Family & Relationships - 8 January 2007

hi this is lizz again things are so bad for me this year and i dont kno what i did to deserve the things thats happening to me. but i need help my guy friend asked me out today and its only been about 3 days since my big split with the guy that i was in love with! do you think i sould give it time? or just go with my guy friend? i dont kno what to do!!!!! most of my friends are telling me to just heal first the maby you should and some are telling me that i should i dont kno so help pleaz!!! thanx for the help!!!

2007-01-08 05:04:15 · 18 answers · asked by lizz 1 in Singles & Dating

I was talking with a person online, and when I ask this person a question, they reply with something that makes no sense to what I just asked or typed to them. I talked to them on the phone and they are the same way then too, and the person is not being mean or insulting, it's like they're not hearing me. Any suggestions on what could be wrong?

2007-01-08 05:03:43 · 5 answers · asked by blue 2 in Singles & Dating

quit being cheap ladies.

2007-01-08 05:03:04 · 11 answers · asked by Dick Richards 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 05:02:59 · 35 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family

I want one where I can have my fiance and my personalities in it. And that look somewhat like us....If anybody knows a reasonable priced place that can do this for me. I'd appreciate it!

2007-01-08 05:02:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

He flirts with other girls but whenever i ask him about it he denies it. and the worst thing is that its by ex-best friend! she flirts back but when i ask her she completely denies it and blaims it all on him! She gave him her cheerleading ribbons and my friend gave him a bracelet for x-mas whil we were dating!!!! Should i tell him that he needs to hit the rode, stay with him and see if it passes, or tell him that he needs to choose between them or me??????????
HELP!!!

2007-01-08 05:02:14 · 15 answers · asked by shak_ur_money_maker 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 05:02:02 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love my girlfriend,honestly, but we've only been together for a month. i would do anything for her though but she jus keeps making me question her commitment. she says that she loves me and for a while i believed her but one day she went out and gave a boy her number WHILE SHE WAS ON THE PHONE WITH ME. this was crazy and she always talks to other boys, but she swears up and down that they're just friends. she promised me she wouldn't lie to me and i've caught her in lies before. she always puts me on hold for like 3-5 mins. and 96% of the time it's a boy. one time i was on hold like 6mins. and i hung up and she never called back and i called her like 30mins. later and she said she was talking to a grown up(were teens)and then she said it was her friend(a boy) and i asked why and she said she didn't know but she does it all the time. recently i was going to see her and we had everything set and she promised we'd meet(she plays games)when i called she was at her friends house.WUT TO DO

2007-01-08 05:01:24 · 22 answers · asked by IisIam 3 in Singles & Dating

she has never had a boy friend.
her parents are devorced and she lives with her mom.
she is a senior and i'm am a junior, but we are same age.
can anyone help me?

2007-01-08 05:00:51 · 58 answers · asked by William K 1 in Singles & Dating

I have custody of my son he just turned 18. The judge signed a stop payment on child support do i still have to pay? whenever i had being paying prior to the judge stopping payment each time i would get layed of work and the state would say i hadn't paid anything is this legal?even though i was sending the payments to topeka,ks.

2007-01-08 05:00:45 · 4 answers · asked by percy the entertainer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 05:00:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I havent, thank God for that. One of my friends did. She told her son that they were wrestling. I dont know what I would do if that happened to me. Surely hope that the ground would open up at that moment. Anyway I thought that I would ask this since I have never seen this posted before.

2007-01-08 04:59:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-08 04:59:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My parents have selected a man for me to marry. All seems good in a way - I have no reason to reject the man as he is from a decent family, has a good job etc. etc...

However, since we met only thrice, I don't feel any connection with him.

How long do you think this connection will take to develop?

I'm also very uncomfortable going through with this marriage foe some reason - i cannot explain it - i'd like the wedding to be put off but I don't want to make my parents feel bad if i oppose and I don't want to ruin the relationship I share with them.

I know they want what is best for me - but fail to understand my feelings.

Kindly let me know how i can avoid or at least delay the wedding till I'm comfortable with the thought of marrying this man.

Also let me know what I can do to feel 'connected' to the man chosen for me. (He lives in different state so we'll be meeting directly on the day of the engagement now.... he is also busy and rarely talks on the phone....)

2007-01-08 04:58:36 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Hi everybody, i was dating for 5 month and yestoday he told me that he just wanna be my friend. I really love him, we even renting an apartment together. I didn t sleep at night, im still crying.

2007-01-08 04:57:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well...WHAT!!!

2007-01-08 04:57:49 · 4 answers · asked by RandomGreed 1 in Singles & Dating

questions like pals call me,my best friends,i wamma grow up to be,i m crazy about,my biggest achievements,my best asssets,i have a secret crush on,i hang around at,i am most comfy wearing,world leader i admire,wheels i'd like to own,my opinion about life,about you i feel.plz fill up these questions.plz i hv a gr8 trust on u all.

2007-01-08 04:57:35 · 4 answers · asked by lalit d 1 in Friends

ok i was with my ex for a while until a friend or ex friend of mine starting trouble between us and made us get into a big fight and i still really like him maybe even love him and we are beginning to talk again and flirt and today he kissed me and if he asks me out again should i take him back

2007-01-08 04:57:26 · 16 answers · asked by Boo 1 in Singles & Dating

is there something wrong with masterbating with a vibrator

2007-01-08 04:57:20 · 9 answers · asked by girly2012 2 in Friends

It's been over three weeks, nada contact with the ex then all of a sudden Bam!! out of the blue, Mr. so and so decides to leave a bag with a bottle of used shampoo and a box of cookies at my apt. door. So I ask you why? I am too old for this game. Why do exes sometimes try to break your strength down, what is the power point behind it, doesn't anyone believe in Karma anymore.

2007-01-08 04:56:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 04:56:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I chat to them in text, i talk to them with voice. But i just don't feel that they are my friends even though we have lots of friendly conversations. I feel like they are just imaginary friends. Can you really consider them real friends?

2007-01-08 04:56:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have 10 month with him and we see each other every day from second month. he says hi's in loe with me and i've said it back but now i'm not so sure, he very overprotective like a parent or something, and his allways geting mad at me for being out with my girlfriend or even out with my brother and sister. we've have many talks about that and but nothing changes.

2007-01-08 04:54:55 · 14 answers · asked by moro_vzla 1 in Singles & Dating

why do guys gotta cheat on gurls or why do gurls gotta cheat on guys to get sex they shouldnt even date sumbody if they wont a one nite stand

2007-01-08 04:54:35 · 8 answers · asked by Korky 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-08 04:54:17 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

in case you don't know what i'm talking about,
my friend needs a coulpe more adjectives
to spell out her boyfriend's name..

the letters left are:
N
H

thanks guys

2007-01-08 04:54:16 · 9 answers · asked by cool_flattop 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf of 3 months is 23 and i'm 22- He recently met up with his ex last wed and never told me (we had issues with her throughout our relationship) they met up for drinks (he told me he was w his friends), he told her hes not with me anymore, that he still loves her, misses her and he held her for like 5 mins and kissed her on the cheek when she was leaving. Then the entire next day that she was driving to her new state (she was moving).. he was texting her cutesy messages saying Thanks for all your love and calling her the nickname he used to call her, saying :YOUR THE BEST: and I'm going to miss you. I found all this out because SHE messaged me on myspace to confirm if him and i were broken up! I then called her and found all this out apparently hes been texting her throughout our relationship and I just feel DEVASTATED because we were planning a trip to vegas in 2 weeks and he told me that he wanted to marry me..Hes away now for 15 days (hes in the army) i changed my # but what else?

2007-01-08 04:54:06 · 32 answers · asked by BLoNdE22 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my ex have been broken up for about 3 months, we have an 11 month old daughter together. i have had a recent boyfriend name justin and told my ex 'mike that justin was a better dad than him just to piss him off, he acted different than i thought he left me voice mails on my cell sayin that he was going to kill us.but i know he will never do that.
i got a restraining order on him and now that he cant see his daughter his family is telling me that he has been depressed and cryin because of it. i took her over to see him and me and him clicked- kissing and like we was before....what should i do i love him so much and it is tearing my heart apart- i dont want my heart broken again...but i want to be with him, should i drop the charges and be with him...or be with him and keep the charges, should i even be with him?
i love him so much and he has changed so much...what should i do?

2007-01-08 04:54:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is an easy way to tell my brother-in-law that his girlfriend is cheating on him? He is 18 and she is 17. I know for a fact that she is cheating on him. I am afraid he will not believe me and if he does believe me I don't think he will care. I think he will look at it like he is getting a free piece of a**. But if she is sleeping with other guys, and I KNOW she has, he could get an STD from her. She is a trouble maker, she keeps getting suspended from school for fighting. Are there any suggestions of how I could get him to loose her as a g/f? I only care about his well-being.

2007-01-08 04:53:53 · 6 answers · asked by Loola 3 in Family

Ok, so my best friend, her boyfriend and me were just in the car driving back to drop me off, my friend's bf was driving and he went through a red light. He got caught by the police and we got pulled over where he got really upset because if he got the points he will definetly lose his licence because of troubles he has already. He was really upset but they gave him the 3 points anyway. Now he and my friend are appealing the points on the fact that the light was amber when he went threw it and because I was in the car I have to go to court and say so too. But I know that the light was red. I really don't want to lie but I don't want to lose my friend. Also if I do tell the truth then she'll get into trouble too for lying. I know the obvious answer is just tell the truth but put yourself in my shoes, I don't want to upset anyone, no one got hurt right? Please help, I can't lie in court but I can't lose my friend

2007-01-08 04:53:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends