My boyfreind want me to have sex with him or else he is going to leave me
2007-01-08 03:37:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's all he wants then. Dump him before he dumps you. He'll dump you anyway if you give it up.
Good Luck & Be Careful!
2007-01-08 03:39:02 · answer #1 · answered by Allison 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you can't spell "you're," you should not be criticizing other people's spelling.
But let's address the question at hand. You should not have sex with this guy. Why? Not because I think you're too young (I have no idea how old you are), not because it's wrong, but simply because you don't seem like you want to.
The only reason you are considering it is that your boyfriend has threatened to break up with you if you don't. You didn't say anything like, "I really want to, but I'm nervous about it." This needs to be about you. You should never have sex because someone else wants to, only because you both want to. And when that becomes the case, BE SAFE.
If this dude wants to breaks up with you over this, let him. You'll be glad to be rid of the pressure, and there will always be other guys.
2007-01-08 04:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by eddiehaskell84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If any guy ever says he'll leave you if you don't have sex with him then let him go. He obviously has no respect for you and it sounds like all he wants is sex. That means he'll probably leave you after he gets it, so I wouldn't if I were you. Tell him either he waits or you'll leave him and if he goes then let him go. I mean that's just not right of him to give you a ultimatum like that, so he's not worth it.
2007-01-08 03:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello =)
For as long as there have been boys and girls, this has been a "pressure tactic" that boys have used. Let him leave you, if that's the way he feels.
Wait and have sex when you are ready, not when your boy is ready.....boys are always ready. If he leaves you, then you know he only wanted you for sex, and that makes him unworthy of you. Then you can find someone else who is.
Namaste,
--Tom
2007-01-08 03:41:40 · answer #4 · answered by glassnegman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with this saying no commitment no sex. He has made it clear what he wants and is unwilling to conform so he gave an ultimatum. Ditch the jerk and find someone who cares about you. Keep your virginity.
2007-01-08 03:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you spell verginity like this instead of like this...virginity then you are not ready...u do it when u want to.
2007-01-08 03:43:14 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on how old u are i was 13 then two days after i lost it we brock up. if u & that guy break up then u will fell left behind or invaded. couse he can go around sayin stuff like he is the one u lost it to or u dont no how to do eny thing or somthing like that.
2007-01-08 03:41:25 · answer #7 · answered by taylor f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is leaving you because yo won't sleep with him then he is not worth it! All he wants is sex and if he can't wait until you are ready then he is a jerk!
2007-01-08 03:40:30 · answer #8 · answered by pelenpuppy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make sure u got a warranty card 4 it. VERGINITY? s that a china?
2007-01-08 05:12:41 · answer #9 · answered by Athan Cole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If you don't want to don't do anything. If he is trying to pressure you then he is no good. He should respect your decisions. If he leaves you then you are better off. He sounds like a jerk if he is pressuring you.
2007-01-08 03:39:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
being forced into a situation is no reason to stay with someone. perhaps you should relax, take some time to learn to spell, and when you're mature enough, comfortable enough and have someone who actually cares and respects you you'll be ready.
2007-01-08 03:39:57 · answer #11 · answered by marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋