I am really insecure about my breasts...
I am 31 and they are uneven (one is bigger), I think they sag a bit too much and my n*pples are almost invisible....
I have a group of friends who often go topless in hottubs, but I alwasy find an excuse to not attend or participate.
I want to do it, but I am so nervous.
Guys, does it really matter what a woman's breasts look like? Or is really unimportant?
Thanks...
2007-01-08 03:18:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do you really think every one else was really secure when they first went topless and if they are the same age as you they probably dont look that good anymore either
2007-01-08 03:31:10 · answer #1 · answered by Meredith 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you don't really feel comfortable going topless. The chances are, your breasts are perfectly fine, and no one else would notice the "imperfections" that you do. Being overly critical about your breasts may be an subconscious excuse not to bare yourself in front of others. Go with your instincts. You don't have to make excuses for not attending or participating in events that are uncomfortable to you. If you are feeling pressured, maybe this isn't the crowd for you.
2007-01-08 03:30:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I personally think you should go and enjoy yourself. Who cares what other people think! if they are uneven its because thats the way God made ya so its not a big deal. He is the question that most guys are gonna care about... what size are they because if they are big then they gonna stare. If they are average they gonna look and if they are smaller a lot of guys will look and then stare at the chick with the DD's.
2007-01-08 03:26:20 · answer #3 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are you the chick that I saw the picture of in the inquirer? If so then damn girl you have to get those fixed....I mean on the right side you have A-cup, and on the left side you have a C-cup!
2007-01-08 05:28:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Breasts are not symetrical, one is always bigger. If others are topless you would be less obvious if you were topless too. Just do it.
My wife lost a breast and had it reconstructed and she goes topless whenever she can.
2007-01-08 05:03:44 · answer #5 · answered by big_mustache 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Please relax about this.
Nobody is perfect and if your group of friends is near your age, they should know this.
Sexual or not, the hottub is a place to relax. I really hope that you can be at least semi comfortable.
2007-01-08 03:30:42 · answer #6 · answered by I know for sure 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well if they are you friends then it should not matter when you see theres you will be surprised. if they have perfect boobs the are probly really young or have boob jobs so dont worry to much.
2007-01-08 03:27:13 · answer #7 · answered by cosmo26 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I HAVE AN IDEA TELL ME WHEN AND WHERE IS THIS PLACE YOU GO SO I CAN GIVE YOU MY HONEST OPINION I HAVE TO SEE FOR MYSELF.
2007-01-08 04:10:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
it does matter a lot.
2007-01-08 03:25:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
IT DOES NOT MATTER
THEY ALL LOOK NICE
2007-01-08 03:27:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋