Family & Relationships - 8 January 2007

I have been dating her for over a year. I'm 27 and she's 25, but she is incredibly childish and selfish, and I can't deal with it anymore. My main concern is that she has really bad anxiety/depression issues, and I'm concerned that this is going to have a huge impact on her. I do care about her, but I literally have to do everything for her, from picking her up every time we go out, to making her pizza at 3 A. M. when she's drunk, to getting her a glass of water which is ten feet away. She won't do anything herself, she just whines until I do it. She's incredibly needy and selfish, but I don't want to hurt her.

2007-01-08 03:45:55 · 28 answers · asked by Andy Jones 2 in Singles & Dating

I found out my boyfriend gave his ex his cell number -? And was calling him. we were living together and I kicked him out.
He knew how much I did not like him talking to her. He says he does not want to be with her, but the past is on my mind. Should we try to reconcile? Should he not be friends with his ex? They used to have an intimate relationship, that he constantly threw in my face and hurt me with. I am not sure why he needs to be friends with her at all. Should I forgive and forget? And let them be friends? Should I get back together with him, let him move in?

2007-01-08 03:45:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 03:45:02 · 10 answers · asked by kool 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Are really large b00bs a blessing or a curse? We guys love to look at them and play with them, but the women have to have back trouble from them. Does anyone really need more than a nice C/D? I did once date a DD and she had lots of back trouble.

2007-01-08 03:44:11 · 9 answers · asked by hottimesforallwomen 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 03:44:04 · 7 answers · asked by Nabil k 1 in Singles & Dating

still get crushes at a age like 32???

2007-01-08 03:43:42 · 6 answers · asked by explosyv 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex boyfriend always told me that he wanted "strange"! We were together for awhile but do guys get like this? Do they have too much of a good thing that they want something different?

2007-01-08 03:43:38 · 11 answers · asked by *~loveyouall~* 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 03:43:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i can see why if he is !

2007-01-08 03:43:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my g/f sex drive is gone! and i have tried everything, even being stubborn and letting her initiate it, but nothing! she said it has nothing to do with me or anyone else, help me!!!!!!!!

2007-01-08 03:42:49 · 11 answers · asked by bad b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he says he's having some problems and doesn't call me as often as he used to he doesn't make the time for us to hang out he;s always with his friends should I stay or go?

2007-01-08 03:42:29 · 11 answers · asked by monick 1 in Singles & Dating

any ideas?eg
playing music and dancing like a fool around your bedroom
reading
geting drunk
buring exs pictures
what helps you?

2007-01-08 03:41:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was in a one year and six month relationship... im afraid he is goin to try to come bck... its been 7months we have been apart but he called me like a few days ago...
telling me that he wanted to see me what wld i do if he showed up... that he was hundred percent sure i wld kiss him bck if he did ... ect
i tld him he better not dare to try to interfere into my life that i was happy and because the fct he was so jealous maid a great impact in my life ect... that now i can't be serious and that i don't care much about ppl or wut i do n e more...
he said " not even your boody call" i said "no are you stupid i am scared of you and i don't want to end up hurt" he said, "i though u didn't care... why should it bothr u" & said, " i knw if i go over there & kiss u, you will kiss me bck i know it..." i don't knw what to do and think give me advice.. i truely think 1 of this days his goin2 try2 *** bck N show up. i don't knw if i should trust him.. when above everythin he never trust me

2007-01-08 03:41:40 · 12 answers · asked by gina g 2 in Singles & Dating

and i want to pop the question this year. When may be a good time to do it. I was thinking for her birthday in June.

2007-01-08 03:41:27 · 14 answers · asked by roadburner2616 2 in Singles & Dating

I arranged an after Christmas Rugby Match at my club and went to the pub afterwards with the opposing team. We are all good freinds, It was my round so I got up and went to the bar, where a man of about my age tried to pick a fight with me, I'm 6ft 4 and the guy was about 6 one or two. I ignored the taunts about my height and started to take the drinks over to my freinds whereby he tripped me up, I even ignored that and calmed my freinds down but when he spat in my face I lost it and hit him right on the button breaking his nose. I also put his two freinds out of action. My freinds escorted the guys out of the pub thankfully no police were called. The problem is I work in an office and am known for being soft as a lamb (that is my nature I don't hurt anyone physicaly or mentaly) The problem is this guy has started at my firm as graphics design Manager. Although not my line manager, could be. I'v seen him but he is not aware of me yet. What should I do?

2007-01-08 03:40:29 · 15 answers · asked by Redmonk 6 in Singles & Dating

thongs or boyshort panties?

2007-01-08 03:40:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am at university f/t and in my final year. I am skint and in debt as all student nurses are. I moved home to live cheaper. My problem is that my mother has a live in partner who is a bully and control freak. He is the sort that bullies small guys and women. I go to bed and he purposley wakes me by stamping outside my door through the nights and hides my things so on..My mum wont do anything about it as she lives in denial (he is the same with her) I also have a partner who wont move out with me as he wont get a job as he wants to be a succesful artist (no money earning at all) He also wont allow me to live with anybody else(he is jealous) I cant pay my own rent anywhere as i only earn bursary and a small wage when I have time to work. I am being disturbed all the time whilst studying as I use comunal computers (he wont allow a computer at home) I am slowly being driven mad, any advice???

2007-01-08 03:40:01 · 8 answers · asked by Abigail 3 in Singles & Dating

Is 7 too big or just right?

2007-01-08 03:39:59 · 4 answers · asked by True Grits 3 in Singles & Dating

Well here it goes I have two older sisters. My older sister called me last week to tell me we need to start helpping my mom out. My mom is 52 years old and healthy with no job! She leaves with a roommate in a home. So my sister wants to open a bank account for my mom and she wants each one of us to put $150.00 each month for her. So all together it would be $500.00 a month. It might not be a lot of money to others but to me $150.00 a month is. My older sister works and so does her husband, so between them they make great money. The middle sister is very wealthy since she married someone with lot's of money. Myself well I am very bless because I might not have a lot of money but I get to stay home to raise my child and take care of the home. The thing is I know I can't help them out every month for the rest of my life. So my older sister has been pressurring me and I am getting so frustrated. How can I tell her I just can't help them out? Please give me advice!!

2007-01-08 03:39:53 · 13 answers · asked by hazelshine 4 in Family

My sister and her family went away on a holiday overseas to America and asked my mum to mind their cat. Mum said that was fine.
They left on 26 December and havn't yet phoned her to say if they have arrived.
They gave her no contact phone numbers where she could reach them and failed to give her an idea when they would be back. She was really worried today so I contacted my sister's best friend to see if she had heard from them and she had told me she had received a few emails. My sister dosn't speak to me and so I had no idea if she and her family had arrived.
I thought at least they would have phoned just to see how mum was coping with the cat. Do you think it's polite for family to call just to say they have arrived
or not really any of our business?

2007-01-08 03:39:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He's in preschool and the only black boy there. I get a lot of criticism from my friends. They say I pay a monthly tuition whereas he could be going to Head Start for free. And they also say it's not good for him and he should be in a better environment (mix races). I haven't had a problem yet. He has great teachers. The facility is great. He has one more year of preschool coming up. Should I let him go back again next year? By the way, I have another little boy who is to start preschool....should I send him to the same one or to Head Start? I don't know if I can afford both.

2007-01-08 03:38:20 · 19 answers · asked by sdc 2 in Family

by the way it always happens n it sucks ask me !! u just become misrable 4 lyk forever n at the end either we get couple of moment of happiness or we stay the same TURUORED . and only lucky people dunt even know wat am talkin abt !!

2007-01-08 03:38:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfreind want me to have sex with him or else he is going to leave me

2007-01-08 03:37:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 03:36:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 03:36:47 · 7 answers · asked by Flower Power 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There is alot that has been happening in my life in the past little while. I would just like to know how so people deal with emotional pain in their way

2007-01-08 03:36:46 · 26 answers · asked by rabbitmt05 1 in Family

I have a wife (11years) and three kids, house, good job and sometimes I sit and think about just getting up, "going to get a loaf of bread" and starting over. I would never really do it but the thought is appealing sometimes. Does anyone else ever think about this?

2007-01-08 03:35:26 · 8 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Marriage & Divorce

snow white? cinderella? ariel, the little mermaid? rapunzel? sleeping beauty? WHY?

2007-01-08 03:35:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in love with someone that only cares for me as a friend. We have been going out as friends for a month and I truly fell in love with him but he seems to still miss his last girlfirend. On the other hand I've also have a friend that has fallen in love with me. I don't know what to do.

2007-01-08 03:34:51 · 10 answers · asked by bachlorette 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating a guy for a little less than a year. We both have one child from previous relationships. Usually, he has his daughter the same weekend that I have my son. Here's one of my dilemas, last weekend, my son was with his dad, and my boyfriend had his daughter. I really wanted the time w/out my son to my self, I wanted to enjoy the peace and quiet. Well, I felt bad, so I asked if they wanted to come over Friday night (just one night). They did, and they ended up spending the night, lounging all over my house all day saturday, and then finally at about 10:30 pm, he told his daughter to get her stuff ready so they could leave. Well, I felt the pressure on me, so I said they could stay if they wanted to. They did and then hung out all day yesterday too. I didn't get one free moment the whole weekend. I'm bummed because a quiet weekend is rare for me. Next time, how can I tactfully get them to leave. I'm not trying to be selfish, but I wanted some "me" time.

2007-01-08 03:34:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating