they are always clean, well-spoken, well-presented, do their work always according to policy, and go home to "perfect" family lives and beautiful homes. they are "in love" with their spouse and have children they adore.
do these people exist everywhere or is it me being jealous and nasty?
do they annoy you or are you one of them?
2007-01-08 05:06:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You only see them at work!Could be a different story behind closed doors!!
2007-01-08 05:09:33 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like youv'e got yourself into a bit of a rutt and your looking for a way out, I sure hope you find it soon.
There are successful people and not so successful people but theres no need to envy the more successful their lives must be very stressful balencing everything so perfectly until one day they have a nervous breakdown because they just can't hold it all together anymore. Better to take life a little easier and mellow out a bit, I can assure you that their perfect exterior is probably a fassard and their life is probably as difficult as anyone else's esspecially behind closed doors. it seems to me that you are acting jealous yet you may not really know what their life is like when they go home at the end of the day perhaps they have their mother in law living with them? or something else is rocking their world and their only form of stability is at work.
they certainly don't annoy me I couldn't care less wether these people exist or not and I hadn't really thought about it until you asked your question. don't let matters like this worry you it's not worth the grief you do your best for you and yours and that is all that matters isn't it?
2007-01-08 05:36:34 · answer #2 · answered by fredfanackerpan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
darling I was one of them, but guess what I wake up and divorce
then I look around all the people that is like that were getting a divorce
to this day some of my Xh friend still could not believe that we are divorce because of them were using us as example
I am remarried and happy with my new husband happier than I ever was with my X but I will tell you the secret is to take thing one day at the time
you can still make plan buy homes together but I found it easier to forgive someone fault when you take things one day at the time
you don't have to be jealous of those people that you think are happy because I learn from experience that what you see from the surface is not necessarily not what life is truly
those people are just like you they just know how to hid it better
their is no perfect home nor family
2007-01-08 05:26:16 · answer #3 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey no-one's perfect.
I am good at my job (still make mistakes though), clean, well-spoken and well-presented, and I love my husband but I'd hate people to think of me in the way you describe!!
I don't claim my life is perfect, I just don't complain about the bad stuff at work.
Maybe if you see someone like this remember there will be something going on in their lifes - they just might not want to talk about it.
2007-01-08 07:26:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I think I am one of them. I got together with all of my sisters in law and we started drinking and they all said that about me. How I am so perfect and my kids are good and my husband is so nice compared to their husbands..... I've also heard this from friends who said they hated me before they got to know me for the same reason. All I have to say is that I am not perfect like everyone thinks. I don't think I am better than anyone else because I am not. I do have problems and I do cry and stress out. I just do it at home. I just hate listening to people talk about their family, love, sex.. problems at work or within the family so I don't do it. You know what I mean. It is not that I don't feel for them I just think "wow, that is none of my business".
2007-01-08 05:38:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think of all and sundry has lack of self assurance's in some unspecified time interior the destiny of their lives yet i think of its extra with regard to the guy they are as an entire relatively, each guy or woman deals with issues in a distinctive way. some choose out of not understanding, some from loss of sympathy, some simply by fact its what they have been taught and a few simply by fact they see something they do unlike approximately themselves in others too.
2016-10-30 08:33:30 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are the sort off people that look as if they have every thing going for them but in most cases they are false sad gits that live a life of boredom.?????
2007-01-08 05:34:32 · answer #7 · answered by arthur3home 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats what you see of them.. but how much effort are the putting in each day to be "perfect"? no one is truly happy in life... i dont see anyone as perfect... everyone has at least one fault... to me, its the people who struggle in life who are more worthwhile being because they are so much stronger... they work through their problems.... it would be nice to look perfect and seem to have your whole life sorted... unfortunatly its a fairytale... you are probably a much better character than they will ever be...
2007-01-08 05:29:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
they annoy me! they are so perfect it seems pitiful right? and you should pity them. every one has there own problems and when you try to ignore and deny them and make them go away you must be miserable. no one is perfect. it just makes it worse when you pretend you dont have any problems.
2007-01-08 05:13:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i have.
however you only see them at work. not 24/7 so at home it could be completely different as people are good at acting!
2007-01-08 05:45:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋