I'm upset because I'm 20 and dont have or never had a boyfriend. i'm seriously stariting to think there is something wrong with me. I get lonely because it seems like all my friends have someone and I dont. What is wrong with me?
2007-01-08 04:18:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's nothing wrong with you Brittany but you have to believe in yourself and the fact that in time you will meet someone with whom to spend your time with. Watch and learn from your friends as they have their relationships and do not repeat what you feel is wrong when you do have a boyfriend. Just because they have partners at present and you do not does not mean that your any less a nice person. Go out into the world and show them that you are a confident and responsible young woman and when Mr. Right comes along you'll be ready for a relationship, so don't try and rush it.
2007-01-08 04:24:33 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you, the right one has not come along. Don't get discouraged and don't chase after one. The ones you will find in bars are not what you want. My sister in law had no boyfriend until she was 26, now she is married and has three kids. Just wait for Mr. Right , he is out there somewhere. If you want to expose yourself, try the gym, a book review club at the library, go to a coffee shop and read the paper at the same time each day, there may be someone else , single , there at the same time, who might take interest in you. Stay away from the places where the men are only interested in one thing. Good luck and hang in there.
2007-01-08 12:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by vivib 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably absolutely nothing. Try not looking and you might find that you actually meet someone. If you're desperate to meet someone if often shows and puts people off from approaching you. I used to have this picture of that perfect bloke in my head and was single, but as soon as I forgot about it I met my husband. You're only 20 you've loads of time so just relax and enjoy going out.
Good luck x
2007-01-08 12:23:17 · answer #3 · answered by Jackie S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens to the best of us! You have to remember that you are a great person and have just not met the right guy yet. He is out there and you can't lose faith yet. You just have to remember to be yourself and get out ther and meet people. If you are sitting home alone doing nothing to try to meet guys then your not helping yourself. Join some singles clubs or online dateing places it's a great way to meet men the good the bad the worst and the best. Good luck!
2007-01-08 12:23:50 · answer #4 · answered by Stephany 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Theres probably nothing wrong with you. You just trying to wait for the right moment. Have you ever tried to flirt with a guy that you liked! Try to bring attention to yourself, so that a guy will notice you. But don't go crazy with it.
2007-01-08 12:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Build up the guts and ask out one of your classmates or one of your guy roomates that are in your dorm, or go to a party and hu with some guy there and then like ask him out or something
2007-01-08 12:21:09 · answer #6 · answered by Aaron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey babe im 21 and really dont feel bad you are probly a cool chick. dont be lonely! go out have fun and be 20
2007-01-08 12:23:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Post a pic, You might be to hot that you intimidate guys or you might not be giving the correct signals!
2007-01-08 12:21:01 · answer #8 · answered by lasdoom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there, i guess eveeryone has some one or other for him or her. you will surely have. may b the time is not rite yet for you. have patience, b gud. if you need an online friend to share then add me on your chat list bh37bh37@yahoo.com
x
tom
2007-01-08 12:21:53 · answer #9 · answered by bh37bh37 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with u ,wait for a proper person to come in ur life.i personally believe that god wil send that special person soon in ur life,but till tthat u have to wait.
2007-01-08 12:24:57 · answer #10 · answered by vrushali c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋