Family & Relationships - 8 January 2007

If anyone is an attorney or involved in any legal profession that could help with my divorce, please help me. I just need some advice and I can't get anyone to talk to me. Here is my situation. My wife filed for divorce in November, I received the petition in December so my answer is due any day. Also, she just had our child on the 3rd, although I will be looking to verify that with a DNA test. I live in Florida, however, I am here in Ohio until Friday to see the baby and get as much accomplished as possible. I will be trying to get custody, she's bipolar and manic depressive and whatnot. She cut herself for years, including recently before she found out she was pregnant. She has also physically assaulted me in arguments - if any of this help. So if you know anything and you might be able to help, please IM me or send and email or something, I would appreciate it sooo much! Thank you!

2007-01-08 03:19:10 · 10 answers · asked by etathej 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Alright.. I know this may sound stupid and i will appriciate it if there were no rude immature comments.. But here it goes.. My girlfriend and I have been going out for like 3 weeks.. Every day with her is a laugh and a half.. Saturday night was a dance and everything went perfect but the thing is i miss her so much and i always think about her and i worry about her which makes me panic. My friend says I have a big heart because im always worrying about someone else.. People just tell me i need a vacation from all this crap.. Which hopefully im gunna do this weekend.. Takeing a car trip to my friends town and gunna be with them for a while.. Well typeing it out actually makes me feel a little better.. This Yahoo Answers thing is a great idea.. Helped me threw alot of *&%$.. But i guess the question is: How do i truly clear my mind and get my mind off all the stupid crap which i shouldnt be worrying about. Girls etc etc.. Dont say just change my mind.. I have ADD its kinda hard.. haha

2007-01-08 03:19:01 · 9 answers · asked by eighty dee 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 03:18:55 · 5 answers · asked by sweethopez 1 in Singles & Dating

I am really insecure about my breasts...

I am 31 and they are uneven (one is bigger), I think they sag a bit too much and my n*pples are almost invisible....

I have a group of friends who often go topless in hottubs, but I alwasy find an excuse to not attend or participate.

I want to do it, but I am so nervous.

Guys, does it really matter what a woman's breasts look like? Or is really unimportant?

Thanks...

2007-01-08 03:18:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am recently divorced and single again and looking for fun. But when I look for a relationship, will a woman care about the fact that I am divorced?

2007-01-08 03:18:37 · 2 answers · asked by Steve 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 03:18:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a girl I've been liking for 6 months. I finally confessed to her two months ago (before Thanksgiving) that I like her and she told me that friendship is as far as she'll go with me. I told her that I respected that. Now, for the first time in 6 months, she likes to touch my arm when she talks to me. Could this be a sign that she is starting to like me or am I just doing wishful thinking?

2007-01-08 03:18:18 · 9 answers · asked by CHRIS 1 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone know a half-cast male aged around 28-30 who come out of a dorset prison in September although may be in london... he's nicknamed cloud? Real name is Damien sudgen..
Any1 knows that b great Thanx :-)

2007-01-08 03:18:05 · 11 answers · asked by Hayley 3 in Friends

My ex got digital cable in his name when we moved in together. Kept it even after he moved out (hence the moron part), now for all the sh!t he's done and just because he's a jerk, I've started ordering movies on demand - just because. Here's my dilemma. It's fun, but quite immature. Do I:
A - keep it up and let him worry about it, and deal with it if he finally decides to shut off the account
B - stop ordering movies to p!ss him off and just take advantage of the free cable
C - get the account shut off and restarted in my own name, even though I'd be giving up the free cable

2007-01-08 03:16:56 · 17 answers · asked by angelbaby 7 in Singles & Dating

I am in a strange situation. When I met my husband I immediately thought "Wow! He has 90% of the qualites I always wanted in a partner" But I had a really hard time deciding to marry him or not cause I didnt particuarly loved his culture (or the stereotypes of his culture).
Anybody in the same situation?

2007-01-08 03:16:36 · 10 answers · asked by Alejandra 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-08 03:15:59 · 23 answers · asked by cathie t 1 in Family

I am 20 years old and live at home. I go to school full time (15 credits, 5 classes) at community college and plan on transferring to a 4 year and commuting and living at home still. I also work 25 hours a week and close to full time during any breaks I have. Should I move out on my own?

2007-01-08 03:15:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

She said we could "encourage" each other, but I think she has other reasons because of the way she asked. What could they be?

2007-01-08 03:14:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love this man but i just feel like i can't tell him that he is not cutting it in bed. i mean i do enjoy it but i just don't have and orgasm, wich i was having ..pls help me..

2007-01-08 03:13:40 · 14 answers · asked by vivi010571 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a freind that i was bff's with for about 2 years before i met my current boyfriend. My current boyfriend thinks i slept with my bff and i didnt what should i do

2007-01-08 03:13:28 · 21 answers · asked by Brittany 1 in Family

2007-01-08 03:11:06 · 33 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 03:10:32 · 10 answers · asked by destinee h 2 in Weddings

the problem is my best friends wife is making passes at me i believe. She is always hugging on me and inviting me over when my friend is there or not. I told him about it but he just says thats the way she is, she is just a touchy friendly person who looks at his friends being her friends. she has never made any unapporpriate passes at me i suppose, nothing more than hugs but i just feel uncomfortable with her hugging me so much and willing to let me come over when he is not there. She is hot and i dont want to do anything to lead her on. Pleas help!!!!!

2007-01-08 03:10:15 · 10 answers · asked by mr_football2004 2 in Friends

I've previously posted questions about the step children; they hate me and I still am not sure why. Over the weekend they got together and asked their father to leave me. They said that they don't like me and am tired of not being able to visit him at his home (they can visit, but choose not to because I'm here). They insisted that he get a DNA test for our daughter. He told them "I'll think about it." I was flabbergasted and cried in the bathroom for hours.

I don't want my tears to influence his decision to stay or go. I'm not even sure that I want to wait for him to decide. Part of me wants to kick his a*s*s out of our house and refust to let him see the baby ever again. Then the other part of me wants to wait for him to see that his older kids are just being mean. Any advice?

2007-01-08 03:09:53 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i recently hooked up with a girl that i enjoyed her company, and i think we could definitely go somewhere with a relationship, we were so cute together...anyway, i still live with my rents and fam (which i NEVER have privacy, time to myself at the house, etc...never) and theres not much to do around me, and right now my money issue isnt looking good (so dinners and go-out-dates are out of the picture)...im looking for things that we could do over one anothers place to spend quality time without getting bored or not doing anything, obviously we can watch movies or watever, but that gets old...ladies/gentlemen? can u help give me some ideas, what to do, id really like to be elsewhere than my place cuz of everyone that is always there, so what can i come up with to do (shes not one to offer something yet so, its all up to me and my ideas) thanx

2007-01-08 03:09:45 · 6 answers · asked by clownwitafrown 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 03:08:41 · 9 answers · asked by #1G.I.G 1 in Friends

My marriage with my wife has been no fairy tale, but as far as I was concerned we were conciously working on our issues and had a very good thing going. We also have a 4 year old daughter. Two years ago she cheated on me with a mutual friend. I decided to stay in the marriage and work it out. I just found out she is doing it again, this time with a stranger. So we are splitting up. I have no money for lawyers, and we are not fighting, it'll be a "friendly" divorce. But I need to know what I have to pay (or the formula) for child support. We don't own real estate and the other possessions are no big deal. Does anybody know some kind of child support formula for the state of California? Am I obligated to provide that? Even if she cheated twice? Please help... Thank you

2007-01-08 03:07:51 · 28 answers · asked by Allinone 1 in Marriage & Divorce

but when I turn and look at the firemen here, they're out of shape and not that good looking. Is it me or just Television....

2007-01-08 03:07:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Its at the end of Jan, not sure what to do that's special but also cost effective! I was thinking maybe a ride on the London eye?

2007-01-08 03:07:04 · 15 answers · asked by me_me 1 in Singles & Dating

how soon did you decide to remarry? How did you know the time was right?

2007-01-08 03:07:02 · 18 answers · asked by ?Confused? 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 03:06:41 · 13 answers · asked by ashley 1 in Singles & Dating

I have ben going out with my b/f now for 8 months we spend alot of time together..if hes not sleeping at my house I am at his..but I am sooo confused..He wont hold me at all..he wont kiss me at all..we hardly ever make love..and then its not realy love that we make...he says its not who he is..to hold and kiss and I just dont know if its a line of bull or if he is just mental...he treats me good and we dont fight..sooooo if there is a man out there that feels the same way he does please share.. or if he is just using me..but for what I have no idea...do you have any??

2007-01-08 03:06:22 · 7 answers · asked by dreamzzz102 3 in Singles & Dating

i'm married,28 2 kids own home,car etc. and my mother is awful to me,she thinks she helps me loads and that i take the piss,in actual fact i'm scared to ask her a favour,cos i get shouted at for no apparrent reason,my sister on the other hand can do no wrong,my mother minds her baby at least one day a week while she is at work,my sister's husband doesn't work. I can't win i take her places in the car and spend time with her but i'm starting to wonder why and if she's actually holding me back . I had my son at 19 and she's always interferred my relationship with him has suffered tremendously through this. I have tried to talk to her for at least 8 years about this problem,but she shouts me down as if i'm being silly,i know she's my mother but i do feel like cutting her off compleatly,if it wasn't for the annual chance she might do me a fovour i would,help.

2007-01-08 03:06:09 · 11 answers · asked by heebygeeby 4 in Family

I was married 11 yrs. It was hard. Very long story, but I was with my husband from age 20-34, and now that we've been separated 1 month, he already has a new girl. It's no loss cause he was verbally & mentally abusive. I dont want him back at all. I pretend to be someone else on myspace & he feel for it, and talked so much crap about me (his wife). I confronted him, but I have so much anger, sadness, loss but yet I hate him, how do I feel better? I already have a boyfriend who is the best guy in the world. We had been together for 2 yrs while my husband and I had separated before. I only broke up with him to try again with my husband. I moved from CA to NY to be with my husband and as soon as I got there, it sucked. I was there 11 months till my husband kicked me and my 4 kids out on Thanksgivingh night. I drove 25 hrs and came back to my ex-boyfriend who was waiting for me & never stopped loving me. I'm happy but I'm just having a really hard time. How do I overcome this and move on?

2007-01-08 03:05:57 · 23 answers · asked by newyorkjenna 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my best friend gave me a neckless but it nothing i would wearing should i tell her that i don't like it or just forget about and not wear it what should i do help

2007-01-08 03:05:56 · 5 answers · asked by candygurl_4_ever 1 in Friends