she's one of his really good friends like that, i should have met her by now, right? how do i push the fact that i don't want him saying that to her?

2007-01-08 05:08:50 · 6 answers · asked by Lizette H 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 05:08:43 · 6 answers · asked by J and C 1 in Weddings

2007-01-08 05:08:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my x has moved two states away, we were together fo 5 yrs, its been over for 2yrs. every three months she calls and says she wants me back, but when i start to take the steps to move up there or get closer she backs away and stops callling. now here we are again shes calling my phone and i dont answer so she calls all my friends to find me. i know what she wants, she says i still love you but im not in love with you. what the hell does that mean and why is she still calling if she doesnt want me back. what should i do? we have a kid together.

2007-01-08 05:08:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a 40 year old male who is not interested in his wife. We've been married 16 years and I no longer have feelings for her!! The only thing I feel for her is sorry. When we first married she was slim and did everything for me. Now she has packed on the pounds and is a lazy cow!! I Can not stand to look at her. I haven't told her how I really feel, yet I think she already knows. When she does ask I blame it on her. I tell her things like, "It's in your head", "Your just being jealous", "If you would______". I really don't want to deal with it. I am in school full time, I work full time, so why should I have to come home to a lazy fat woman who does nothing for me? If she would lose some of the fat and get off her behind, then maybe. Until then I use whatever excuse I can to stay away, even church.

2007-01-08 05:07:30 · 17 answers · asked by -->-->Funkster 3 in Marriage & Divorce

they are always clean, well-spoken, well-presented, do their work always according to policy, and go home to "perfect" family lives and beautiful homes. they are "in love" with their spouse and have children they adore.
do these people exist everywhere or is it me being jealous and nasty?
do they annoy you or are you one of them?

2007-01-08 05:06:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How much do you think I should anticipate spending if my reception venue allows me to purchase my own alcohol for my reception. We are having 4.5 hour open bar for 125 people with beers (heineken & yuengling lager), wine (woodbridge), liquor (absolut, jack daniels, crown royal, johnny walker red, tangueray gin)?

2007-01-08 05:06:31 · 10 answers · asked by Kirsten S 2 in Weddings

ok i like this girl that has a bf. the bf treats her like so badly. she flirts with me almost every day in my 4th block class and i flirt back. we also danced at a school dance, it was a slow one. i think she likes me and i like love her. but what should i do since she has a bf.

2007-01-08 05:06:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend she as a dauther from other man and we have a child together.
the girl she is not aloud on msn,but she had home work to do from school.we aloud her to go and have her home work done,but i catch her on msn ,but now she saing she wasn't and swear the babys life to her mum ,and her mum belive her .
now im scared ,maybe some day she will tell her mum that her try to rape her or anything else .
how i can prove she was on msn? please help me

2007-01-08 05:05:02 · 14 answers · asked by tonixricco 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been with this man for 6 months and was with my kids daddy for almost 10 years how do i tell my fiance that i dont want to be with him anymore that i want to be with the kids daddy again because he has patiently waited for my return and stands up for me to his family

2007-01-08 05:04:46 · 7 answers · asked by gigi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 05:04:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-01-08 05:04:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok here goes the story my boyfriend and me have been together for a year and going on three months. now his momma and me dosen't really get a lone because she always tries to disrespect me because she is my co-pastor so she thinks she could say whateva. i try to let it go and keep on going with my life now yesterday she told my boyfriend daddy that i get around now keep in mind i'm a virgin. then she tells other stuff and barely knows what she is talking about. now i'm fed up with her and all this drama and i just want it all to end but i love him with all my heart and would do anything for him. but i don;t want to deal with this for the rest of my life. what should i do?

2007-01-08 05:04:16 · 17 answers · asked by Mz.Tweety 2 in Singles & Dating