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I have a freind that i was bff's with for about 2 years before i met my current boyfriend. My current boyfriend thinks i slept with my bff and i didnt what should i do

2007-01-08 03:13:28 · 21 answers · asked by Brittany 1 in Family & Relationships Family

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Jealously in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship is normal. Guys usually sense that the best guy-friend has a romantic interest in you long before you do, call it "men's intuition". Unless your guy-friend is gay....then, well. If your boyfriend is unreasonably jealous of your friendship, and the truth will not satisfy him, choose the friend, a new boyfriend will come along.
Basically, if he doesn't believe you about not sleeping with your friend, your a liar, in his eyes. NOT GOOD! Get a new man.
However......if you take a good look at how your friend acts around you without boyfriend, as well as with your boyfriend, (is friend trying to make boyfriend jealous, touchy feeling, brings up little "just the two of you" things to exclude the boyfriend, ect. Choose the boyfriend. It's always a bummer when you gotta choose. Good luck!

2007-01-08 03:33:24 · answer #1 · answered by ne_art1 2 · 0 0

Well your boyfriend has to be confident in himself and know that he is doing a good job being your dude first of all. Second of all if he had a female best friend and told everything to would you feel like he does? 3rd if it makes him uncomfortable maybe you should back off the best boyfriend for the sake of your relationship if you really care about this guy. Your best Guy friend should understand this . if he doesnt its because he is digging you for his self and has not figured out in 2 years how to tell you. But on the other hand if he is Gay.. than just tell your dude that hes gay and not to worry. But on the real. I have never met a guy that is bestfriends with a woman that he did not want at some point and time. and maybe still wants.

2007-01-08 03:19:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

How long have you and your current boyfriend been going out?
If this is going to work out your boyfriend needs to accept the fact that you have friends that are guys. You cannot stop being friends with someone because he doesn't like it. Does he have any girls that are just friends. If he doesn't this might be the problem. Make sure you include him when you are going somewhere with this person, then he will see that it is just a friendship. Some people need to see this for themselves.

2007-01-08 03:19:19 · answer #3 · answered by pegleg 1 · 1 0

Mmm, I think that your boyfriend don't trust you. And trust is a very important part of a relationship. Maybe your friend treats you better than your boyfriend, or that your boyfriend don't want you to have a bestguyfriend.

I trully think that this behavior will get worse, and he will even be jealous of anybody who look at you in the street.

Really, leave him because this WILL get worse. He doesn't respect you as a woman, and your friend was first than him.

Look for someone who respects you. And good luck!!

2007-01-08 03:26:03 · answer #4 · answered by roxifoxiv 3 · 0 0

This is because a lot of guys can't even grasp the concept having a platonic relationship with a member of the opposite sex. I would tell him to either accept it once and for all and get over it, or tell him to find himself another girlfriend. The bottom line is that he doesn't trust you. You've told him you haven't slept with the guy and he doesn't believe you so he's pretty much calling you a liar. That's unacceptable in my opinion.

2007-01-08 03:23:36 · answer #5 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 1 0

My boyfriend is jealous of my best guyfriend too. I still hang out with him and I just tell him that he hangs out with his friends that are girls and its the same thing. I mean talking to your boyfriend and coming to an agreement that you guys really want to be with each other may be the best solution. I know that my boyfriend wants to be with me and he know that I want him. So we just agree that we are glad to have each other in that special way that our opposite sex friends can't have us. Sorry if that was confusing I just confused myself kinda...

2007-01-08 03:23:01 · answer #6 · answered by Krystle D 2 · 0 0

I have been in the same situation. And if he can't trust you when you say you haven't slept with you best friend then maybe the relationship shouldn't be because if he can't trust you know when its an even bigger thing he wont be able to trust you then either..

2007-01-08 03:19:58 · answer #7 · answered by kshaw91 2 · 0 0

Your jealous and so is your guy friend. A b/f should be the person that you like the most. So stop playing games with the boys and stick with your guy friend and dump the boyfriend.

2016-05-23 10:25:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Ur case just like mine.Her boyfriend jealous at me cuz we seem too close.Wat i do is i try to give some room for her boyfriends to understand me. like we talk.we text. and now her boyfriend seem understand the relationship between me and my friends.

2007-01-08 04:37:52 · answer #9 · answered by danial rulli 2 · 0 0

you can always have a best guyfriend beside your boyfriend, but it will make your boyfriend mad anyway.
you should not talk about your best friend to your boyfriend, no guy would like it. if you really like both and want to keep both never let them hear anything about each other.

2007-01-08 03:16:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

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