I found out my boyfriend gave his ex his cell number -? And was calling him. we were living together and I kicked him out.
He knew how much I did not like him talking to her. He says he does not want to be with her, but the past is on my mind. Should we try to reconcile? Should he not be friends with his ex? They used to have an intimate relationship, that he constantly threw in my face and hurt me with. I am not sure why he needs to be friends with her at all. Should I forgive and forget? And let them be friends? Should I get back together with him, let him move in?
2007-01-08 03:45:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I asked him why he gave it to her and he siad he didn't know. I asked what they talked about he said i dont know, I asked hwo she was doing.
2007-01-08 03:49:08 · update #1
When you mention that "he constantly threw in my face" their intimate relationship, I don't think he is worth saving. The guy you are seeing should be building you up. A good book for you is He's Not That Into You and Why Men Love Bit**es. They will help you find a good guy who will build you up and not tear you down. Good luck!
2007-01-08 03:49:59 · answer #1 · answered by Faith 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yea, you should reconcile. She's an ex for a reason. He should talk to her less. You should both see what he gets from her, and see if you can create it between the two of you.
The ex is free to see other guys, and someday she will- so that's not safe for him either. Ex's don't bother me as much as future or present opposite sex chatter- they are the ones you have to worry about!
2007-01-08 03:49:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he needs time to sort his head out - if he is in contact with his ex whilst he is going out with you then you did the right thing - hopefully he will realise that she is his ex for a reason and make up his mind. It is up to you if you want to wait for him but make it clear that if he is with you then he cannot contact his ex. I do not think it is a good idea for them to be friends as it seems he hasn't got over her - and being friends with an ex is very hard
2016-05-23 10:33:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you question the relationship, let him go, did you ask him why he gave the ex the number? You need to find that out before you can close that chapter out.
2007-01-08 03:48:03 · answer #4 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He knew it bothered you, but did it anyways, so he doesn't respect you. I don't even think he should be your boyfriend... this guy is just trying to leave his options open and probably wants to get back into the sexual relationship with his ex. Just dump him already. He isn't worth your time.
2007-01-08 04:06:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he was keeping his options open because you over react about everything. I was married once and the reason my marriage failed was because I had girlfriends before i met my wife. She had Boyfriend before me but it was fine. She expected me to apologize for having relationships before her. I never would. She always got upset becaue I lved before I knew her. I never cared what she did before me but with her it was different. Well she left me when she found a pussy that would apologize and cry about having relationships before her. The reason. he loved her because she would apologize. i didn't becaue I wouldn't apologize for relaatioships before her. Just forget about the ex. If he is having sex with her get mad. fi not get over it. quit acting like a baby
2007-01-08 04:06:21 · answer #6 · answered by SuperSoldierGIJOE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't even bother!! it looks like he still has mixed emotions about his ex don't give me that he is just wanting her ex as a friend!loll
that is a lie it doesn't work only at 3 am probably if you know what i mean.
p.s
check his cell phone bill you will be amazed, trust me!
2007-01-08 04:10:46 · answer #7 · answered by juan z 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think both of you should concentrate on trying to grow up. How do you expect to get anywhere worrying about such silly things as who has who's phone number?
2007-01-08 03:56:40 · answer #8 · answered by smoke 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't make your situation worse by letting him move in, that's for sure. I wouldn't get to attached to this guy. He sounds like he is keeping his options open.
2007-01-08 03:47:17 · answer #9 · answered by IMHO 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i dont kno about this one..but i do beleive people should have a second chance...see i wouldnt ever let my boyfriend have his ex as a friend because i dont see the poin i mean yeah o trust him but he dont want his ex as a friend any ways...but its up to you..do you trust him
2007-01-08 03:49:39 · answer #10 · answered by little_attractive_kitty 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋