Family & Relationships - 8 January 2007

Me and my gf have been together for about 5 months now. It was love at first sight. The problem is, all was fine until about month ago when she met this guy at a party. Now she talks to him A LOT, he's ALWAYS calling her and telling her how much he loves her and always trying to break us apart. She swears he's just a friend and I believed her for a while, but now things took a pretty bad turn. Yesterday they went to the movies and afterwards he went back to her place. She says that he tried to do a lot of things (fool around with her) but she stopped him. She also says that she did kiss him once and was kind of "teasing" him and cuddling with him and stuff.

She swears that's all that happened and that she did stop him but I don't know what to believe. She tells me he's just a friend and doesn't want anything with him but acts the opposite. I have talked to her about this but that's no help. Any suggestions on how to approach this better and maybe sort it out?

Thanks in advance!

2007-01-08 04:28:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend was severly abused physically and metally and he was adopted by his satist granndparents and gave back to the state. his real mom was a crack head and took him on tricks, shot up with him there ect. and she dropped him at his grandparents front steps at the age of 5 five. his grandparents stabbed him in the neck/shoulder pour scalding water on him... etc. he was adopted by the best parents ever but he doesn't love them and he has no preception of what a family is. hes been in and out of phyco-therapy anger management therapists and ect. im the only one hell talk to...heres the biggest problem... im pregant with his daughter... im aslo the only one he loves!! what do i do??????????????????? i wont leave him. i promise this is the truth!!!! oh i started learning all of this stuff after i got pregnant. i never ANY of this

2007-01-08 04:27:46 · 29 answers · asked by Natasha C 3 in Family

2007-01-08 04:27:33 · 45 answers · asked by beccy l 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 04:27:31 · 26 answers · asked by jessica_stay 1 in Singles & Dating

i put my real life picture up on here and this girl was obsessed leaving me comments about how hot i was and i was really cute but i told her to leave me alone because she is very ugly. i took my pic of now and told her to leave em alone but she still sends me email.s AHH what shoed i do

2007-01-08 04:26:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 04:25:58 · 18 answers · asked by rivers&dreams 1 in Friends

I actually find it hard to bring up the topic on the first date, but sometimes thats all we talk about on the first date, you feel me?How long did you wait,or how long is it required to wait?

2007-01-08 04:25:54 · 8 answers · asked by The Isht! 2 in Friends

Please I mean no harm in mentioning this but don't reply if your aren't in a relationship or have no experience with this similar problem.I have had a shakey relationship with my boyfriend and when he got back from Iraq I surprised him with a get-a-way trip to Las Vegas for New Years'During the trip, we had some disputes and problems and on the night of New Year Eve we had a fight in and he left me in the parade to go back to the hotel room.Well I eventually went back and was devastated that we missed the fireworks and the bliss of that night.I told him that I wanted to break it up because this relationship has reached its peaked and I don't want to enter New year like this.He begged and then his attitude changed toward me when his baby mama called our room.They were laughing chatting and we were having a relationship crisis. We managed to patch things up after Vegas but my daughter told me last night that while I was sleep he went into the den to talk to her secretly.Should I be aware

2007-01-08 04:25:46 · 6 answers · asked by sunny d 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have not been dating very long.... the sex is ok but not earth shaking... how important is it anyway?

2007-01-08 04:24:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and me have been together for about 3years and recently he had to moved about 3hours away from me to be with his mum, we split up for a short time, but now we are back together and are feelings are much stronger then befor, we started plaining him moving back in to my house. But then last week he applied for a plumbing corse which means hehas to stay where he is now. And now he cant moved down here for another year. Im so upset, he tells me he wants me so much but he has to do this forst. please help

xxxx

2007-01-08 04:24:13 · 28 answers · asked by xxpeachsoftxx 2 in Singles & Dating

Suppose both of you are living in a big city where public transportation is available. Just curious.

2007-01-08 04:23:34 · 27 answers · asked by hhfe 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so theres this HOT guy that I've known 4evr a friends, and I wanna go out with him. But how do I tell him. I'm in 7th grade and he will b my first. Dont gv me the too young to date thing, i dont want the fuc*n guilt trip.

2007-01-08 04:23:23 · 7 answers · asked by cgirl279 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been together for a little over two years now I have a daughter that is 11. And I am in such a spot I love my husband very much but I feel as I need to choose my daughter or my husband. My husband is expecting way to much out of my daughter and if she doesn't act like he thinks I am suspose to punish her and I don't. She is a pre teen and I think he is wanting to much out of her. We have two computers in our house right n ow he is out on the road for a few weeks. My daughter and I are not allowed on his computer at all. But the pc he has does belong to my daughter he is using it for 6 months. That is another story. I think my husband wants to much out of my daughter and he is a very selfish man. He said the reason he is like this is because everything he ever had got taken or broke. I am up holding my daughter all the way. Yes she does wrong but who don't. Is my husband wrong by being selfish? Or is just me.

2007-01-08 04:23:17 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 04:23:00 · 5 answers · asked by novalian 1 in Friends

i am desperate to find this person called gemma who worked at the red lion in denton bout 4 years ago. last i heard she moved to southend or wales with her new fella, she is not on friends reunited so if anyone can help i would be very gratefull indeed. if anyone can help please let me know

2007-01-08 04:22:07 · 10 answers · asked by modstox11 2 in Friends

i had a girlfriend who i liked alot(4 years ago) and she fould out that i fight people.http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bjyYqH_RHkw
im the one in the black mask. anyways i look like my avatar then and now and when she learned that i do this stuff than she broke up with me!? its my hobby its not fair that she judges me like that! its what i like to do! im afraid that if i get another girlfriend she'll judge me by what i love to do! so what should i do?

2007-01-08 04:21:34 · 7 answers · asked by # 1 edge head (Mr DEDEDE) 3 in Singles & Dating

i'm the youngest, I have 4 brothers. I really dont mind being the youngest.

2007-01-08 04:21:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My best friend is the funniest guy of the century and I trust him from the bottom of my heart. He's my best friend because my absolute BEST friend of 12 years moved out to Cali 2 years ago. I still talk to her, but not as much as I used to. HE didn't replace her, he just covered up the hole that was created in my heart when she left. Now he's IMPLYING that he's in love with me!! He keeps saying that he feels embarassed when he's around me, he's been thinking about me for the passed couple weeks and a bunch of other stuff. I Don't want to be with him like that b/c I'm afraid it'll ruin our friendship. AND I tolod him this!! plz tell me how I deal with it!!! should I just go out with him? should I try finding reasons to fall in love with him? Or am I doing the right thing to SAVE our friendship????

2007-01-08 04:20:02 · 6 answers · asked by goddess♥ 3 in Friends

...why can't anyone on here spell or ask grammatically correct questions? Am I the only person who has noticed this? Is it indicative of the state of our education systems and a general decline in correct use of the english language??

It annoys the f**k out of me!

2007-01-08 04:19:30 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have 3 boys and I pay c s a for them
But she wont let me see my boys anymore just because I have a girlfriend this has been going on for a year now (have been with new girlfriend 11 months)
They used to come to our house but since shes asked r divorce she wont let them come and now all because I have asked for 15% of the house when the boys grow up
Should I take her to court to force her to let me see my boys or should I leave it
And do you think it is right that a father who wants to see and provide should be forced top pay her full c s a payments or do you think they should give her less untill she lets me see them

2007-01-08 04:19:06 · 18 answers · asked by simon b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm upset because I'm 20 and dont have or never had a boyfriend. i'm seriously stariting to think there is something wrong with me. I get lonely because it seems like all my friends have someone and I dont. What is wrong with me?

2007-01-08 04:18:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just wanna know who is still close to their mom

2007-01-08 04:18:15 · 3 answers · asked by SEXY CRML 3 in Family

My husband and I have been together since I was 15 and he was 16. He told me he was in love with me the first day we met. It was overwhelming but nice. I graduated, worked, we bought an apartment together. Had a baby cuz he said it would bring us closer together. Bought a house and had another baby. We have been fighting on and off for years. He has left before. Since Christmas we have been getting along so well, it's crazy. We have a lil arguement. We go out for the day, the two of us, and on the way home says, y r we doing this? R u really happy? And yes i am, we fight, but who dosen't? Lil arguements turn into major fights. He has a bad temper and a short fuse. He says he loves me, he just needs time to figure things out. He thinks what we have is too much for him (too much responsibilty). I find it so unfair. What do i do? I changed for him so much and i get nothing in return. I tell him i'll do anything to make him happy. He says its not me, its him. What do i do? Please Help!!

2007-01-08 04:18:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Please reply

2007-01-08 04:17:42 · 11 answers · asked by teengalrishwa_9 1 in Singles & Dating

I have 3 boys and I pay c s a for them
But she wont let me see my boys anymore just because I have a girlfriend this has been going on for a year now (have been with new girlfriend 11 months)
They used to come to our house but since shes asked r divorce she wont let them come and now all because I have asked for 15% of the house when the boys grow up
Should I take her to court to force her to let me see my boys or should I leave it
And do you think it is right that a father who wants to see and provide should be forced top pay her full c s a payments or do you think they should give her less untill she lets me see them

2007-01-08 04:17:23 · 5 answers · asked by simon b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i just cant say no...to me and them... i dont find any difference in liking someone and being in love... whts the difference? how can i fall i loce again and again...? i dont think i was ever in love...

19/f

2007-01-08 04:16:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What can you do to make things better or be forgiven in an online relationship? I wasn't truthful about my age and other things. Is there any hope?

2007-01-08 04:16:58 · 17 answers · asked by Courtney M 1 in Singles & Dating

My mother is never happy with anything I have done in my life, I went to college, graduated, bought a house and got married. I have a happy life, and now I am pregnant with my first baby and we are so happy about it.

I told my family a few weeks ago and my mother was not happy, she is just bitter about everything. I knew she wouldn't be involved with the pregnancy or the baby, but it still hurts that she hasn't called me to see how I am doing or to talk about the pregnancy since she found out. She didn't even ask about my due date, names, etc. She doesn’t care about her first grandbaby.

How do I get over her and how she treats me? I am tying to be grateful for all I have, but its hard when my mom is pretty dead to me.

I don't want my mother to ruin my pregnancy and happiness like when I got married.

2007-01-08 04:16:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We broke up, but we both kept saying we loved each other and acted like we were going out for a period of 2 months... she came back decemeber break from college, avoided me.... "i have to clean my room" "i dont know maybe" excuses....

so i go to her house and tell her i love her to much to talk to her... She gets sad and says she wuld always be there waiting, shes sorry... We kissed, we still felt something... i could tell... and I left...

she wished me a merry xmas on face book (I didnt reply), she changed our relationship status to not talking (i didnt reply), and like 4 days ago she made a fake chat room...

and i told them I hate people who deliberatley hurt me, they said "im sure she did it by acccident she didnt know" "people change" "dnt u wnt her to be happy" but i named all the specific events she did to hurt me, lieing, ignoring etc

Should I tell her im not mad and im not angry and i too wnna be friends, or will she contact me again in some way? (in hopes she will comebac

2007-01-08 04:16:00 · 10 answers · asked by zach b 1 in Singles & Dating

would you do it? If there's no chance whatsoever you'd get caught, would you do it? Be truthful.

2007-01-08 04:14:53 · 32 answers · asked by AMBER D 6 in Marriage & Divorce